Lovelynature:
Nice points. But I think they should always possess these characteristics not only when they are at the so called prime time. Starting up early will have a long way to favor them than waiting for the prime time to look desperate.


Beauty can attract a man at first sight, but it takes character to keep him.

Well asserted.

herbie27:
"At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get...be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you".

Men don't like it the easy way...if you're too easy you're tagged "cheap".

My dear you're tagged cheap when you give in easily and begin to offer sex. Even if you were the one that did the wooing (not in support though) but refuse sex till marriage, my dear he'll see you as more expensive than diamond. What sponsors the tag "cheap" is sex. That goes to show that sex is highly expensive but has been cheapened down by the women folk. Except for cases o rape I don't blame men

discoprophet:


Don't thank me..

What age would a lady reach for it to be called her prime? This is a silly thread. A lady shouldn't play the bf/gf game, she should jump into marriage with a 'stranger'?

There's nothing like engagement, really? Our parents were betrothed to each other before they got married? Stop misinterpreting the scripture.
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"At your prime moderate your taste and bring it under control...i mean don't settle for less but be moderate in your choice of
partner" This is your word. Do you know what this means as regards to the other crappy points you made?

And who told you that the only problem a man might likely face is how to hit it big? Do you know how it feels like getting married to the wrong woman? Even if you eventually hit it big?
A lady who follows the teachings of this particular post is a wrong woman.
Like I said, this post is strictly bullsh*t. Sorry bro

Ok, but i still think the reasonable ones who have brains have picked the message in the post and continued with their life...my advice, desist from being biase and stop wallowing in ignorance....

Done with you young man .

discoprophet:


Don't thank me..

What age would a lady reach for it to be called her prime? This is a silly thread. A lady shouldn't play the bf/gf game, she should jump into marriage with a 'stranger'?

There's nothing like engagement, really? Our parents were betrothed to each other before they got married? Stop misinterpreting the scripture.
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"At your prime moderate your taste and bring it under control...i mean don't settle for less but be moderate in your choice of
partner" This is your word. Do you know what this means as regards to the other crappy points you made?

And who told you that the only problem a man might likely face is how to hit it big? Do you know how it feels like getting married to the wrong woman? Even if you eventually hit it big?
A lady who follows the teachings of this particular post is a wrong woman.
Like I said, this post is strictly bullsh*t. Sorry bro

at the emboldened...thats the major point I can take away from your quote....marrying the wrong woman is like living a hell on earth

Whizkeey:
Good write up

I sight you bro

Bazinga:
I love this. Very simple and precise. All valid points.

OP, I concur

Jah bless

emperorchedda:
Lie. Only kids call easy girls cheap. Real men despise hard to get girls, after chasing and getting the hard to get girls they sleep with them and dump them as revenge

are u from Edda!?

Pandorabox:
What if the supposed girl is still a student?

He said at your PRIME

herbie27:
"At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get...be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you".

Men don't like it the easy way...if you're too easy you're tagged "cheap".

Who told you that
Or are you a man that you know this

You see when I said is it by force to be religious ....what of if you are not religious, is it by force to pray?

Lovelynature:
and what's wrong with that?

If being prayerful will attract Mr Right, what's the big deal

Enuguboy4nsk:

are u from Edda!?

No

True and Lastly, do not Join, support or Promote Feminism, in any way.if really you want to marry. It scares MOST men away.

MrPRevailer:
EDUCATION:
Buhari is monopolizing APC. By resetting the whole system. He is seizing the LEGISLATIVE and JUDICIARY powers in the name of fighting corruption. He and his APC party can do anything and get away with it. BE INFORMED.

[size=4pt] Buhari Former Military Dictator 1984. Bornagain Democrat 2016[/size]

lols

ENDTIMEgist:

He said at your PRIME

Wetin you mean now?

herbie27:
"At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get...be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you".

Men don't like it the easy way...if you're too easy you're tagged "cheap".

U dnt get d OPs point wrong...there is this lady that I am currently trying to birth a serious relationship with but am not having it easy cos shes a mix of what the OP said. Before I had intentions she was and still is this jovial personality....no guy wont want her company but when I started bringing up relationship talks I got to see a deeper more serious person!

Simply put: DONT CLOSE the DOOR but at the same time have a THICK CURTAIN between you and US!

You are on point !

Captain001:



My dear you're tagged cheap when you give in easily and begin to offer sex. Even if you were the one that did the wooing (not in support though) but refuse sex till marriage, my dear he'll see you as more expensive than diamond. What sponsors the tag "cheap" is sex. That goes to show that sex is highly expensive but has been cheapened down by the women folk. Except for cases o rape I don't blame men

Most of your male counterparts when they woo a girl what do they really have in mind?...A no sex before marriage relationship or what.

firstking01:
Ok, but i still think the reasonable ones who have brains have picked the message in the post and continued with their life...my advice, desist from being biase and stop wallowing in ignorance....

Done with you young man .

I attack your post, you attack myself.. And I wallow in ignorance? Really?

Ugosample:


Who told you that
Or are you a man that you know this

A man told me that.

That any girl he gets easily he doesn't take her seriously cos he doesn't like women who made it too easy for him...could be relative.

dollyjoy:
Not a fan of "Dos and Don't" abegi, life is too short to be spent on obeying norms.

Wow...really? Lol...I see folks like u n cant help but laf...cos up till this very moment ur life is caged within that "do" and "dont" parenthesis!

At your prime as a boy or girl just make money..

firstking01:
In no particular order..

At your prime, keep your options open even if you are engaged cos there's NO written agreement or guarrantee that he must marry you, reason is because you are at your prime…inshort there's NOTHING like engagement in the bible sef, even mary was bethroted joseph and not engaged to her so therefore, every "engagement is prone to breaking"

I don't agree with this, because is more like gambling with the male folks.Its wrong, face one, when there no way, move forward.

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I concur with what u said bro but the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.Marry a guy or a lady that have the fear of God,i bet u,u've half won the battle in marriage.

marrying someone isnt a cash and carry business. if u rush getting hitched and end up marrying someone with bad character, u are going back to the streets.

herbie27:
A man told me that.

That any girl he gets easily he doesn't take her seriously cos he doesn't like women who made it too easy for him...could be relative.

And how does his stance become yardstick to judge all men
And besides, it depends on your definition of easy

Make urself a better person with fear of God n that good n better lady or man will locate u cos the life u possess attract the type of people that comes in2 ur life.

Nairaland churning out so many relationship practitioners like Indecency updates.

Truth is,it very easy to tells others what to do than to do what you are told to do.

Let people have their experience.it teaches them better.

The energy spent creating this should have been used to write some other meaningful beneficial article.

All the same I rate this 2.5stars.

dollyjoy:
Not a fan of "Dos and Don't" abegi, life is too short to be spent on obeying norms.

don't mind them,
Some people think life is a manual, where if 1+1 gives 2
I once told someone that I can't date a married man cos I don't want someone to date my husband, unfortunately he was a married man, so he asked me “does it mean all women whose husbands are cheating once slept with someone's husband"?

Bottom line, good doesn't always win neither does evil.

kvngveektour:
op, just so u know,marriage is no longer a big deal cos by just having a few notes,there are ladies who would play wifey for u.cook ur meals, give u kids,Clean ur house.d list is endless

We do actually have detractors in the house. I believe your parents are still together otherwise your POV is quite understandable.

I have taken sometime to observe animals, the baby mama thing is equivalent to the role of the hen but we were supposed to be higher animals with some sophistication and decency right?

I am only saying there is a big deal with marriage and there is a bigger deal in terms of value raising your family together.

Ask your dad why he stayed married and revert to us.

Boys be looking for easy ways out... phew.