Ebonyeyes:

Lets hope there is more of that in the future

na2day?:

hell naw!

Ebonyeyes:

Why the anger

na2day?:

it's a manly thing, u won't understand

Ebonyeyes:

Ah the male ego and that sort of thing eh? Its ok, you can agree with girls if they are right

unitee:

Na2 dear

ginger1:

just to comment on the topic, I'm glad this topic was created which is exactly the opposite of one that was created several months ago that claimed virginity was a lack of opportunity. I not against anyone that wants to have sex before marriage, whatever floats your boat. So im saying virginity is more a dignity than a lack of opportunity. First of all, is there anything as a lack of opportunity in the world of today with with the loose morals and sexually charged TV and movie displays? I know any lady (i'm gonna use a girls as an example, we got virgin males too) can set out to have sex one day and there are plenty of guys willing to jump her bones. For a more personal anecdote, I'm 21, female and a virgin, whats the big deal? I don't lack opportunities, and i consider myself very beautiful and well endowed ( thank you very much, No be me, na God). Lots of guys approach me and i dont think i lack opportunity, i know a lot of them would do me in a heart beat if i just say yes. I think personally its my value and i just love the power, i have with that. I dated this guy and i know his friends asked him if he had sex with me, and of course he did not. I see the way they approach me with so much respect and i think keeping yourself covered and leaving something to the imagination is more sexy, and romantic than being overexposed.

Again, this is my personal opinion and i would appeal to the non-virgin-community-always-trying-to-belittle-virgins to shut up and mind their beeswax and quit saying things like "virginity is lack of opportunity", who the hell even invented that line?

ginger1:

just to comment on the topic, I'm glad this topic was created which is exactly the opposite of one that was created several months ago that claimed virginity was a lack of opportunity. I not against anyone that wants to have sex before marriage, whatever floats your boat. So im saying virginity is more a dignity than a lack of opportunity. First of all, is there anything as a lack of opportunity in the world of today with with the loose morals and sexually charged TV and movie displays? I know any lady (i'm gonna use a girls as an example, we got virgin males too) can set out to have sex one day and there are plenty of guys willing to jump her bones. For a more personal anecdote, I'm 21, female and a virgin, whats the big deal? I don't lack opportunities, and i consider myself very beautiful and well endowed ( thank you very much, No be me, na God). Lots of guys approach me and i dont think i lack opportunity, i know a lot of them would do me in a heart beat if i just say yes. I think personally its my value and i just love the power, i have with that. I dated this guy and i know his friends asked him if he had sex with me, and of course he did not. I see the way they approach me with so much respect and i think keeping yourself covered and leaving something to the imagination is more sexy, and romantic than being overexposed.

Again, this is my personal opinion and i would appeal to the non-virgin-community-always-trying-to-belittle-virgins to shut up and mind their beeswax and quit saying things like "virginity is lack of opportunity", who the hell even invented that line?

Ebonyeyes:

And the church says Amen. It is beginning to feel like "bash a virgin" month. Let them be, its their choice. Nowadays its almost a crime to admit one is a virgin, Im just waiting for the government to pass the bill to convict virgins .

ginger1:

. Again, this is my personal opinion and i would appeal to the non-virgin-community-always-trying-to-belittle-virgins to shut up and mind their beeswax and quit saying things like "virginity is lack of opportunity", who the hell even invented that line?

ricardo007:

I AM A VIRGIN AT 42.  ;DAND VERY PROUD!!!

ricardo007:

I HAVE A FEMALE CUZ WHO IS 49.UNMARRIED AND A VIRG,

AM I GOING TO END UP LIKE HER,
, HEY, CAN I self-service

Shola2009:

^^ are u sure i feel it's better to deep your feet in the water before diving in.

and if a shark bite you? ??, life is a choice, everyone can make his decision and some may not regret some eyes may open and regret for the pass

Abbey_city:

correct!

chocoLove:

and if a shark bite you? ??, life is a choice, everyone can make his decision and some may not regret some eyes may open and regret for the pass

ricardo007:

DOES ALL VIRGIN kitten STINK AS THEY CANT CLEAN INDEPTH, I MEAN CLEANING INDEPTH AND INTOTO WOULD HAVE BROKEN THE, EM, EM. COS I KNOW A VIRGIN WHOS PUNANAI REEKS,

I KNOW OF A LESBIAN VIRGIN,
I KNOW OF A VIRGIN WHO SUCKS, GIVES BLOW JOBS, fluting, U KNOW
I KNOW OF A VIRGIN WHO PREFERS ANAL

GL:

how do you know? i thought u were a virgin


many 'virgins' protect their hymens but do everything else. others don't 'do' anything but read love-related magazines & novels. so it's kinda difficult to define virginity since many self-proclaimed virgins are not exactly sexually inexperienced.

i think what's important (from a religious standpoint) is sexual purity. unlike virginity it's a state of the mind, not the body. and it's equally valid for those who have had prior sexual experiences and those who haven't. of course, it's a lot more difficult to maintain than virginity.