just reading another thread and it just got me thinking, do you think its ok EVER for a man to hit a lady? everyone has a breaking point, do you think that a woman should be willing to accept whatever feedback she gets if she puts her hands on a man? are they both equal when it comes to fighting?
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Yes. If one is willing to swallow the fufu hot, be willing to take the scalding on the throat as well.
Not a good idea for a woman to hit a man.

Its not OK.

my brother Yes! to reset her head.

it's not okay for either to hit. if a woman hits me i might retaliate depending on the force in which she hit me. or else she would be asked to leave or removed from the area.

on the other hand if a woman spits at me, i would lay her azz out with an upper cut

Two wrongs don't make a right.

Muafrika2:
Two wrongs don't make a right.

my brother comot 4 here! Ur statement don't apply in a situation like this.

Yes & No

Meaning depending on d kind of women, if na all those crazy ladies wey no dey knw wen pesin dey in d mood,

omega25red:
it's not okay for either to hit. if a woman hits me i might retaliate depending on the force in which she hit me. or else she would be asked to leave or removed from the area.

on the other hand if a woman spits at me, i would lay her azz out with an upper cut

A whole upper cut I no blame you tho. Spitting is nasty.

I threw boiling water on my ex's face because he spat in my face

Cholls:
my brother comot 4 here! Ur statement don't apply in a situation like this.

X : Why did you hit her?
Y : She did it first!

Sounds immature.

Muafrika2:


X : Why did you hit her?
Y : She did it first!

Sounds immature.

my brother X: Irrrespective of her being right or wrong.
Y: Never let your woman take your place(respect).

Anybody that hits me either MALE or FEMALE has probably been GYMING somewhere with a big ROCK... AMMA CLIP THAT PERSON!!!

Cholls:
my brother X: Irrrespective of her being right or wrong.
Y: Never let your woman take your place(respect).

That can happen without the need for violence.

Muafrika2:


That can happen without the need for violence.

my brother u call it violence?!..... even for bible proverbs 29:17 says Discipline your son, and he will give you rest; he will give delight to your heart.

Never hit a woman unless she gets violent , like a threat to your life

If she's a threat 2my life gona beat her til am tayad, but aint buy d idea hitting a lady.

I have brothers and I wouldn't want a woman hitting them. Look, violence is wrong whether it comes from a male or female. If you hit a man and he hits you back, don't complain.

KingEbukasBlog:
Never hit a woman unless she gets violent , like a threat to your life

Self defense?

nubian999:


A whole upper cut I no blame you tho. Spitting is nasty.

I threw boiling water on my ex's face because he spat in my face

Haaaa! U spoilt his hanzzome faze!

Muafrika2:


Self defense?

Yeah .

Is that wrong ?

KingEbukasBlog:


Yeah .

Is that wrong ?

It could only be right if she had a dangerous weapon that she was using to attack.

I wonder the level of ass-licking that will make me to say that it's wrong for me to retaliate when a woman hits me first whereas I would retaliate if I were to be hit by my guy. Any woman that hits a man knows what she expects. Even Exodus 21 says its an eye for an eye, Newton also said that to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Man and woman should learn to respect each other and not hit each other at will.

Muafrika2:

It could only be right if she had a dangerous weapon that she was using to attack.

What if she tries to strangle the man or suffocate him with a pillow against his face , will hitting her be right ?

Ishilove:
I have brothers and I wouldn't want a woman hitting them. Look, violence is wrong whether it comes from a male or female. If you hit a man and he hits you back, don't complain.

you're one of the few ladies on Nl that says things as they are......

If a lady slaps me, amma remind her I'm not her younger bro at home with a 369gigabyte slap

For your fiancee to raise her hand and hit you, it means she doesnt had a single respect for you. Your aim as a guy should be how to make your fiancee respect you instead of thinking of what you would do if she disrespect and hit you.

KingEbukasBlog:


What if she tries to strangle the man or suffocate him with a pillow against his face , will hitting her be right ?

Yes. That will truly be self defense.

Muafrika2:

Yes. That will truly be self defense.

I want to understand where you are coming from. how about a case where a guy hits his fellow guy and there's retaliation?

Its never right for a woman to hit a man and vice versa, but should a woman hit me my response or not would depend on some things
1) The situation that led to.
2) My mood.
3) The area of attack.