Teempakguy:
I think there has been a misunderstanding. I am actually a young adult with my life ahead of me: as they say. I haven't finished my first degree, and I in fact come in contact with several members of the opposite sex regularly.

I think the key is motivation. an exam, no matter how difficult will be easily passed by someone who has the motivation to do so. someone such as me, who lacks the motivation to engage in romantc affairs is most certainly expected to find them troublesome.

what I find interesting is other guys of my age and even older. You, for example. seem rather motivated for things like this. while I am not.

Teempakguy:
I think there has been a misunderstanding. I am actually a young adult with my life ahead of me: as they say. I haven't finished my first degree, and I in fact come in contact with several members of the opposite sex regularly.

I think the key is motivation. an exam, no matter how difficult will be easily passed by someone who has the motivation to do so. someone such as me, who lacks the motivation to engage in romantc affairs is most certainly expected to find them troublesome.

what I find interesting is other guys of my age and even older. You, for example. seem rather motivated for things like this. while I am not.

juicydiceyjoe:


Weird, coming from someone who is quite active in the Romance section.

Teempakguy:
that's not all. I also love romance movies and I read romance novels whenever I see them.

I'm just like someone who doesn't believe in God, but won't leave the religion section.

I'm talking to you ... Hahn and company.

Teempakguy:
that's not all. I also love romance movies and I read romance novels whenever I see them.

I'm just like someone who doesn't believe in God, but won't leave the religion section.

I'm talking to you ... Hahn and company.

hahn:


Romance and religion are two different things. Religion is full of lies

Teempakguy:
Romance isn't all it's hyped up to be either.

but hey, I am not judging.

hahn:
Lol. As a Christian how can you even claim porn is bad since Jehovah watches everyone in the world having sex? Can you imagine how often it ma5turbate5 daily?

Despite our religious fanaticism we watch more porn than even Americans



And what percentage of these Nigerians watching porn are Christians, Muslims or atheists. Your guess is as good as mine.

God burnt hundreds of women and children in Sodom and Gomorrah but didn't bat an eyelid when Lot slept with his two daughters in an obvious incestial party. What is the morality in that?

As far as I am concerned, masturbating is cool. It is way better than adultery or rape, something which religious people indulge in often(just check front page and see how many Christians rape and are caught committing adultery), as it is cheaper. Why be bothered about what other people do in their privacy anyway when it doesn't bother anyone?

As regards porn, watching it is cool even for married couples to fulfill their sexual fantasies but I do have a thing against the way it is produced considering that some of the girls are forced or deceived into it.

Justmeal:

You mentioned God! A perplexed man

hahn:

So? Did you cum?

hahn:


You have to have experience to judge romance

Teempakguy:
wicked . . .

hahn:
Lol. As a Christian how can you even claim porn is bad since Jehovah watches everyone in the world having sex? Can you imagine how often it ma5turbate5 daily?

Despite our religious fanaticism we watch more porn than even Americans



And what percentage of these Nigerians watching porn are Christians, Muslims or atheists. Your guess is as good as mine.

God burnt hundreds of women and children in Sodom and Gomorrah but didn't bat an eyelid when Lot slept with his two daughters in an obvious incestial party. What is the morality in that?

As far as I am concerned, masturbating is cool. It is way better than adultery or rape, something which religious people indulge in often(just check front page and see how many Christians rape and are caught committing adultery), as it is cheaper. Why be bothered about what other people do in their privacy anyway when it doesn't bother anyone?

As regards porn, watching it is cool even for married couples to fulfill their sexual fantasies but I do have a thing against the way it is produced considering that some of the girls are forced or deceived into it.

juicydiceyjoe:
As a follow up to my previous thread here; https://www.nairaland.com/3386908/why-atheist-not-engage-pre-marital#up about atheists and their view of pre-marital sex; I want to engage you guys on this topic too.

Morality is dicey. Who determines what is right and wrong? As a Christian, it is the bible and for a Moslem, it is the Quaran. For someone abandoning these books, there needs to be a new standard for morality.

These religious books have spoken against sexual immorality and most believers have taken pornography and masturbation as wrong.

Now for an Atheist, how do you see these two things, are they right or wrong, If you think it is wrong, what logical conclusion do you bring up to see it as wrong.

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