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Help Out A Frustrated Friend To Make The Right Decision With You Ideas&advice by cowgirl9090: 11:47am On Sep 16, 2016 |
Here is his story
"my mum is asking me to come back nigeria
the stress am having here is worth coming back
but their have been 2 high profile men who
promise to help and am just counting on them
the truth is that i never wanted to come back
without fulfilling my dreams
but i have had alot of difficulties which could
force many adults to quit
you know about my sponsor who sent me
tablet and gifts from uk
he has been trying to get me to uk for 1 year
now
in june he told me he will be coming here in
maputo to visit me and take me along with him
back to uk
he said in august he will come but he couldnt
make it citing that he has been busy with
football business
i was extremely upset
now he told me he will come in short notice
that i might be in uk before month end now he
is telling me again that he cant make it do it
football meetings and all that
i am having quite a tough time but i have stood
for football and now is like am getting weak
i have always been motivated but seems am
getting weak with all the whole stuffs
he sends me money for my feeding but now he
no longer sends due to western union
restrictions
without getting money from him i struggle to
eat and to get my needs
now due to western union not allowing him to
send, i am finding it hell coping with life
their was a time i couldn't receive money from
him for four months and i struggled to eat
i went days without having anything to eat
and after that four months i got money again,
got again and for the past 2 weeks nw he is
telling me western union is restricting him again
from sending
now am having hard time again
my dream is to play football and with the
condition of nigeria nw coming back will make
things difficult
i have spoke to my friends asking them whats
up with naija football the all say is better i stay
Here naija footy has die
i told the man that i am thinking about going
back to nigeria as the difficulties i have had has
been much to me, and he keeps promising to
come but wont
he told me to have patient that is not his fault
that he havent come over to maputo
that is business
sorting things out with numerous football clubs
that he will now try and bring me to portugal
then u.k, that a player he sent an invitation
letter with his academy was able to come over
from africa
that he will proceed with that, write an
invitation letter and then send to portuguese
embassy to speed up the process
so that i can be able to come quickly
the fact is that the man has made many
promises and yet at last it wouldn't work out so
i don't know if its to stick around and exercise
a little bit patient he told me to he really wants
to get me to europe
he has a big football contact with top clubs
he even told me he had a deal with crystal
palace of england two days ago and that if i
come over he can ask them to give me trials
their are many opportunities if i get over
but the truth is that my motivation is getting
low
for 1 year now its been ups and downs
i have pass through shits cos of football
i have been mocked and criticised
i have felt rejection and i have been humiliated
i have pray so hard that am just getting tired
its been a hell tough even here their are many players that am much
much better than but the have clubs, get
salaries and live big why is mine different?
why am i not getting opportunity?
now their is also a man that i play for his team
after seeing me many times play, he has
promised me that he will find a club for me but
everyday difficulties am having here is pushing
me so bad
it will be sad if i never make it pro
i have sacrificed alot, worked really hard and
face trials
i deserve better " |
Re: Help Out A Frustrated Friend To Make The Right Decision With You Ideas&advice by Calismart(m): 11:47am On Sep 16, 2016 |
Believe and hope for the best and always remember God. Believe me,better days will come |
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