Good day pals.
Please I really want to get things clear.
I met this girl, in my school, we fell in love and started dating. We loved each other. Everything was going smoothly just like flavour said on his track tittle *wiser* featuring phyno and M I. So two months after. I stared notcing and observing some things. Such as, she is on a high demand, she always wants me to be the one paying her bills for her, and when I ask her about her parents she said must her parents do everything for her. That she have sibblings in other schools that do take cartar for. And she doesn't manage things. She will want to cook 3 to 4 different meals every week, and at my own expense. I tried talking to her that as a student. We are suppose to manage things. Even if we are been given millions by our parents. That we are not suppose to be cooking different meals at a spot. But she nag and arguee. Me am not that rich am a hustler on my own. I am the one taking care of myself in school. Am in my third year. And I have been thinking about life after school. I have tried everything within my powers to let her know that I can't fix her high end bills. But she will always arguee and nag. Don't get it twisted. Not like I don't do the thing I can for her. I do buy her provisions and some wears. But anytime she asks me for money. If I don't give it to her. She starts feeling bad that if I don't take care of her who will? . That she is my responsibility. That her parents must not be the ones to do everything for her. So me I have to think about my life as am in my early twenties. I wouldn't want to regret anything in future. I thought about so many things. I came up with a conclusion of breaking up with her. Which I just did. And now she is abusing me with all sort of words. My question is. Did I do the right thing or not?

But as for me. I think it is the right thing to do. ‎

See this one, you are still asking if you did the right thing?



No wonder why she used you for a long period of time.

Make ah gbansh dis chick finish i dey come Op.... !!

No.
but why wait till now??
were you hoping she will change
Some guys sef

oga u did the right thing. u are student like her she shouldn't be imposing that much on u

You did the right thing. As young as she is, she's a liability. You feed yourself and she wants you to butter her... She's selfminded, selfish and foolish. (no apologies)

Can't she work to help herself. Calling herself your responsibility.. At her age, even presidents daughters are working in cofee shops and diff place arounds.. I mean the whites. She's shameless. You got rid of her and that's good.

Responsibility kor... As if you're her father, or you adopted her shiitty ass.

Nasa28:
No.

but why wait till now??

were you hoping she will change

Some guys sef

Yes bro. I was hoping and trying everything possible to change her.

macville2:
oga u did the right thing. u are student like her she shouldn't be imposing that much on u

I tried to explain that to her. But her response will be. Do I expect her to go and sleep with other guys? For help where as she have me as her bf.

... I do buy her provisions and some wears.
But anytime she asks me for money. If I don't give it to her. She
starts feeling bad that if I don't take care of her who will? . That
she is my responsibility. That her parents must not be the ones to
do everything for her.'


Your 'school-girlfriend' Is now your Responsibility?? Chai, some girls are cruel. Oloshos!!



God please keep this kinda girls away from me.

;DNoted...Noted...Noted...

She's even hurling abuses.... Her True colors.
Please don't waste your time wondering if you did well.
You did the right thing. You got rid of a deadly leech.

samuel0425:


I tried to explain that to her. But her response will be. Do I expect her to go and sleep with other guys? For help where as she have me as her bf.

Tell her Yes!!

Use Tiwa and Tee Billz as your reference.

Davash222:
... I do buy her provisions and some wears.
But anytime she asks me for money. If I don't give it to her. She
starts feeling bad that if I don't take care of her who will? . That
she is my responsibility. That her parents must not be the ones to
do everything for her.'


Your 'school-girlfriend' Is now your Responsibility?? Chai, some girls are cruel. Oloshos!!



God please keep this kinda girls away from me.

Lols. Amen bro. Within 3month. I have spent more than 70k on her. And she is yet not satisfied. I tried my best to please while I advice her. But she wouldn't just change.

Davash222:


Tell her Yes!!

Use Tiwa and Tee Billz as your reference.

That wouldn't be necessary bro. Because I have broken up with her. And guess what? I don't feel hurt or heart broken. I feel relief.

samuel0425:


I tried to explain that to her. But her response will be. Do I expect her to go and sleep with other guys? For help where as she have me as her bf.

Bro!!! She's plain stupid and lazy, everyone can sense that... Did you birth her? What does she do for you in return? Is her family poor?.. Even if her family is poor, its no reason to such a young student dry.

Liability

U already had ur fair share with her and I think tats enaf...


U did the right thing... Ditch anyone who cant help build ur empire. Besides, ur both still students, young and still exploring what so called "a better life"...


Move on joor....

For this buhari economy.. She go even pay me wetin I spend

NevetsIbot:
Bro!!! She's plain stupid and lazy, everyone can sense that... Did you birth her? What does she do for you in return? Is her family poor?.. Even if her family is poor, its no reason to such a young student dry.

Liability

I can't say that her parents / family is poor. They are balanced. The dad has his own buildings and has two cars. So I doubt if they are poor. I don't really know what's her reason.

ifex370:
For this buhari economy.. She go even pay me wetin I spend

lols

TrapQueen77:
U already had ur fair share with her and I think tats enaf...


U did the right thing... Ditch anyone who cant help build ur empire. Besides, ur both still students, young and still exploring what so called "a better life"...


Move on joor....

That fair share is not even enough.. Did she not enjoy the lashing?

TrapQueen77:
U already had ur fair share with her and I think tats enaf...


U did the right thing... Ditch anyone who cant help build ur empire. Besides, ur both still students, young and still exploring what so called "a better life"...


Move on joor....

thanks

samuel0425:


I can't say that her parents / family is poor. They are balanced. The dad has his own buildings and has two cars. So I doubt if they are poor. I don't really know what's her reason.

See? She's either an agent of the devil sent to suck you dry. I read that you spent close to 70k oh her but yet she isn't satisfied? What more does she want? You did the right thing

NevetsIbot:
See? She's either an agent of the devil sent to suck you dry. I read that you spent close to 70k oh her but yet she isn't satisfied? What more does she want? You did the right thing

Yes bro! And that's a rough estimate. Because if am to calculate everything it's more than 70k. I feel relief and free.

tellwisdom:
You did well bro...She's just out there to ruin you, and when shes done, she heads to another victim.

Thanks

samuel0425:

Yes bro! And that's a rough estimate. Because if am to calculate everything it's more than 70k. I feel relief and free.

You see? Relief. That's good. Enjoy life bro

NevetsIbot:
You see? Relief. That's good. Enjoy life bro

Thanks bro. I just needed to be convinced that I did the right thing

IamLEGEND1:
70k in three months.
na my total expenses in a year be that, my tuition & registration fees included.
And she dey complain on top everything.
that Girl don use your sense wipe floor finish.

Lols. Na she didn't. I wasn't hypnotised when I was spending all that money. I was just doing it to please her in my own little way. But it wasn't enough for her. She need more than that. Which I cannot do.

samuel0425:


Thanks bro. I just needed to be convinced that I did the right thing

Next time you wanna spend money.. I'm here ehn