lordyugo:


so am guessing a woman should repair minor faults in cars, fix electrical faults in d house ,make repairs etc? Since roles hv changed abi changing of roles applies only to men?
And u pple wonder y guys leave u

lordyugo:


so am guessing a woman should repair minor faults in cars, fix electrical faults in d house ,make repairs etc? Since roles hv changed abi changing of roles applies only to men?
And u pple wonder y guys leave u

pcguru1:


Nah they will say it's a man's jib to do this ,feminism is BS these days at least in Nigeria

beautiful232:
But I can cook indomie nau

bee444:
Interviewing agberos who lacks social tolerance speaks volume of how mentally unbalance Nigerian mens are. Imagine denouncing who they love just because the woman can't cook?

What happened to teaching her with love, and sending her to catering school? Smh

lordyugo:



u knw women and double standards.
they try to eat dr cake and have it and wen it doesn't work play d victim card or feminism card. Most dnt evn understand d concept of feminism.

philip0906:
[size=13pt]A woman that does not know how to cook?? Wow!
What was she doing during her teenage and youthful years?? Such women only occupy space in their matrimonial homes
I can't imagine my wife not knowing how to cook afang soup garnished with 85 shredded ponmos a.k.a show boy topped with isi ewu and bent stock fish. Which kain wife be that? [/size]

uzolexis:
Everybody man or woman MUST know how to cook, you don't have to be excellent at it but it is a compulsory skill to have cos food is very important.
I can't marry a man who can't cook cos I don't intend to be a housewife, so as much as I would help out in the financial burden of the home, I want a man who would help in household chores, thankfully I already have that....I can cook but my fiance is a better cook than myself and it's not a problem for him, we both cook.

Keenlooka:
Eurocentrism!

uzolexis:
Everybody man or woman MUST know how to cook, you don't have to be excellent at it but it is a compulsory skill to have cos food is very important.
I can't marry a man who can't cook cos I don't intend to be a housewife, so as much as I would help out in the financial burden of the home, I want a man who would help in household chores, thankfully I already have that....I can cook but my fiance is a better cook than myself and it's not a problem for him, we both cook.

pcguru1:


They don't actually, and they can't because you have to be strong to be a feminist, that means being treated equal as a man, some women can pull this off but most would sink or as usual whine under the weight of it, men have it rough, we have no institution for abused men, or men who are raped, instead we're told to talk it like a man, even in the choice of marriage alot of crazy standards set for men, if you have no job kiss getting married goodbye, so what's the big deal in cooking, besides it's a preference and last time I checked everyone is entitled to their preference, if a woman can't marry someone because of his financial status, I see no big deal if a guy can't marry based on culinary skills.

holybabayo:


Pray your fiace does not find another girl that can contribute to the financial burdens and still cook beta that you.
Anyway real men don't plan to have you share in the financial responsibilities of the home. But generally 9ja girls are trying with cooking. So it will be a huge shock to meet one that can't cook. Abeg ladies plenty wey fit cook plus all.

jabojafa:
na stay @ home man fit get dt tym.. [s]Wen match dey man go come stay hus dey cook egusi soup for you?[/s] Wot happend to d weekend? [s]Cant u cook all ur soups n stew n put dem in d refrigerator?[/s]

ameezy:

Yeah and you can boil water too

Petroking:
I will marry u n teach u how to cook.. Not ready for marriage yet though

lefulefu:

indomie babe

femmysin:



Is good now at least you can cook something... just don't marry a typical African man ooo, just look for oyinbo they will epp u eat the indomie like dat.

micxwell:

I'm sure you would not have posted a comment if you weren't a good cook. Funny somebody .

nuelzz04:
don't worry I'll teach u d rest



No joorjoor











But we go share d bride price wen its paid cos I work

tintingz:
Does cooking guarantee happy marriage?.

PinketteDawn:


I also pray for you to wake up and realise you are not marrying a free maid but a help mate. And by the way, God has never created anything that is useless. Who are you to call God's creation useless?

I have seen the so called 'worthless' women change overnight and learn. Yes! Learn! Even as adults! One lady I know grew up without a mother and guess what? She learned how to wash her clothes and clean in boarding school. She also learned how to cook from her husband! She had the interest but was not opportuned to have someone teach her.She is still with her husband today after 5 years of marriage. He never for one day berated her for not knowing how to cook. He understood and taught her instead.

From everything you have listed here, you are simply looking for a housemaid disguised as a wife. You are obviously not looking for a friend or for someone you can love wholeheartedly. There is more to a woman than a cook, cleaner, maid fused in one.


Learn not to judge people too quickly my dear, it will help you in this journey called LIFE.