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| Discrimination Against Edo People by veek2(m): 11:17pm On Oct 22, 2009 |
My girlfriend (Her Dad - Igala, Her Mum - Igbo) and I have been dating for 3 years and when she informed her family of our plans to get married, they strongly opposed her. They only gave one reason - He is from Edo state. She seems to be succumbing to her family pressure and I need to do something fast before I lose her. I've met and pleaded with her mum but she remains adamant (Her Dad is late). I need some valuable advice urgently. Pls assist. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Nobody: 11:18pm On Oct 22, 2009 |
date from your own area. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Duduknight(m): 11:42pm On Oct 22, 2009 |
In my experience, Nigerians generally do not have problems with their sons marrying from other tribes; the problem is more with their daughters marrying into other tribes because of stereotypes (both real and unreal), and ignorance. No one wants their daughter to suffer elsewhere because our cultures always dictate that wives should be subservient to their husbands. If my daughter or sister is mistreated by her husband and we are from the same tribe, it is easier to resolve than if we are from different tribes. You have to understand this very well. Also, perhaps you have been exhibiting certain behaviours which are easily associated with your tribe which your girlfriend's family do not like. This is a very sensitive issue. The best way to approach this predicament, is to show the family that you intend to take care of their daughter and that you would be prepared to lay down your life in protecting her at all times; you must mean it when you say it and you must also demonstrate your love for her. I say this because there are many men who marry from other tribes and are too weak to protect their wives from wicked in-laws. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by 190: 1:57am On Oct 23, 2009 |
well since ure 4rm edo state den u beta luk 4 a way 2 find urself in ITALY just like ur brothers~ |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by POSAKOSA1(m): 5:13am On Oct 23, 2009 |
190:  |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Nobody: 5:31am On Oct 23, 2009 |
190:do you have brain at all?i doubt it, your comments has given me the answer to my question, what is wrong with you?must you always show how stupid and foolish you are in every of your comment, you are far better off when you keep quiet.you are irritating. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by 3seriez(m): 5:34am On Oct 23, 2009 |
Splash money on her mum & see serious changes, Money speaks all languages  |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by sylve11: 9:34am On Oct 23, 2009 |
190: my gawd! Bros wetin na?   |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Igwe9(m): 9:50am On Oct 23, 2009 |
@190 aww! I expected you to stop at 190th post? so whatsup, how your end? @poster Duduknight has said it all. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by cantab(m): 12:50pm On Oct 23, 2009 |
@Poster, Duduknight's advice is d best i can think of in this circumstance, i gez he's a marriage counsellor, try his idea & c, goodluck |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by spikedcylinder: 1:32pm On Oct 23, 2009 |
3seriez: Lol. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by izeek(m): 1:44pm On Oct 23, 2009 |
it baffles me when parents raise up issues about tribe. if she is giving to her mum, its not cos she sees tribe as the issue, rather there is a second option and she is also weighting it. i dont think she would think twice if you was the onl;y one. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by 190: 5:07pm On Oct 23, 2009 |
lol |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 23, 2009 |
abeg, come i will arrange benin wife for u, as i be madambini |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by 190: 12:03am On Oct 24, 2009 |
^^^@above poster i know for sure cos thats what benins are known for (arranging demselves for demselves) a typical benin woman do not work these days they all tink with their pu.ssy they can Bleep their way in2 any marriage and then everytin is OK benins has lost focus in everythin they are doin especially the 1s stayin rite ther in edo~ trust me ive stayed and lived wit them for over 22yrs now the guyz are kinda diferent but the ladies are, HOLY SHIT~ |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by SeanT21(f): 12:14am On Oct 24, 2009 |
190: lol |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by POSAKOSA1(m): 12:19am On Oct 24, 2009 |
190: You're somewhat right. What about Calabar people ? <both calabar men and women think with their pussies/dciks! >  |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by 190: 12:26am On Oct 24, 2009 |
^^ naa never bin there dont knw about kalabar peeps xcept for their insatiable taste for dog meat which they call 404 theres one of dem around here what was his name that year again~ 404 OR SOMETIN~ |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by whyman(m): 12:36am On Oct 24, 2009 |
Edo women/girl marry not becos of love but becos of profit from such wedding, they believe in their beauty and toto and they are professional in bed, becos of many years of watching home video and blue films. They want the husband to do everything for them, encourage him to aspire for everything. Becos of the love the man has, he would be suffering and smiling until he dies. Meanwhile the wife would have chased all family and close relations away. Whatever the man left belong to her even the children. That's why people label them bad. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by 190: 1:03pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
^^^ Gbam~ |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Nobody: 2:35pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
190, why do you always comment like a dumb ass, Off point, And wrong, @Whyman, No comment here , @Yorke, this 190 guy needs a check on ohhhh |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Nobody: 2:52pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
^^^@above poster And you can insult your 'hosts' this way? Lots of you make retarded statements. It's always easy to know those that are kids. @OP It's common with tribalistic parents. In this day and age nobody should hold lovers to ransome cos of tribe. Just know that what is yours will be yours. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by 190: 3:16pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
@diva i aint insultin no host just breakin out the truth which is clearly not goin down wit a Kiddie like U~ have u seen a typical benin in action i aint saying no wher is GUD but benin girls have LOST it (most of dem that i know of anyway) i aint talkin outta in generalization jst the few peeps i av met,the guys are more prefered and strugle for survival but the ladies Nutin 2 write home abt and dis tin Donpuzo i dont av ur tyme @all, later loser~ |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by MissyB1(m): 3:26pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
190:It's better to be thought a fool and remain silent than to speak up and remove all doubt." Abe Lincoln Give that a second thought Child. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by 190: 3:51pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
^^ shakes head~ |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Nobody: 4:13pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
I love that quote Missy B. Really also won't love to have your's 190, Just that you should be careful, with some generalisattions you make, |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 25, 2009 |
Thank you Missy B Another quote for our boy. "Silence makes the most foolish of people seem intelligent" The bottom line, Be slow to speak always. |
| Re: Discrimination Against Edo People by Nobody: 12:19pm On Oct 25, 2009 |
Ya nice one, You ladies here got a lot of intelligent quotes up your head, Nice |
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