There are many stealth traditional ways of restraining or catching an adulterous wife without magun or making her swear to an oath. The man is still a learner.

freshvine:
Some women are fair weather wives and girlfriend. I understand how hurt the man is after training the lady and losing his job and then the disrespect crept in from the wife. It can really be frustrating and damaging to the psyche.

Of course the wicked woman will come up with barrage of excuses and counter accusations to give her evil intentions a human face, I'll implore the man to move on otherwise she might poison him someday to be with her new paying lover.

After paying for your education, giving him a child you suddenly discover he's traditional cos probably of his unemployed state

You have said it all. God bless you and Bless your Home.

Am Idoma and one fact about my tribe is that *Alekwu* is real and fiercely potent..


.she knows that she wont comeback alive,she's just yapping to me.Its obvious that she was unfaithful, she should just tok and face d consequence..#blu.

abeg leave that thing. swear for what

abike12:
abeg leave that thing. swear for what

Swear that she has not been fvcking around for the past 12 months that she left her matrimonial home without her husband's consent.

Archaic people's problems

Reading the comments, smh.

Y'all retardz or what?

0kp0nku:

Swear that she has not been fvcking around for the past 12 months that she left her matrimonial home without her husband's consent.

he should sit down and wait. she dey come

I blame the man sef. 12 months is enough for him to have brought another lady to the house and have another child. Na the new wife for dey face this old one now.

Woman if u can see this advice pls don't swear an oath for any reasoning. That wicked man wants to ruin your life before he let you go. He is an agent of darkness

xtborn:


Where have you been all these while, LadyF?

lol I dey here na

Is that all?

HMZi:
Am Idoma and one fact about my tribe is that *Alekwu* is real and fiercely potent..


.she knows that she wont comeback alive,she's just yapping to me.Its obvious that she was unfaithful, she should just tok and face d consequence..#blu.

Your Alekwu is no more special than someone being forced to take sniper or
any other poison, we all know poison kills.

The husband had already sentenced his wife to death, he only want to
do cover up with some "swearing ceremony".

Only a foolish woman will trust a rigged kangaroo "traditional justice".

mazimee:
“My husband always leaves
the house without my knowledge and he will never
care to call me. Because of his bad behaviour, I
went to stay in my parent’s house.” she said.

From what she said her husband is also guilty of leaving the house without mentioning his Where about to his wife. Hence, she left for her parents house. The truth is that she could have cheated while she was away from her matrimonial home but her husband could be guilty of the same crime since both leaves home without informing the other.

My question is, Why single out the wife for some archaic oath swearing when he is also could be unfaithful?

That is so unfair, both of them should do the oath swearing or he let her go in peace.

I dey tire for you. Are you a woman man since you are beliving this lie lie woman who is probably related to Lai Mohmmed or an apc member? The woman did not say her husband should should as well go and swear with her in the village. But if you are a man, you better be very careful of especially this jet age women. Your post cleaely shows you not yet a man.

neocortex:


Your Alekwu is no more special than someone being forced to take sniper or
any other poison, we all know poison kills.

The husband had already sentenced his wife to death, he only want to
do cover up with some "swearing ceremony".

Only a foolish woman will trust a rigged kangaroo "traditional justice".

its obvious that you are ignorant,to put it mildly,'you no sabi anytin'.. Alekwu neva lies,its what i know,i dnt know what u know but it means shit to me if my posts trigger u in a badway..u wey b sabi sabi do u tink the lady is stupid?She will yap hoping to look like a victim..alekwu neva lies..

It's was threading yesterday on niginfo ph.. Wooooow.. Welldone madam.

JoNach:
you suddenly know his family history when he lost his bank job and not when he was sponsoring your education?? women shaaa!! the only like to be around when its rosy

sorry pls did you read the lady's side of the story or you just decided to focus on the man's part

0kp0nku:

Swear that she has not been fvcking around for the past 12 months that she left her matrimonial home without her husband's consent.

sorry pls where was it stated that she left her home for 12 months

Missmossy:
Both of them sound guilty. They should just divorce amicably afterall with all that has been said they ain't ready reach a compromise.


Marriage shouldn't be endured, still surprised that people still indulge in swearing an oath and all those barbaric traditional acts.

God forbid i do such, all these kind of issues though. It is well.

well said

freshvine:



You just read without a mind of your own to reason.

Let me interpret for you very well the likely scenario that's playing out.

They were once a happy family until the man lose his bank work. The wife started disrespecting him and even moving out of the house without informing him for that long a period. She later came back to her matrimonial home and the house refuse her insisting before he integrate her, she must swore to a deity that in her absence she had remained faithful to their matrimonial vow.... Maybe the man is afraid of sleeping with an adulterous wife which could've it consequence since he is a traditional believer.... The wife refuse this pact and instead plead for status quo or she divorce him. Maybe since both stuck to their guns the wife has no choice but to drag the husband to court.

The report has not stated any of them want to keep the marriage. The all have their conditions but why then you single out the man to vilify.


Read and comprehend, Nigeria youths won't!

haba pls you should also read the woman's side of the story of why she left the house,if the husband doesn't want her back why force to swearA normal man would gladly want to do away with an adulterous woman.....none of us can actually even state who's saying the truth and who's not except we know them personally.

So pls you should also read and try to comprehend without being biased

and the man too go follow swear for him own fidelity

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HMZi:
its obvious that you are ignorant,to put it mildly,'you no sabi anytin'.. Alekwu neva lies,its what i know,i dnt know what u know but it means shit to me if my posts trigger u in a badway..u wey b sabi sabi do u tink the lady is stupid?She will yap hoping to look like a victim..alekwu neva lies..

It is difficult for a blind man to understand the meaning of color.
You guys are being fooled and your women dehumanised by
scammers cum magicians who are desperately trying to
earn a living but you don't care as long as you are the beneficiary.
Why don't men also swear to their fidelity ?

I repeat any woman who agrees to "swear" using such
predetermined game is a fool because they will always be
guilty so as to serve as testimony and adverts to the herbalist
hence fetching more customers.

What was his job at the bank? Cleaner? I don't want to believe an educated person will think so backward but what do we know?

Juliaann come see shometin

This is where u will see the women defensive skills,every woman knows how to defend themselves even if it means turning the truth upside down,women I hail oooo.mtcheew

Somehow everyman claim to sponsor their gf or spouse education. Na so school fees cheap reach? I smell blood money intentions.

herbie27:
Before accepting his education funds, she didn't check the baggage or what?.

He has trained you, you now suddenly know his family history...

The wife is really an ingrate. She is also unfaithful and that is why she is afraid of taking the oath. The Alekwu of a thing is a long- aged tradition that no one can change. It has kept so many marriages " intact" in the sense that, it enforces faithfulness in a marriage. My mother would always advise us to marry from Idomaland. Bro Omale should just allow Yetunde to go and move on with his life.

The woman is wise
They should better divorce and go their separate ways before that devil of a husband go destroy her life all in the name of swearing an oath!
Even the bible is against such nonsense!

Oga, what you don't know is far greater than you. So, shut up and leave them with their tradition. Your level of "civilization" can't change the tradition.

neocortex:


It is difficult for a blind man to understand the meaning of color.
You guys are being fooled and your women dehumanised by
scammers cum magicians who are desperately trying to
earn a living but you don't care as long as you are the beneficiary.
Why don't men also swear to their fidelity ?

I repeat any woman who agrees to "swear" using such
predetermined game is a fool because they will always be
guilty so as to serve as testimony and adverts to the herbalist
hence fetching more customers.