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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Seanjay(m): 8:28am On Dec 06, 2016
When I was going thru the comments I read so many dumb comments and people are condemning her for praying after sex? What is wrong in that ? And besides last time I checked the Bible he said thou shall not judge and now you guys condemning her, are telling me that you are Gods Personal Assistant(PA) or what ? It seems you guys are angels and even bible said even the angle are not clean talkless of human... for commenting sake some of you guys wrote sh:t, and besides she seeks advice and even still the girl was honest and still said she had sex and pray afterward which I believe most of you won't say if you are in her shoes, people like you guys is the reason why God had to sent Adam out of Eden cause when God asked him what has he done the first things he said was the woman you gave me give me the fruit putting the blames on others, condemning them while you are worse yourself,
My dear for the advice you seek I was once like your boyfriend, I was so into my girl friend then that I just can't had enough of her cause I wasn't doing it with another else and she tested me many times which I passed with flying colors which shows that I don't only want the sex and that I want the whole of her, may be you need to test him and sex starve him and see if he's still crawling at your feet.... take care and may God guide you in making the decision that best suit you
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Fisfrank(m): 8:30am On Dec 06, 2016
Geraldyne:

Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks


First died your boy friend want to marry you or not. I share the same thing with your boy friend too, cause I never had sex until when I was 25, since then I so much love sex my fiancee complain so much because she is not the sex type like yours too and we have been in a relationship of 4yrs, to the extent that she told me she will be given me money to go to club get any girl I want and have sex with them anytime i feel like have sex, which she really did, but she is someone I want to marry and because of what she said I decided to slow down and control my self I collect the money go to my friend place those nite buy fuel play games all through the nite and still use the money to buy gift for her until she caught me that I wasn't go to club, then we settle things. Now I can still control myself for 3wks without sex. I think you tell him u will pay him to have sex outside and see if he will agree if he does my sister run for your life ooooooooo
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Nobody: 8:30am On Dec 06, 2016
Geraldyne:

Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

Honestly, sister, you don't need him in your life anymore. He's just going to make you sink. You have sex, then prat afterwards? For what, actually? Forgiveness. I know that feeling, you know. The guilt is overwhelming. You continually feel like there's a breach between you and God. Just let it go!

There's always that point in our life when we condone sh*t. But it should never be for long. Retrace your steps and find peace.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by sleekyonyx(f): 8:31am On Dec 06, 2016
Benita27:
shocked shocked
Where have you been?. grin
Hi dearie...I've been around
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 8:32am On Dec 06, 2016
UmecheMoses:

ARE YOU SURE WE SERVE THE SAME GOD?
The bible says if anyman thinks he is religious but doesn't bridle his tongue, this ones religion is useless.....
Some one went dark, and instead of turning on the lights you cast her into utter darkness, may heaven forgive u
Hypocrite! Birds of the same feather!

What did Jesus preach about fornication and adultery?


This is the light for her:

MrOlai:


The earlier you repent to God, the better for you!
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Nobody: 8:33am On Dec 06, 2016
sleekyonyx:
Hi dearie...I've been around
Happy New Month...missed your presence.
How are you?.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by SmellingAnus(m): 8:34am On Dec 06, 2016
zaralady:



Dat should make it impossible for us to be the same person, because one person cant operate two account @ the same time
ok dear... cool
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by sleekyonyx(f): 8:35am On Dec 06, 2016
jmoore:


One of the dumb folks!!! Have I scammed you? undecided

u might wanna check out all his post and how he insulted my mom too, before u come here spewing trash... now get lost, cos I won't give u the cheap attention you're looking for
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by eniwhy: 8:37am On Dec 06, 2016
Try and talk to him how you always feel about his too much demand for adjustment. However, if you quit the relationship and get married to someone else you will cheat on your husband with memory lane of your ex escapades of sex you had with him because time will come whereas you will require satisfaction. By Oracle.
Geraldyne:

Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by hope4life: 8:39am On Dec 06, 2016
A lady who gives her body to a man who has not married her is not wise. The most precious treasure of a lady is her body but hollywood, nollywood and all the woods say it's okay to do whatever you want with your body, it's your life. Satan preached the same message to Eve in Gen, 3, the whole world is still paying the debt of her foolishness. I Cor. 6:12-20 goes against sexual immorality and states its consequences. That man is just using you, when he is tired of you, he will dumb you. Women are not wise. I wish you knew who men are in regards to sex, you will run for your life. After you have run high mileage, you will be begging men to marry you, run to prophets for prayer and so on. This lady, you need to run to God for mercy, cut off the affairs and wait on God for the right man. Satan is destroying the future joy of many marriages on the basis of premarital sex. The main thrill for a man on the wedding night is seeing the unclothedness of his wife for the first time, any man can pay for it. So what is the thrill during wedding and the night, if he has traveled different distance and directions in your body. You will lay a foundation of guilt, shame and sorrow. Many married women are regretting it till today. On a final note, there is no man who has premarital sex with you that will trust you after your wedding. He sees you as a cheap commodity anybody can have. Both of you have a great tendency to fall into extramarital affairs esp.the man. Door of mercy is till wide opened before it is too late.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by chiefojiji(m): 8:41am On Dec 06, 2016
tot she be virgin sef until I reach dat 5 rounds side of the story. I now Mtshew...

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 06, 2016
ElsonMorali:


I pity your daughter.

Keep your pity.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by JVgal(f): 8:44am On Dec 06, 2016
goingape1:
you on the other hand have eye problem if you think you look like a woman!


oh ye generation of vipers!



Frustration won't kill u.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Maximus85(m): 8:46am On Dec 06, 2016
Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

Guy, you carrei the words from my mouth meeeeeehnnn
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by buharimustlive: 8:47am On Dec 06, 2016
[quote author=sinaj post=50647682]Ask urself if he will stop loving you the moment u stp fu*ckin him


Coz this relationship seem parasitic alredi.[/quote

How is it parasitic? We need to hear from the guy. ]
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by buharimustlive: 8:48am On Dec 06, 2016
sinaj:
Ask urself if he will stop loving you the moment u stp fu*ckin him


Coz this relationship seem parasitic alredi.

How is it parasitic? We need to hear from the guy.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 8:54am On Dec 06, 2016
hope4life:
A lady who gives her body to a man who has not married her is not wise. The most precious treasure of a lady is her body but hollywood, nollywood and all the woods say it's okay to do whatever you want with your body, it's your life. Satan preached the same message to Eve in Gen, 3, the whole world is still paying the debt of her foolishness. I Cor. 6:12-20 goes against sexual immorality and states its consequences. That man is just using you, when he is tired of you, he will dumb you. Women are not wise. I wish you knew who men are in regards to sex, you will run for your life. After you have run high mileage, you will be begging men to marry you, run to prophets for prayer and so on. This lady, you need to run to God for mercy, cut off the affairs and wait on God for the right man. Satan is destroying the future joy of many marriages on the basis of premarital sex. The main thrill for a man on the wedding night is seeing the unclothedness of his wife for the first time, any man can pay for it. So what is the thrill during wedding and the night, if he has traveled different distance and directions in your body. You will lay a foundation of guilt, shame and sorrow. Many married women are regretting it till today. On a final note, there is no man who has premarital sex with you that will trust you after your wedding. He sees you as a cheap commodity anybody can have. Both of you have a great tendency to fall into extramarital affairs esp.the man. Door of mercy is till wide opened before it is too late.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by NaijaBlend: 8:55am On Dec 06, 2016
I am a married man and can give you object advice as much as I can.

The truth is that a lot of ladies will like this kind of boyfriend who is hot in bed. On the other hand, you appear not to be the s3x type. Rest assured, therefore, that if you continue with this man to marriage, you would have a problem in your marriage. A man who is this s3x-crazy will surely have chains of extra-marital affairs after marriage if you decline his requests. Let me tell explain (and I am facing the same issue). I was like this man before marriage and my fiancee then (now my wife) never complained then. We had s3x at times, seven times in one night. But, do you know that the greatest problem in my marriage today is s3x? If she could not complain during dating but turned to complain, blaming it on children, how much more you, who have been complaining from the onset?

I think you should review that relationship holistically and perhaps think about an exit strategy.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Kulas: 9:01am On Dec 06, 2016
skitkid2:

What are you doing in this thread?
In fact what are you doing in romance section?

Most of y'all commit worse sins
#Hypocrites


So u are a promoter of sin??.You can't serve two masters at once.If you want to be a child of God and serve Him you choose it,if you want to be child of Devil and serve him,go ahead.U can't combine the two,it doesn't work.Mind you this topic was placed on front page and not romance section.You can check all my comments and posts on nairaland and definetly u will know the particular section that brings me to nairaland that I normally visits.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Lexusgs430: 9:05am On Dec 06, 2016
mapet:


On the surface of things, I support your points

Only on the surface?
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Nobody: 9:05am On Dec 06, 2016
You boyfriend is possessed, he has an evil spirit in him.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 9:06am On Dec 06, 2016
adegeye38:

Prayer after fornication, did u take God for a fool or what?, what hypocrisy?, the only prayer you need is genuine repentance and prayer of forgiveness

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Ontop123(m): 9:08am On Dec 06, 2016
The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.


Sister you no fear God at all at all. Where is your conscience, well God is not a man Sha.. . [color=#990000][/color]

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by peekay007: 9:09am On Dec 06, 2016
in every situation always Pray,before and after sex too grin
Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by mapet: 9:12am On Dec 06, 2016
Lexusgs430:


Only on the surface?

Becos there are always more than one sides and perspectives to stories
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by morule20(m): 9:12am On Dec 06, 2016
Is possible your guy love u so much, but u should understand that some men, naturally has high sexual desire, why some have low sexual desire, so is possible that is his problem. This is what u need to find out, by having a good chat with him. If u find out, that his problem is high sexual desire, then u, will now know if u as a woman would love to go into a relationship with a man that has such a high sexual desire. U beta correct now, because if u don't, u guys are going to have serious problem if u guys settle down as a husband and wive.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by adeokanmi(m): 9:17am On Dec 06, 2016
My advise for you SEX-LADY, instead of this pre-marital sex before marriage which may lead to pre-mature pregnancy at the end of your relationship life; do drag yourselves to alter for small marriage/wedding if not elaborated ones. If you are not careful of your guy/relationship you may end up blaming yourself for having him that is what YORUBA call "A-B-A-M-O".

ALL UNRIGHTEOUSNESS IS A SIN...
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 9:21am On Dec 06, 2016
tomdon:



Imagine that this might be somebody's future wife.
Lol I pity some guys Sha.
5 rounds with a guy wey no go ever pay your bride price
How lower can ladies get??
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by morule20(m): 9:25am On Dec 06, 2016
Is possible your guy love u, but u should understand that some men, naturally has high sexual desire, why some have low sexual desire, so is possible that is his problem. This is what u need to find out, by having a good chat with him. If u find out, that his problem is high sexual desire, then, u will now know if u as a woman would love to go into a relationship with a man that has such a high sexual desire. U beta correct now, because if u don't, u guys are going to have serious problem if u guys settle down as a husband and wive.
Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Nobody: 9:25am On Dec 06, 2016
After 5rounds? Mehn, that dude must've removed all the sweetness from that pusssy.

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Djbond(m): 9:31am On Dec 06, 2016
when I'm sex starved,,,, someone somewhere is having 5 rounds,,, wow... and all these girls been claiming holiness when I approach them

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Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by Djbond(m): 9:33am On Dec 06, 2016
op in case you need a new boyfriend, I'm here for you and I'll take good care of you, I'm single and I need a girlfriend desperately,, just send me pm... this is no joke, I'm dead serious

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