Saying that growing up with Nigerian parents is interesting, is a rude understatement. Sometimes when I reflect on the things we were forced to do as children, I tend to laugh hysterically…other days, I’m just puzzled!

Many Nigerian parents make children serve them compulsorily, and sometimes rob them of fun times. In most cases, a child could get series of slaps for trying to stand up to their Nigerian parents. So to avoid being slapped, kids just let them have their way! And when I say kids or children, I mean any Nigerian still living with their parents.

Even with the rate of civilisation, the chances are that most Nigerian kids would probably treat their own kids same way too. I can hear some Non-Nigerians exclaiming “what the!” But you know what? We turned out great! All the things our parents did and still do gives us something unique… “strength”.

I believe this is the reason why Nigerians can survive the worst of situations, with a smile because we were brought up by mothers who mandated us not to make a sound when we’re being flogged.

Enough talk, here are some of the annoying things most Nigerian parents do:

They Send us on “Unnecessary Errands”

Our mothers are known for sending their children on unnecessary and very annoying errands. Just imagine your mum calling you from a distance to help her get something that is within her reach. Try to tell her to get it herself…if you dare!

There is Always a Reason Why we Fail at Something

Our parents can easily jump to conclusion. You cannot try to explain a situation to them and they take it just as you explained it. They will be like “why would you not be jobless when you are eating free food?!” or “Is it not your mates that are passing JAMB”…even when you spent all your time reading.

Are you Ok?

This is not them checking if you are mentally or emotionally stable. When a Nigerian parent asks you this question, they are calling your attention to your stupidity.

When they Eye us in Public

Don’t get carried away when you go out with your mum as she expects you to check her face for signs. For instance, if she blinks her eyes at you funnily, she’s warning not to eat food offered by a host. You do so, you are dead.

You are Expected to Cry Without Making Noise

This one thing still annoys me till date.Nigerian parents beat you and then threatened to beat you if you make a sound. You hear words like “Shut up. If I hear pim…”

Your Actions are Being Justified Negatively

Nigerian parents justify their children’s actions and form a new reason to lash out at them. You hear words like “why won’t you talk back at me when you have started growing pubic hair?”

Nigerian Parents Don’t Want to Accept Defeat

When they sometimes feel they have gone overboard with certain issues, the typical Nigerian parent would want to cover up their mistakes. They find a way to cover it up and make you the victim again. In situations like this, you’d often hear things like “Don’t you know I am your father?” or “If you don’t listen to me, you’re doing yourself oh”

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It's admitted that growing with Naija parents can be such a pain in the ass. But years later in future, you see reasons to turn back and say.........Thank you mummy and daddy for raising me the way you did.

It's called Discipline, not Child Abuse!

OfficialAwol:
It's admitted that growing with Naija parents can be such a pain in the ass. But years later in future, you see reasons to turn back and say.........Thank you mummy and daddy for raising me the way you did.

It's called Discipline, not Child Abuse!

Yup!

Somtimes i wish i neva had nigerian parents dey are so annoyin only some are cool n understandin

OfficialAwol:
It's admitted that growing with Naija parents can be such a pain in the ass. But years later in future, you see reasons to turn back and say.........Thank you mummy and daddy for raising me the way you did.

It's called Discipline, not Child Abuse!

i disagree most turned to rebels discipline gone wrong

Nigeria parents are still †ђξ best in breeding children

naijacentric:
Somtimes i wish i neva had nigerian parents dey are so annoyin only some are cool n understandin

Yeah I agree some of them take their "discipline" to the extreme but don't blame them so much because given the harsh economy of Nigeria, most adults, parents especially are frustrated because of their many responsibilities.

girlfromafrica:


Yeah I agree some of them take their "discipline" to the extreme but don't blame them so much because given the harsh economy of Nigeria, most adults, parents especially are frustrated because of their many responsibilities.

u have a point sha