Can u marry a girl that doesn’t know how to cook or do domestics work at home?
do you prefer teaching her or break up with her or after marriage you sending her back to her parent,
for me the guys should seat her down and tach her, i think she will be happy to learn.

How about if she doesn't want or like to learn?
I don't pray to have such girl as a wife, one of basics needs of a wife is to cook for a husband, here you are telling me to teach her.
For what?

i cant do "can't cook, won't cook women" and all that teaching her talk is nonsense as far as i'm concerned; a woman who spent 18yrs or more with her parents and never picked up any cooking skills na now she go come learn,
scheooooooooooo

i can

if she can't cook,i will cook,but only for myself

Who was cooking for the guy before? His mama abi? Perhaps he should go and marry his mother. Lazy mummy's boy.

michelin89:

Who was cooking for the guy before? His mama abi? Perhaps he should go and marry his mother. Lazy mummy's boy.

typical female response,

i can if only she is ready to learn

neo_welsh:

i can if only she is ready to learn

nice talk bro

michelin89:

Who was cooking for the guy before? His mama abi? Perhaps he should go and marry his mother. Lazy mummy's boy.

tell them my dear.
for the girls what if your guy is not the way you want your ideal man to be as in financially, behaviour and other wise will u brake-up with him or give him ideas on how to run a business or how to make money, and tell him the way you want him to be?
plz i need your opinion thanks

MrPrsdent:

i can

if she can't cook,i will cook,but only for myself

Nice one!

Oh my world! @posakosa you are fucking crazy,you have no job,you are just everywhere on this site,you had just 240 post last week i was here,you post up to 200 everyday,someone pls kick this guy out of this site

What business do i have with a woman who does not know how to cook or do domestics house work in the first place?even if na juju she use,e no go work.

myhouse:

Oh my world! @posakosa you are fucking crazy,you have no job,you are just everywhere on this site,you had just 240 post last week i was here,you post up to 200 everyday,someone pls kick this guy out of this site

This is my old ID. It was restored.

Both Men and Women should learn how to cook, what with the stereotyping?

lol.

As much as I love the idea of my husband helping out with the house chores sometimes. . .I still feel a woman should be able to cook and take good care of her home. . .

My husband doing the cooking/cleaning/living off fast foods/restaurant meals and takeaway every time just because of my inability and unwillingness to learn is simply unacceptable!

im white knew nothing about african food african culture nothing before i met my husband been together 4 years and hes taught me everything in that time i can now cook beautiful food that even african men are licking their fingers for so theres nothing wrong in a guy teaching his woman how to cook, this way the woman learns to cook food the way her man loves his food to be with my own added magic tricks , and hes always coming back for more!!

@poster   do not bother teaching her because she will not take it seriously

To the question, I can.

A wife is a life partner, not a maid. Her being able to cook isn't part of my criteria in marrying her.

@ poster,
i agree with you that if a guy loves a girl who can't cook he should teach her. it doesn't take much to teach, simply cooking together would go a long way. if she loves the guy she'll be motivated to learn.

Siena:

To the question, I can.

A wife is a life partner, not a maid. Her being able to cook isn't part of my criteria in marrying her.

posakosa:

YES, thats why you have a house girl.

thank God some people know there's a difference between a maid and a wife.

Kenny_G:

i cant do "can't cook, won't cook women" and all that teaching her talk is nonsense as far as i'm concerned; a woman who spent 18yrs or more with her parents and never picked up any cooking skills na now she go come learn,
scheooooooooooo

many girls only learn to cook after 18, and they cook well too. what about a girl from another tribe who cooks well but just not your tribal food?

sweetcoint:

for the girls what if your guy is not the way you want your ideal man to be as in financially, behaviour and other wise will u brake-up with him or give him ideas on how to run a business or how to make money, and tell him the way you want him to be?
plz i need your opinion thanks

i won't break up with a guy because he's not as financially strong as i'd like (but then i won't even date a guy who can't pay his bills). i'll advise him, seek help from friends/family and do anything i can to encourage. but if i see he won't accept help, or he's too lazy or proud, i'll leave him.

if the deficiency is in his behaviour, it would depend on what exactly the problem is, how far we've gone with each other & how much i love him. if it's something i can live with and i love him enough then i may stay with him, but if it's something that really pisses me off i might just leave him.

^^^ thats a good one

a woman is not all about cooking and doing house work

Ogini? Kilode? Wetin dey? Marry wetin? Mba ooooo, Lai Lai,

If she is overly beautiful and pretty with a good heart,I will marry her.she may be one of those who are born into homes where there are abundance of house helps.Secondly I will send her on a one month cooking course at my sisters place in lag and onitsha to learn.I can as well teach her. or we will hire old maids to cook for us and then eat outside always.

i can atleast these things are teachable and learnable if she is willing. but if she nor change xpecially for the domestic work at home, meaning she's dirty and i can't cope with a dirty woman