handsam:



Check your email.

ItsQuinn:
You've given the best answer

Uw.

VikingsOO7:

Uw.

PaulIdu:


I can't blame any party here because from experience I know 99 percent of Nigerian women marry to take financial burden of their parent and alleviate any small poverty disturbing them , so when the factor that joined them in marriage in the first place is missing they immediate cut rope and tend to move on ..My advise to men is to know the reason why a girl has agreed to marry you, is it because of your job, your looks,your temperament, your ambition or just to prove a point that she can get married.. marry a girl that loves you for no reason and make sure you love her deeply just for that reason ..

misspicy:

The people that started it should stop it.

5minsmadness:


Ladies will never agree to stop it first. They are not as mature as us guys

Guys started it,let them stop it first

Shym3xx:


You're right. When you meet women looking for meal tickets (most of the women who're like that don't even hide it) and the reason why they're with you is basically cos you can provide/give them what they want. You should know that it's temporary and more of a "business" relationship that will fall apart once you stop feeding the cow. That's a no brainer.

As a guy, when selecting a partner, on a long term basis - it should always be about who you're, not what you're. Once a woman is with you cos of ya natural aura, something she can feel, but can't really point to. She'll always be there for the long haul, no matter what happens on the outside. Except you push her away.

These guys just get loose coins and start feeling themselves. And the next thing they always do is to buy a wife.

Smoke2015:


http://josephedgarng..com.ng/2016/10/diary-he-lost-his-job-his-wife-left-him.html?m=1

eyinjuege:
Dear blogger,

Women equally leave rich people for whatever reason.
Did your friend turn to the Lion of the tribe of anger after his job loss?
Did he become unbearable to live with?
What was his relationship with his wife like before he lost his job?
Your own mother wasn't and wouldn't be the only who has supported her husband in difficult times.
We see women hustling everyday to support their families despite some of their husbands not bringing in anything to the table. In fact, millions of women in Nigeria do that. Go to the market, you will see women carrying heavy load for others even while heavily pregnant, go to construction sites, go to banks, hospitals, civil service, just to name a few. All in a bid to make their families live a better life.
In a bid to paint your mother as a saint and your father as a man who's sole purpose in life is to eat afang soup, you really don't need your friend's marital and financial woes to do that.

montezz:

I suggest that you read their posts again. This time slowly until you get the points they are trying to make.

OCtheKing:
I can see u lack moral upbringing

ItsQuinn:
But is it understandable to leave your husband when he's using your hard earn money for oloshos?

steppin:

If your hubby cheats on you, divorce him, it's allowed. But when you wait for him to go broke before doing that, it simply means you were just with him for the money.

ItsQuinn:
I cant divorce my hubby because he cheats or cheated on me and i won't divorce him because he went broke, i will only divorce him if he's irresponsible or a violent man

steppin:

I don die! why are you ladies against the op na?

VikingsOO7:

Me think Seun should start giving out awards for the "most intelligent comment of the year".
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thorpido:
I agree it's bad and that was why I made that statement of singing the song,'where is the love'.I was actually asking the MEN where the love is because i've observed the bashing and putting down of women and I understand the frustrations and anger that comes with it and the reactions of the ladies to it.

Family section used to be for matured and married people but a lot of boys who probably moved from romance section have infiltrated the section and that's the reason for a lot of childish and irrational comments.I want to believe some do it just for some evil fun,the same way they do tribal bashings.However,overal it's still a bad thing because it could poison some impressionable young readers who might think it's cool to treat women with disrespect.

5minsmadness:


Some women are so filled with bitterness and guilt that they see all threads as female bashing threads. None of them came out to praise the op's mother for her steadfastness and courage, all they saw was op bashing a woman for leaving her matrimonial home even when its obvious from the story that it was the wrongest time to do so as that was when the man needed her the most.
They are quick to praise the deserter and insult the one that stayed to support her man. And yet they say they are the ones being victimised.

Lol in spanish!

PaulIdu:


I can't blame any party here because from experience I know 99 percent of Nigerian women marry to take financial burden of their parent and alleviate any small poverty disturbing them , so when the factor that joined them in marriage in the first place is missing they immediate cut rope and tend to move on ..My advise to men is to know the reason why a girl has agreed to marry you, is it because of your job, your looks,your temperament, your ambition or just to prove a point that she can get married.. marry a girl that loves you for no reason and make sure you love her deeply just for that reason ..

misspicy:

True talk.


I don't expect to see women bashing on family section,but I am always disappointed because even the assumed men(who will paint their own wives as angels on earth) will join in on the parade…


Could be for fun or trolling

ChessEnthusiast:

No girl loves you for any reason. There's always a sting attached. fact!

neocortex:
There are disloyal wives who are prone dump their husband whenever
he is faced with challenges so are some husbands who will abandon their
wives.

However, some marriages have broken up long time ago, but the couple pretends
as if everything is okay, even though the only reason the wife
remains with her husband in such marriages is for financial stability.
Whenever the man can no longer provide for the family financially or the
woman become financially independent, the marriage crumbles.

Then you hear story of evil women who dump their husband because he lost
his job.

Smoke2015:


http://josephedgarng..com.ng/2016/10/diary-he-lost-his-job-his-wife-left-him.html?m=1

missjo:

It's better not to take comments online too seriously,this male versus female thing I see here isn't exclusive to nairaland funny enough. Visit other forums populated by South Africans, British, or Americans, there's always some sort of war going on and this is why I believe most of it is done deliberately to hurt the opposite sex which going by the complaints here, seems to be working.

You've got a good partner like I'm sure you do,and I've got a good man in my life, why then should comments from people I'm not married to or dating cause me so much distress.
I see all the back and forth,most of the time I laugh it off and forget about it all once I close the nairaland tab on my browser.

thorpido:
True talk
However @ bolded,it has affected some people so much they de-activated their accts.

Dyt:


This got me LOL