Most women look forward to the day that they would be seen in their wedding gowns.
When a lot of people will come to honour them.
As bizzare and strange as it may sound,I don't know why but I am not crazy about a church wedding.
I just want a quiet wedding!
How do I convince all parties concerned?

Won't they think I am insane or their enemies are at work?

GIRL,its YOUR wedding.as long as your hubby is in agreement i don't think its strange.its now left to him to convince his folks, on the other hand,its saving you money as well cos the less you'll spend on a quiet wedding.

Its NOT strange. Its your day and your privacy and demands should be respected. Now that ive said that "where do you intend to exchange vows ? at the babalawo shrine ?"

It's ur chioce, althgough you'll have to reach an agreement with your spouse, to throw the question back at you why don't you like Church Wedding? it's pretty strange .

galatico:

It's your chioce, althgough you'll have to reach an agreement with your spouse, to throw the question back at you why don't you like Church Wedding? it's pretty strange .

No its NOT strange. The only purpose of the church wedding is to exchange vows before god. Nigerians have just turned it into something ELSE.

Well,want a court wedding and how do I convince the families when they r church officers?

bamboke:

Well,want a court wedding and how do I convince the families when they r church officers?

Why dont you want a church wedding ?you must have an ace up your sleeve!!!
I am sure like in lost cases ,you dont want your past escapades to resurface.
When you were busy poking around,you didn't remember God.

@Poster, ur choise is even the best

@Poster, ur choise is even the best

@poster,i think it is not bad coz many people out dere also do it other placez

@ hollandis
I should remind u dat its not all about being bad.
Its not everyone dat needs to be bad& diry mouthed like you.

If u dnt ave something to say,stop seeking for notice.

bamboke:

@ hollandis
I should remind u dat its not all about being bad.
Its not everyone dat needs to be bad& diry mouthed like you.

If u dnt ave something to say,stop seeking for notice.

Who is notice ? Why would I be seeking notice?or is notice your former guy that you did all crazy things with and dont want him to find out about ur marriage?

maybe she marrying a muslim,or does not believe in TRINITY again

Your hatred for xtanity makes you display how small your brain capacity is sometimes,you reason like a house-fly.
what has trinity and marrying a muslim gat to do with this topic ?
Guess Abu-goat has bin fingerin you with his leprosy hands and its really affectin your mouth.
If you cant give good advice to the poster,go back to your Abu-cow and av a nice fhock with his uncircum d**k.

U probably dont think u deserve being a bride.

I wish my woman can say dat rather than planning on paying £1000 for one dat she will wear for couple of hours
no its not strange

Getting married in church does not equal a large crowd of well wishers and haters and all 'em road blocking head ties. You can still exchange vows before a priest and have your families around to witness.

Personally, I don't need all that madness around me. I would just love a family thing but for the heck of it anyhow it goes is fine with me. It's once in a lifetime  

Rooneyboy:

U probably dont think u deserve being a bride.

Can you define "bride" please?

getting married in church doesnt guarantee a happy marriage and there are countless church weddings which ended in divorce.

having said that, if the parents/relatives are unduly upset over your not having a church wedding, then i think you should indulge them if money isnt a problem.

@ritanL,see how uve shamefully display ur harlotory,is it not the same st paul that said u people should not circumcise again since is better u circumcise by heart,fool

rita@NL:

Your hatred for xtanity makes you display how small your brain capacity is sometimes,you reason like a house-fly.
what has trinity and marrying a muslim gat to do with this topic ?
Guess Abu-goat has bin fingerin you with his leprosy hands and its really affectin your mouth.
If you cant give good advice to the poster,go back to your Abu-cow and av a nice fhock with his uncircum d**k.

This girl is baad ooh         

uplawal:

@ritanL,see how uve shamefully display your harlotory,is it not the same st paul that said u people should not circumcise again since is better u circumcise by heart,fool

Abi oloshi ni e ni ? what are we saying ,what are you talkin ? I said what has xtanity gat to do with this topic?
If you are saying you are a slut to Abu-goat, I understand but what is HARLOTORY ?
Se dat one na the arabic-english wey u dey speak wen Abu-cow dey phock u ?
So you agreed your Abu-malu is uncircum ,wonder how you're enjoyin the f**kin,you must be so dumb.
No wonder he's using his fingers,fringerin the better part of your brain out,which has nao reduced your IQ to 0.


Plz dont start with me on NL cos as you dey so,I DEY REALLY BEEF YOU !!!

@ritanl,hey confused soul, if i should start with you too u wont like me either,dnt care if ure beefing ur urself

Hey ladies, abeg stop fighting nau nau.

@ritanl, since u said Abu is uncircumcised,thats why i had to remind you of your brothers in the west that your so called st Paul told not to circumcised,so dnt try to mix ABU circumcised with your uncircumcised brain since its so hard for you to understand,what a RAZZZZZZZZZZ GIRL

^^^^^^^^^^^ooooh stop it

i agree with the poster. Me too don't like a big wedding coz i don't want the attention.

uplawal:

maybe she marrying a muslim,or does not believe in TRINITY again

Uplawal wasn't the purpose of the above statement was to offend christians. Are u a troublemaker?

It's ur day, do wot u wanna do. But surely u can spare and hour or two pleasing family and friends- if they insist on a church wedding.

@manmustwac,am not a trouble maker,but just my own opinion though cos it could be that,i tell u most xtians now are knowing the truth about TRINITY THEORY

What's Trinity got to do with anything? And so what if God the father, the son and the Holy Spirit are or are not the same person?


It's got nothing to do with the content of the post. Na wa o.