Be Faithful.
Inculcate the habit of being faithful to your spouse. It's disheartening to see people who have side chicks and side niggas for whatever reasons which is primarily due to insecurities triggered psychologically, messing around with hearts isn't cool nor justifiable, in most cases you say "when i meet the right one i will stop", but, it develops into a habit that even with your soul mate you just can't help it but cheat, the phrase "every boo got a boo" is hypothetically stated by players to justify the act of cheating, unfortunately cheating is one of the reasons marriages break on daily basis so if you don't want to be a victim of a broken marriage practice faithfulness now, it sure will help you.

Create A Niche In Your Apartment.
This one is basically for girls...You both had an agreement that you spend days, on getting there his home became too comfortable that you had to spend a month not minding if he's making face, we all love our space, even married couple get tired of having too much of each other, create a comfort zone in your home that after some hours away you miss your space, that way after a night out you will definitely head home, stop over staying in a man's house when your bride price hasn't been paid.


Don't Keep Mute On Your Spouse.
I came across a thread backdated since 2007 where peeps where complaining of spouses who keep mute, if one must do that the maximum should be a week(7days), there should be open communication and keeping scores with your spouse isn't cool, people can't always be available to you...that you move out and move into the relationship whenever you deemed fit, you could lose an amazing spouse by this act.

Sorry!.
I call this the "Five Letter Magic Words". So simple to spell but people find it difficult using on daily basis, it solves problems but a dearth of it destroys home, to move a relationship forward you ought to know when to say "sorry!".

Stop Demanding For Subscription.
A week or a month offline won't kill, calling your boyfriend and demanding for chips like he owes you isn't cool...give yourself some regard and you will be respected, if he notice you're offline a kind hearted one will decide to subscribe your phone when you're not demanded, though some will pay deaf ears to it, he still doesn't owe you.

No Sex First.
Most guys who come with blandishment don't really love you but are after what's in-between your legs, as you move into a new relationship don't let him have it, give it time to know what his real intentions are...except you both had an agreement to have Sex sooner, those who don't believe in No Sex Before Marriage...How many men will end up bleeping you before you settle with one?,...It gives room to know a man's true intentions as to if he's after your body or a long time something.

Lastly, don't pretend with whoever you're with, let your spouse accept the real you.

nice thread Benny

Lucaz:
nice thread Benny

Thanks dear!.

Too long abeg d poster below u get d summary?

Noooo.. I tot you that you re above me would summarize o.. we have lazy readers here...

Lets hope the poster below us will summarize..

OBTSubtle:
If your relationships aren't perfect.. Then fuçk that shït you typed up there..



Let a river take its course..

Is any relationship totally perfect?.

Grab the message and run along.

While his evrybodys on these tread his shout tread too long? tread that am reed on 33secs

@op I'm no that his not easy too forgave an cheeting bf, but I we telled u that love his conca all tins, pls mine deer, pls forgave him has u can see that his beeged u too forgave him


Op pls biko, forgave and forget

IamLEGEND1:
Ain't nobody got time to read that long thing.

Moving on to more pressing matters: this is Nairaland, and in Nigeria we use kobo as our sub-denomination.....not cents.

Carry your ITK and be going.

Benita27:
Thanks dear!.

Next time make the heading more captivating and eye catchy for fp purposes.

firstking01:
Nice time make the the heading more captivating and eye catchy for fp purposes.

Ok!, thanks.

adaksbullet:
While his evrybodys on these tread his shout tread too long? tread that am reed on 33secs

@op I'm no that his not easy too forgave an cheeting bf, but I we telled u that love his conca all tins, pls mine deer, pls forgave him has u can see that his beeged u too forgave him


Op pls biko, forgave and forget

This guy just buried English. Did English offend you b4 ni

Worst thread ever posted on Nairaland , old news when we done see before

That silent treatment is what i hate most.

CplusJason:
That silent treatment is what i hate most.

Very annoying, some peeps even do that for months like life is static.

Benita27:
Very annoying, some peeps even do that for months like life is static.

I have to call it a quit. Make she carry her wahala go.

CplusJason:
I have to call it a quit. Make she carry her wahala go.

Not cool at all.
It could destroy a lot and as well make the chemistry dwindle.

So amazing how confused some people can really be....

Op aren't you the lady with her main handle Herbie27, opposed a set of ladies on how they dish out dos and donts of relationships.

You on a thread created by Laveda some weeks ago which was not different from this fought with some ladies who held contrary to your views. Even tho they were right

You stated that relationships are unique and you don't like it when people give out rules on nairaland. You termed them desperate when they tried to correct you.

You fought diddyydiva, misspicy kingrex and others!Maintaining your stance,

What are you doing now?

What's the difference between this thread and Laveda's?

I am not calling you out here to be mocked but to chip this in you. Sometimes in life we meet people who are more exposed, experienced and learned. Even tho our opinions might differ from theirs but we should be open to knowledge. And how we express our opinion should be polite and not offensive cause one day we may see what they have seen and reason in their way too...

Just an advice.



https://www.nairaland.com/3411621/guidelines-model-girlfriend

Benita27:
Not cool at all. It could destroy a lot and as well make the chemistry dwindle.

Lol, she didn't know that....
I wish her well tho!

MzMayD:
So amazing how confused some people can really be....

Op aren't you the lady with her main handle Herbie.27, opposed a set of ladies on how they dish out dos and donts of relationships.

You on a thread created by Lave.da some weeks ago which was not different from this fought with some ladies who held contrary to your views. Even tho they were right

You stated that relationships are unique and you don't like it when people give out rules on nairaland. You termed them desperate when they tried to correct you.

You fought diddyy.diva, miss.picy king.rex and others!Maintaining your stance,

What are you doing now?

What's the difference between this thread and Lave.da's?

I am not calling you out here to be mocked but to chip this in you. Sometimes in life we meet people who are more exposed, experienced and learned. Even tho our opinions might differ from theirs but we should be open to knowledge. And how we express our opinion should be polite and not offensive cause one day we may see what they have seen and reason in their way too...

Just an advice.

First and foremost i made my stand clear on that thread, and i'm unapologetic about it...don't put words in my mouth as the issues with that thread was about "fasting and praying for guys", as i felt doing that meant ladies where going overboard with such relationships.

Hope have clarified myself as my thread is all about the wrongs people do and the way forward, it's not just for ladies as everyone could relate to it.

Benita27:
First and foremost i made my stand clear on that thread, and i'm unapologetic about it...don't put words on my mouth as i issues with that thread was about "fasting and praying for guys", as i felt doing that meant ladies where going overboard with such relationships.

Hope have clarified myself as my thread is all about the wrongs people do and the way forward.

Not here to argue with you lady! Read the advice, meditate and decide on what to do with it.


This is not different from laveda's thread hun Take it or leave it.

CplusJason:
Lol, she didn't know that....

I wish her well tho!

Cool!.

MzMayD:
Not here to argue with you lady! Read the advice, meditate and decide on what to do with it.


This is not different from laveda's thread hun Take it or leave it.

"Nobody ever wins an argument" as i'm not here to argue with you either.

Mind you...i didn't condemn La.veda's thread as some ladies are guilty of what she stated.

Benita27:
Cool!.

I see someone calling ALL nairalanders just because of your comment.

Benita27:
"Nobody ever wins an argument" as i'm not here to argue with you either.

Mind you...i didn't condemn La.veda's thread as some ladies are guilty of what she stated.

My dear I just pointed a part of you that needs improvement. Something your butt lickers and fake ass friends won't do. I made a peaceful statement and I want this thread to remain at that so I am seriously avoiding some words......

Like I said earlier do whatever you wish with the advice. I care less

MzMayD:
So amazing how confused some people can really be....

Op aren't you the lady with her main handle Herbie27, opposed a set of ladies on how they dish out dos and donts of relationships.

You on a thread created by Laveda some weeks ago which was not different from this fought with some ladies who held contrary to your views. Even tho they were right

You stated that relationships are unique and you don't like it when people give out rules on nairaland. You termed them desperate when they tried to correct you.

You fought diddyydiva, misspicy kingrex and others!Maintaining your stance,

What are you doing now?

What's the difference between this thread and Laveda's?

I am not calling you out here to be mocked but to chip this in you. Sometimes in life we meet people who are more exposed, experienced and learned. Even tho our opinions might differ from theirs but we should be open to knowledge. And how we express our opinion should be polite and not offensive cause one day we may see what they have seen and reason in their way too...

Just an advice.



https://www.nairaland.com/3411621/guidelines-model-girlfriend

Kisses I tot about that, the girl is fake like china phone

CplusJason:
I see someone calling ALL nairalanders just because of your comment.

You'd be more of a man than pussy if you shut your mouth and stay out of this.


Sissy

NairalandEFCC1:

Kisses I tot about that, the girl is fake like china phone

In as much as I would have loved to agree with you judefcc, I will still say stay out of this

CplusJason:
I see someone calling ALL nairalanders just because of your comment.

Lol.
She's proving a point.