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Top 10 Reasons Why Relationships Fail by beejay4all(m): 8:59am On Sep 16, 2016 |
There are always reasons for everything that
happens in life, and the same holds true for
breakups. If you’re aiming for a relationship
that’s practically fail-proof, you’d have to
know some of the reasons why so many
relationships end badly. So, let’s take a look
at these top 10 reasons why relationships
fail, and perhaps find a way to avoid these
issues to keep the love alive with you and
your significant other.
1. Cheating
Cheating is often a deal breaker for many
people since making a commitment means
staying faithful, and if your partner can’t do
that, how can you trust them? Even though
some couples make it through a case
of infidelity, it’s nearly impossible for the
parties involved to look at each other the
same way ever again.
2. Dishonesty
Want to know how to instantly ruin a really
great relationship? Then lie to your partner
or engage in other questionable behaviors.
Lies will destroy a crucial component in any
relationship: trust.
3. Unresolved emotional issues
Most of us have emotional baggage dragged
from prior romantic relationships which can
sabotage your future relationships. Here’s
the problem with bringing up past issues:
they’re in the past. That means that nothing
can be done to change them. They’re over
and done with. The key is work through
them and deal with things that are currently
happening. Focus on today, not yesterday.
4. Getting serious too quickly
When you’re in your honeymoon phase you
think your relationship can survive anything.
But, if you haven’t taken the time to find out
if you have the same hopes, dreams and
visions of the future, reality might just give
you a hard slap in the face. A good healthy
relationship should always advance
naturally. Things like moving in together too
soon, for example, can cause both of you to
miss out on really knowing each other.
5. Mistaking lust for love
You want to be with someone (and in their
bed) 24/7 so it must be love, right? Not so
fast. Many relationships end simply because
the initial chemistry wears off and there was
never any substance to back up the sex, so
when one (or both) of you are bored with
the physical aspect of what you had, there’s
nothing else keeping you connected.
6. Becoming too comfortable
After some time, you and your significant
other might get a little too comfortable
around each other and before you know it,
you will act more like roommates than
lovers. If neither one of you attempt to
improve your relationship by adding some
fun and excitement, then you are probably
headed downhill.
7. You have different values
If one person values their work more than
the relationship, or one person wants to
start a family and the other does not, you
are headed for a rocky road. Once you’re in
a committed relationship, it’s best to
discuss these things early on so you can get
on the same page and make sure you have
shared values.
8. Extreme jealousy
If you’re the one who’s jealous, you’re
probably always going to be checking up on
your partner. On the other hand, if your
partner is the jealous one, you may find
yourself sacrificing your happiness just so
you don’t get hit with the barrage of
accusations.
9. Lack of communication
When you’re in a relationship, you have to
actually talk to the person that you’re with
and be willing to listen to them as well.
Lack of good communication between
couples leads to frustration, which leads to
relationship dissatisfaction, which in turn
leads to breakups.
10. Incompatibility
Opposites attract to a certain extent, but
when it comes to creating a life together
and staying connected, incompatibility can
cause more frustration than it’s worth and
will often be the main factor driving a
couple apart.
If you find that your relationship is facing
these problems, it may be best to try and
work it out so it doesn’t ruin the hard work
you’ve put into your relationship. |
Re: Top 10 Reasons Why Relationships Fail by achieverme(m): 10:52pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
You just copied and pasted without editing. Chai! 4 Likes |
Re: Top 10 Reasons Why Relationships Fail by Nobody: 8:06am On Sep 17, 2016 |
Op, who do you think is gonna read all that without space, no paragraph, nothing? 2 Likes |
Re: Top 10 Reasons Why Relationships Fail by beejay4all(m): 6:58pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Sorry Guys na small phone i used to post this topic |
Re: Top 10 Reasons Why Relationships Fail by mastermaestro(m): 8:14pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Do your best to rearrange this piece if you want to attract readership. It looks too clumsy for a read. Nobody wants to have their eyes strained and stretched over leisure information. |
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