Yomieluv:
before marriage, the relationship would be like made in heaven. After marriage, it will be something else, like hardly cook, rationing sex, unnecessary confrontation.

The most painful is the sex rationing, why should a married woman be rationing sex all in the name of being a nursing mother.

It's nothing but pure wickedness. I am doing my duties as husband fully, to demand for my right is now difficult to oblige..

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Acheron:

No, cos I'm a father.

but you don't know what it feels like because you're not a woman, you have no experience ....me too I don't know how it feels like because I'm not a mother yet or even married but I studied biomedical science and I can imagine or describe how it feels

Ujoan:


I know of a woman who tried sex 3weeks after delivery and almost bled to death. Landed herself in the hospital and had to endure weeks of recovery in addition to post partum.

The risk is real and honestly, ignoring that for any reason is plain irresponsible. Just like having s3x without protection because not everyone who did got HIV

Do people take risk? Sure? Does it make it right? Hell NO.

All over the world, women are advised to wait at least 6 weeks post partum before they resume sex. Anything less is just plain irresponsible IMO.

You're right and I'm not disputing it but I think I repeated it twice that body varies and it also depends on certain factors.

The standard time is between 4 to 6weeks but some women do resume earlier with no complications. Like I said, a new mother in the pregnancy thread said she has resumed sex just 3weeks postpartum so it all boils down to a lot of factors.

Acheron:

Go to the pregnancy thread on health section, read about 2 to 3 pages back from the last page and you'll see a lady admitting she started 3weeks post partum.

Body varies and there are other factors that determines how fast the vägina heals.

Places like France where they pay more attention to the mother than the new baby, they start sëxing faster sef.

It is not about the vagina healing itself. This is about the woman's body returning to its pre-pregnancy state.The involution of the uterus takes roughly 6weeks including the drainage of lochia which is the vaginal discharge after giving birth containing blood, mucus, and uterine tissue. Lochia discharge typically continues for 4 to 6 weeks after childbirth, which is known as the postpartum period. So any woman or man who choose to have sex during this period is exposing themselves infections especially the woman to puerperal sepsis. Which is a condition that is in the same league as postpartum hemorrhage albeit higher as the woman won't know what is going on until it is too late.

Acheron:

You're right and I'm not disputing it but I think I repeated it twice that body varies and it also depends on certain factors.

The standard time is between 4 to 6weeks but some women do resume earlier with no complications. Like I said, a new mother in the pregnancy thread said she has resumed sex just 3weeks postpartum so it all boils down to a lot of factors.

Still my point . . . Just because she did it without any complications doesn't mean she was right to do it. I say again, it was very irresponsible of her.

And I know of 6weeks, not 4 for Vaginal births.

na wa kwanu only you had séx with your ex post-wedding, only you dislike your mother-in-law, only you get wife wey dey ration sex *in Jenifa's voice* which kain head you bring come dis world??

Ujoan:


Still my point . . . Just because she did it without any complications doesn't mean she was right to do it. I say again, it was very irresponsible of her.

And I know of 6weeks, not 4 for Vaginal births.

A medical doctor cannot say it is irresponsible of her. A woman can have sex whenever she feels okay for it. Make use of your google, the standard time is about 4 to 6weeks but if you feel great enough for sex before then - go ahead, that's what doctors do tell new mothers.

Are you a mother?

TheArchangel:
It is not about the vagina healing itself. This is about the woman's body returning to its pre-pregnancy state.The involution of the uterus takes roughly 6weeks including the drainage of lochia which is the vaginal discharge after giving birth containing blood, mucus, and uterine tissue. Lochia discharge typically continues for 4 to 6 weeks after childbirth, which is known as the postpartum period. So any woman or man who choose to have sex during this period is exposing themselves infections especially the woman to puerperal sepsis. Which is a condition that is in the same league as postpartum hemorrhage albeit higher as the woman won't know what is going on until it is too late.

Ok noted.

ItsQuinn:
Which rights? Is it by force? If you want to have sex, go and have sex outside and stop disturbing the poor woman. Mstcheeewww....

Where are you from? I guess its from the wilderness of stupidity.. ode osi