bee444:
Interviewing agberos who lacks social tolerance speaks volume of how mentally unbalance Nigerian mens are. Imagine denouncing who they love just because the woman can't cook?

What happened to teaching her with love, and sending her to catering school? Smh

pcguru1:


Ha Chinese rice I can waste money on it, I love it like mad, I must learn to save money from spending on marcopolo

Kenneth205:
Don't no about you guys o... but me

*I don't trust people who bleed for days and don't die*

raayah:


Trust me, if you bake a sweet cake for a woman personally, she'll love you for life.

Imagine making breakfast for your wife or even serving her well made eba and egusi after she comes back from work or after bathing the children. she'll be extremely happy.

The way to a woman's heart is definitely food.

Cook for your wife today!!'

steppin:
Why on earth would any sane man marry a woman who can't cook? If I get married, it should be for change. From eating out to coming home to a wonderfully prepared meal. Other things too.

beautiful232:
But I can cook indomie nau

sade1994:
Thank God I can cook the basics and intermediates

So no need to panic

daretodiffer:
You don't need a wife to do that. A chef can always give you that

tintingz:
Does cooking guarantee happy marriage?.

Ginaz:
If cooking is a must then why marriage still breaking?

That's crap.

nunogomez:
this country no go better again, I will definitely not marry a Nigerian girl, I will go and marry from my village in Rivers state.

sade1994:
Thank God I can cook the basics and intermediates

So no need to panic

repogirl:
I noticed that they mostly interviewed sokpan boys who lack exposure but the few men who were older and possibly already married were more tolerant of the idea.

Yes, a woman should know how to cook but in the case where she doesn't, other factors should also determine the best action to take.

Does she want to learn?
Does she have other redeeming qualities about her?
Her personality, etc....

What if she doesn't know how to cook but she is industrious, hardworking and a really caring woman who contributes financially to the family, would you still act the same way? I doubt it.

pcguru1:


Well I've seen men who cook for the wife too but it's rare cuz even couples have househelp making foods. Lagos is stressful to start cooking after coming back from work

daretodiffer:
You don't need a wife to do that. A chef can always give you that

jabojafa:
do you know d duties of a woman in a home? U better start reading about ur duties as a woman....

raayah:


Trust me, if you bake a sweet cake for a woman personally, she'll love you for life.

Imagine making breakfast for your wife or even serving her well made eba and egusi after she comes back from work or after bathing the children. she'll be extremely happy.

The way to a woman's heart is definitely food.

Cook for your wife today!!'

jabojafa:
na stay @ home man fit get dt tym.. Wen match dey man go come stay hus dey cook egusi soup for you? Wot happend to d weekend? Cant u cook all ur soups n stew n put dem in d refrigerator?

jabojafa:
my dear leave grammer for Prof Soyinka and Hon Ogbayabon... Go learn how to cook in u nor sabi oooh. Go ask Ngozi Okojo Iweala whether she nor dey cook for her husband upon all d degree she get. Hw wud u guys cope in d first few months of marriage jst u n ur hubby if u cnt cook? Hw long wud u b eating outside or for how long wud ur caring and luving hubby continue cooking if probably he knows hw to cook? Cooking primarily a woman's duty in d family.

beautiful232:
But I can cook indomie nau

tintingz:
Does cooking guarantee happy marriage?.

grayht:
Some ladies will cook this kind of pepper soup for thier mother inlaw ....






"dodges slippers"

izzou:
I don't really care much about food so. ..

Yes I can

wadetaw202:


Yes, it does.

Dont just look art it from my narrow perspective of "ordinary cooking".

If a girl can't cook, it means she lacks home training. Cooking is part of the things your mother (or people you grow up with) should teach you.

If you didn't learn how to cook when yuou were a teenager, then it means you also lack knowledge on how to care of the home. It also means your parents were irresponsible.

A woman who doesn't know how to keep the home is a liability; no more no less.

jabojafa:
my dear leave grammer for Prof Soyinka and Hon Ogbayabon... Go learn how to cook in u nor sabi oooh. Go ask Ngozi Okojo Iweala whether she nor dey cook for her husband upon all d degree she get. Hw wud u guys cope in d first few months of marriage jst u n ur hubby if u cnt cook? Hw long wud u b eating outside or for how long wud ur caring and luving hubby continue cooking if probably he knows hw to cook? Cooking primarily a woman's duty in d family.

PinketteDawn:


No it doesn't. A thousand times 'No it doesn't guarantee a happy marriage'.

She may not have learned how to cook as a teenager because she had no one to teach her. She might have lost her mother at a very tender age. Her father, too busy looking for money to raise her, may not have bothered to teach her because he did not even know how to cook. Their cook did her job everyday and went home.

I can tell you that there are many women out there who are great cooks yet divorced. I am telling you this with certainty.