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I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Jkcarz1: 8:12pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
Anytime my girl is with me, i keep recycling the same questions. I seemed not to even know what to discuss with her if we talk for more than 10 minutes on phone. It's time i expanded what we chat on. Any clues on what to discuss ? |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by spikedcylinder: 8:26pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
You two have little in common. That's just a conspiracy theory anyway. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by oyinda3(f): 8:29pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
why can't u meet her and do things together so you can have things to talk about otherwise you can talk about the type of phones you have. since the phone seem to be the only thing you have in common. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by whitesturd(f): 8:43pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
Typical 190.i am not surprised. poster maybe u guys are just not meant to be 4 each other. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Nobody: 8:54pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
Watch more of home video and narrate it to her, i hope your problem is solve. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by 190: 9:37pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
whitesturd: whats so typical abt me whiteshark~ |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by whitesturd(f): 11:22pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
190 degrees.na me u dey cal white shark.nway sha i feel do werrin sharks dey do and swallow u tiny 190. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by DrLorenz1(m): 1:51pm On Oct 30, 2009 |
Jk-carz: It may be that you're not a very talkative person, else you wouldn't be having this ordeal in the first place. It may also be that you expect your girlfriend to always do most of the talking. If that is the case, what if your girlfriend is not someone that talks much? What do you expect her to do? The issue of compatibility should not arise because relationships exists where one of the couples don't talk much and they still get on fine. What i'll advise you to do is to look for a topic or topics that you both can discuss. I'm sure there are some. Very soon, you'd stop being tired of your relationship. I personally don't talk much and sometimes i can seem a little boring, but just say some magic words, and you'll have to stop me from talking. . . I hope this helps. . . |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by daduke2k(m): 1:56pm On Oct 30, 2009 |
watch basket mouths nite of a thousand laugh then tell her the jokes |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 30, 2009 |
Find out more about her interest and hobbies, there's always common ground there and you guys should try doing fun stuffs like going out or watching movies together either at ur place or hers (FOR 9JA I KNOW SAY E HARD) anyways, ask her abt her friends n who is driving her crazy, she'll talk forever, lol hope i was helpful |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by coolier(f): 2:58pm On Oct 30, 2009 |
Why not try with how you've both spent your time before the call, weather, food, politics, sports, gossips about people around you. Far too many things to talk about. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by iice(f): 4:20pm On Oct 30, 2009 |
How come you guys don't have much to talk about? Shouldn't you have touched on this way way in the beginning? Find out about topics that interests you both, even if you don't know much on the topic. That way you can learn from each other. Also, sometimes some people gain interest in something because their partner has interest in that thing If that is the case, what if your girlfriend is not someone that talks much? What do you expect her to do? The issue of compatibility should not arise because relationships exists where one of the couples don't talk much and they still get on fine. Still a compatibility issue. Some couples who don't talk much are compatible precisely because they aren't talkers. Opposites don't always attract. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Seun(m): 12:10am On Oct 31, 2009 |
You have no common interests, time to move on. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Fiona0007: 12:21am On Oct 31, 2009 |
^^^ Don't be silly! You don't even know them, how can you tell if they are compatible or not? |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Nobody: 12:29am On Oct 31, 2009 |
so what are NLers expected to do here? chat with your girlfriend for you? and is it every single detail of their lives that people must post on the web? |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by spoilt(f): 12:33am On Oct 31, 2009 |
how about talking about recycling? |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Nobody: 2:52am On Oct 31, 2009 |
Haa I know a good topic---> Nigeria. Even two year olds would have a thing or two to say about the country. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 31, 2009 |
how about talking about the environment |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Pharoh: 3:13pm On Oct 31, 2009 |
stillwater: That should be the hottest topic in town right? @Poster You can talk about Career, Hobbies, sports and Goals. Try to tease her with questions about her character or what you think of her and try to exaggerate these questions sometimes. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by omega25red(m): 3:21pm On Oct 31, 2009 |
Like someone already said you have to do things togetherr in order to develop memories based on the two of you. Besides it seems like you are dating this girl online which is why you have run out of things to say |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by muffins(f): 6:17pm On Oct 31, 2009 |
Fiona0007: I hope you know you're talking to the administrator, consider yourself banned in a split second. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by neowelsh(m): 6:21pm On Oct 31, 2009 |
adminwatin? |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by ima1(f): 6:24pm On Oct 31, 2009 |
that happens at the beginning of every relationship. i suggest you guys hang out more and do things together, cuz i think she is not yet comfortable with you, it happened to me when i first started dating my husband, but things changed after i felt comfortable opening up, to someone else other than my family. |
Re: I'm Tired Of This Relationship. Nothing To Discuss When We Are Together. by Fiona0007: 10:11pm On Oct 31, 2009 |
muffins:EEEEEKKKKK!!!! |
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