autolearner:
My Pastor Would Always Say, If It Is Not in the Bible, DO NOT follow it!

Once there is a biblical backing for this, then it's good. But so far, i have not found one!


Id*&#s who call themselves pastors in a bid to tell this new (#artnotNudity) generation what they want to hear and fleece them will go to any length to twist and turn the bible. Reminds me of a time when an ex told me she'd like to be a muse for a topless shoot. I simply told her to walk and never look back. We can't abound in sin and ask for grace to continue.



These verses of the bible sums it all up;

2 Timothy 4:3-4

3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
4 And they shall turn away [their] ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.


2 Peter 2:1-3

1. But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction.
2. And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of.
3. And through covetousness shall they with feigned words make merchandise of you: whose judgment now of a long time lingereth not, and their damnation slumbereth not.

neocortex:


Why dodging the main issue ?
Are you guilty of any of the sins listed below ? Yes or No

Galatians 5:19-21
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, SinParties, and t[b]hings like these[/b]. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

If No, I am sorry for quoting you
but if Yes , you are in no way different fro the
"sinners" you choose to chastise.

autolearner:
My Pastor Would Always Say, If It Is Not in the Bible, DO NOT follow it!

Once there is a biblical backing for this, then it's good. But so far, i have not found one!


Id*&#s who call themselves pastors in a bid to tell this new (#artnotNudity) generation what they want to hear and fleece them will go to any length to twist and turn the bible. Reminds me of a time when an ex told me she'd like to be a muse for a topless shoot. I simply told her to walk and never look back. We can't abound in sin and ask for grace to continue.



These verses of the bible sums it all up;

2 Timothy 4:3-4

3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
4 And they shall turn away [their] ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.


2 Peter 2:1-3

1. But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction.
2. And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of.
3. And through covetousness shall they with feigned words make merchandise of you: whose judgment now of a long time lingereth not, and their damnation slumbereth not.

SAMBATLAN:
[size=14pt]If she's not ready for a pre-marital sex, you should also never be available for a pre-marital spending[/size]______MUGABE (2016)

Qmerit:
Let me go and read the 10 commandments once more.

nortcentrallord:



Lol, BWB. I guess Jesus was killed because he believed in Judaism Or do you believe he never died on the cross like the muslims do? You need a lot of sunday school lesson and maybe Monday through Saturday lessons too.

nefertitiram:


Please do.

10 commandments was silent on Fornication but mentioned Adultery... I still wonder why!

Lilimax:
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
(Hebrew 13:4)

Marriage must be respected by all, and the marriage bed kept undefiled, because God will judge immoral people and adulterers.
SELAH!

lilyqueen:
End time pastor

Jethrolite:
A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in sex before marriage, Christian or not.

Having sex outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians. An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ sex even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).

According to her, it’s okay to have sex along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off sex, especially if you became single by circumstance.

The married mother of three who is also an associate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your sexual partner, even if you are both unmarried.

Here’s what she said below:

“If we refrain from having sex that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…Chastity, or just sex, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our sex lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”

What do you think?
SWEET BOOK!!!!!!

https://www.naij.com/940458-endtime-pastor-says-okay-marriage.html

Jethrolite:
A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in sex before marriage, Christian or not.

Having sex outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians. An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ sex even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).

According to her, it’s okay to have sex along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off sex, especially if you became single by circumstance.

The married mother of three who is also an associate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your sexual partner, even if you are both unmarried.

Here’s what she said below:

“If we refrain from having sex that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…Chastity, or just sex, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our sex lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”

What do you think?


https://www.naij.com/940458-endtime-pastor-says-okay-marriage.html

Peace2love:
God have mercy! This is satanic, we should be careful with what we read and watch this days. Soon they will tell us that is good to have babies outside marriage.

tosinjay:

Another demon in human form has been released from hell. Chronic deceptive talk. False!

iRyan:
if you have a problem with what she said, fine! Her sermon was directed at Americans not towards backward Africans. We will continue to wax stronger and stay the best country in the world and you backward Nigerians will seethe. God bless America!

tosinjay:
, it's not actually a laughing matter, sometimes i wonder how you people will cope. Most morally corrupt nation on earth. They say Nigeria is corrupt. But Ame corrupt pass, heaven knows that's where satan is ruling from! Gbam.

iRyan:
oh well, then Satan must be a pretty competent and an effective ruler. Hope he never stops ruling us!

Jethrolite:
A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in sex before marriage, Christian or not.

Having sex outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians. An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ sex even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).

According to her, it’s okay to have sex along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off sex, especially if you became single by circumstance.

The married mother of three who is also an associate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your sexual partner, even if you are both unmarried.

Here’s what she said below:

“If we refrain from having sex that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…Chastity, or just sex, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our sex lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”

What do you think?


https://www.naij.com/940458-endtime-pastor-says-okay-marriage.html

quintybabe:
I have a question for those encouraging premarital sex. Does good sex guarantee a happy home? Does it mean nothing can go wrong in marriage as long as the sex is good among partners?

hjkl:
(First post in this thread for reference https://www.nairaland.com/3307679/bromleigh-mccleneghan-sex-before-marriage/7#48778442)



So this is really postmarital sex

It is not a guarantee, but it contributes. It COULD be a guarantee. It makes things more workable. Being based with one partner is ok because of a number of reasons. Without the erotisism problem the position of a partner can be allocated much better. Because with it there is much less (too little) self control. EVEN: one can change the partner to be based with from a Christian perspective. If understanding the great commandment. The part about God is vague in general. But this can be solved.

Erotisism can be compared with eating.

Eating --> about life
Erotisism --> reproduction, also life
Of course there is space to choose and do anything that is preferred.

I feel I should explain or say this: I am posting in the South now. This works more flexible then in the North. This is objective. I mean to show what I see.