my friend told me a shocker yesterday & i decided 2 share it wit my fellow nairalanders 4 possible solutions b4 something drastic happens.pls she has been dating her coz 4 8yrs, had, which i cant disclose , pls wat do i tell her to do 4 i feel dat d advise i've told her is not enough!!!!!!
she is in a relationship dat might crumble any min. thanks Nairalanders

I'm not trying to be mean, but your post is incomprehensible. What's your girl doing with her cousin? And why are you worried about it?

this na dry talk.i no even understand wetin u dey talk oh.can u pls be explicit?

2 girls dating or what the Bleep am I reading here?

i just want my landers as to say something about the issue,or is this not a forum 4 dicussions again. pls we r not dating. she is my friend since child and she told this secret to me and i felt my landers views and advices will help becos she is seriously bothered about the situation and also if her man shld get to find out.

@ozyoma
before i can comment on this,i have a ? to ask.is her cousin a male or female?

tell her to wake up and face reality and stop being foolish

What you are telling us here is that your female friend is in love with her female cousin.
does that make any sense?

@crazykid

i no know say u sef u dey see wetin i dey see.na wah oh

Abi o!

some people don't even think properly before opening a topic

I don ask am before o

are you tryin to say its girl dating girl?

this type of relationship is really abnormal,they'll be plenty to regret in the future ,she needs to end it this instant

i guess what the beginer of the thread is trying to  is that her friend who is a female has being dating her own cousin who is a male.


i understand this issue cuz i once dated my cousin,he was very jealous whenever he saw me with another guy and so was i,he was the most attractive and sweetest person i had ever known and we love eachother soo much that we never wanted to leave eachother so we decided to date so we wouldn't see other people.Our parents found out and they explained to us that it was an abomination but we didn't listen,we went on dating cuz we were in love.Later we started getting tired of eachother and so we decided to stay away from eachother for a while and i worked even though we missed eachother.

what i can tell u is that leave her alone and with time she will come back to her sense.

cleofel where have you been girl

@mukina2
i have been around,just that i have been very busy studying.i get adddicted to this forum all the time so i have decided to stay away 4 some time.
Merry Christmas.