soonest:
Spits on you? I Can't deal mehn! You need to do something that will shock her, I mean really shock her. Jezz

sllay:


If I ever stand before you, you'd be on your knees worshipping my African phallus with your well-used mouth. Good thing is, I don't do prostitutes. You're a paid slut and I exposed you with your own posts.

You dared me to expose you begging me to screw you and I provided evidence. How much have you made thus far? I hope you pay your taxes. May you die the way prostitutes like you die since you've refused to dignify your womanhood.

Accursed daughter of Jezebel!

nameerfhtennek:
It's more than 20minutes, I'm still unable to put words together to begin this story. I will try keep it simple and necessarily detailed so everyone will understand the true picture of what happened, why against my belief that writing personal experiences on social media is immature, I had to still write mine. Let's just say I'm not thinking right now, maybe I'm so upset but truth is, I need your advice.

I'm writing this thread seated at the back of a Hilux truck just outside our apartment. Yaa, that me in the picture. You see, today is EID and believe me I should be resting in the house since I'm not working today. Days like this only come by 6times in a whole year and more than anything, I would have loved resting than being out here.

It was yesterday evening, she called and said she her driver were headed to my office. She wanted to pick some stuffs around my office. Yaa, I forgot to say this is Saudi Arabia. If you know Saudi quite well, you will agree with me that a husband will definitely get exhausted running errands for his wife or the family. I was not in the mood for shopping but she wanted to shop. She got upset that I didn't want to accompany her shopping.

She did her shopping alone and returned few minutes before I closed from work. We headed home. Unknown to me, I forgot my internet router in my office because I was rushing to get home and continue with my FIFA 16.
Her internet service expired some days back so we were using mine.

While playing game, she walked into the seating room and demanded for my router. Mine, not hers. With her tone and facial expression demanding the router, I didn't respond because there was an indication that she was warming up for a quarrel. I wasn't just in the mood. The thing is, she is very skilled in extending her anger phases. That is one thing I can't understand till today. Believe me, it was not like this while we were dating. Sorry, I forgot to tell you I married my university girlfriend, she years my junior and the same department. Ya, I'm one of those guys that dated and planned for the future with their girls at the same time. God blessed that plan but at this point I don't understand everything that has been happening for the past one year plus since we got married. She repeatedly demanded that I handed over my router to her but I was quiet. Meanwhile, it occurred to me that I forgot the router in my office the minute she first asked about it. Truth is, I actually needed to use the internet that night for my online FIFA.

After several times of asking for the router and no response from me, she took the TV remote and switched off the TV. She walked straight to the kitchen and hid the remote. I approached her in the kitchen and told her I was not ready for any kinda quarrel. We have had enough for the past one year of getting married. I then told her I forgot the router in my office, I didn't have it. I guess she didn't believe me, she never did. She told me to leave her alone. I returned back to the seating room with my heart beating fast. I knew she wanted a serious quarrel that night. After some minutes, I returned to the kitchen and requested for the remote. Then I figured out she hid it in her pant. Pretending I was passing by, I swiftly went for the remote from under her short gown and grabbed it. She didn't expect I knew where she hid it. She followed me behind and ceased the game console, second indication she wanted me to react. I do have a problem with my temper just like every human, male or female. I have also learnt to deal with it by walking away at times I feel I was going to lose it. The same reason I'm outside at this time, 9:55 pm Saudi time. She knows I have fought hard to tame my temper issues but most times, she makes deliberate efforts to have me overreact to her nags and rants.

I watched her hide the console in her pant yet again. I shuddered in obvious fear because I knew what the woman wanted, a fight. Unable to deal with it,the intimidation and the shame, I went for the console and squeezed it out from her hand while she was trying to hold it tight. That was when the trouble then started. She wanted a buffer to help her spill everything she had nursed in her mind. "You are a violent person!! You can kill, idiot!! You were not shown love by your parents, that is why you will squeeze your wife's hand to collect the console. They allowed you to grow up in the street without parental guidance and love." Then it came....pwaaaaaaah!!! She spat on my face!!!!! God knows, I have never been spat at before, not by my parents, not by my siblings, not by anybody. " I agree I was not shown love by my parents but your Dad is a coward for running away from your mother without being there for you guys when he needed to play his roles as a father. That explains the reason you are like this", I said and walked back to the seating room.

I managed to play a few games which I lost mostly and then slept off around past 5am this morning. Around 3pm, I woke up and went to the office. Not like I had work but I needed to clear my head away from the house. If only there was alcohol in Saudi, I would have been somewhere in a hotel drinking away the shame. When I returned home by past 7pm, hungry and tired. I needed to continue my game but I could no longer find the game console and the TV remote. I asked for it and she ignored me. I managed to eat and then left the house to this truck.

You see, I love my wife more than anything, more than anyone. She is one person in the whole world I could go any length for. I love her, that was why I forgave her when she broke up with me after I left Nigeria for Saudi Arabia. She broke up with me few months after I came to Saudi and started dating another guy twice her age. She says she never expected I would come back to her after she left me but I did. I did because I saw a future with her, a future I imagined, believed in and worked towards its reality. Today we have gotten to a level where most people out there would want to be, our colleagues envy is because they believe we are privileged and blessed but what they don't know is that in the truth, I have no peace. This marriage has become my legacy and my curse.

I want to send her back to Nigeria in few days time and I hope I'm not making a mistake!!! Spitting on my face, nah nah....am so fed up!!!!

obowunmi:



OP.

You belittled yourself as a human being and as a man when you opted to settle down for a woman who once left you for a man twice her age.

Truth of the matter is that you are sitting here assuming it is love but this woman does not respect or love you one kobo.

Spitting on someone is the utmost sign of disdain and disrespect. Your so-called wife does not love or respect to you.

Go and find someone else who does and stop being disillusioned.

OneManLegion:



This guy na "post.Mann" the mumu mallam who fancies himself some wordsmith.


Lol. The thing is, people like you are usually shy and quiet in real life; cause I know if you're half this loquacious and combative in real life, you go chop beating taya.

sukkot:
i never understand grown men who play computer games or whatever psp ps2 or whatever they call those nonsense. shyttt is ridiculous. but i digress, OP you have two options
1- stop playing childrens games
2 - send her back to africa and continue ya shidren games

on a side note, even if you stop playing games i think you should still send her to africa. you married a prostitute. you were the one who saved her from the life of prostitution. i mean who dates a man twice their age ? she was a prostitute waiting to happen before you saved her, but deep down she is still a crass soul hence why she can spit in your face or marry a man twice her age. i advice you to ship her off to africa and then after that stop playing games.

doveda:
There is nothing wrong with dating a man twice your age. It is happening and will continue to happen. It is as normal as normal gets

sllay:


If I ever stand before you, you'd be on your knees worshipping my African phallus with your well-used mouth. Good thing is, I don't do prostitutes. You're a paid slut and I exposed you with your own posts.

You dared me to expose you begging men to screw you and I provided evidence. How much have you made thus far? I hope you pay your taxes. May you die the way prostitutes like you die since you've refused to dignify your womanhood.

Accursed daughter of Jezebel!

AngelAhnie:

Oga, did you read the first thread?

thekingisback:
A slap or two is definitely the solution. If you're not willing to do that, then I'll suggest you give her the silent treatment.

sllay:


I hurt you so badly that you had to quote the same comment by me twice within 30 minutes? You had a rethink and you realize the truth espoused therein was stark and convincing.


You stated you were lonely. You are a nymphomaniac always in need of warm limbs and erect phalluses to impale all your body orifices. Bad thing is you're fugly but since your mouth can do wonders, you're paid for it.

What's your rate? #513 per round, right? Attaboy!

May vaginal warts be your bane!

Billyonaire:
@nameerfhtennek

Seems you spend more time with FIFA and computer games than your wife. I know you dont see anything wrong in your attitude but I am here to tell you that you are wrong.

#1. I picture a woman coming to ask for internet router, and you kept silent and she kept asking. How do you expect her to know whats on your mind. Is she a spirit to know you forgot it in the office ? Who keeps silent in relationships even if you had past grudge ?

#2. Then, you do not have a way of rationalizing your struggle to remove forcefully the remote and console "from her pant"; I mean who does that ? If a woman hides anything in her pant or brazier, it means "dont dare".

You have totally ruined your marriage, with "women are bad", "I am loyal good man" attitude.

If you need my advice; It is simple. Go and apologize to your wife, for the silent treatment and promise to spend more time with your wife than the fucking video games and internet. Your wife is now addicted to internet cos you both spend more time online and not talking to each other.

LordScent:


emperorlee donpoker9 koman see sumchin

cmecproblem:
This would have been a simple matter if you are more experienced or have been reading some marital issues here on NL. Your wife is simply reacting this way for a reason, communication can be challenging for some people and they end up doing the wrong things. First find out what is making her angry. The answer you will get will help you make the best decision.

AngelAhnie:
You are too brilliant to be fighting upandan. Anyway its your choice .

How was your night?

nwamehn:



So, if u ignored ur woman's question and forced the remote from her when she hid it in her pants and she tells u such harsh words and then SPITS on ur face without feeling remorse for that, u will go back and apologise to her Shebi? I commend this ur reasoning. Fantastic!

smellingmenses:

must have been terrible obviously he got no loving all thru da nite

denitro:
The truth is you are wrong.. How can you set FIFA 16 as a priority over your wife. That was selfish.
Apologize to her and amend your ways....
You sending her back to Nigeria and marrying a new wife you ll still have the same problem with your new wife unless
you amend your ways and prioritize your wife over everything else...