After several month of been alone I decided to fall in love again with a girl working around my brother's house where am living before about 8 months ago. She first behave as if she is a good girl, she has finished her ND from Lagos Poly and am working with one of leading ICT company in Lagos, though she is still looking for job presently,but when we first met, she promised me heaven and earth that she will not have any other person after me, but to my surprised after so many commitment (Financially), without having anything with her (Sexually), she is behaving strange this day.

About 3 weeks ago she send a text message to me that she needs about 3k and I did not sent the money to her due to the fact that I did not have money then, because of this she has refused to me since, when I find out these I too make up mu mind not call her hope she call me, but to my suprise up till now She has not call me.

Please good dude of Nairaland advice me on what to do. Am confused and I still want to maintain my stand.

what if shez stranded or something bad happened to her?
call her up to find out if shez Ok and if she is why she hasn't called.
act mature dude

She is Healthy and fine I saw in front of my Church on Sunday, she said she stopped calling me because I stop calling her, but I know that it is because of the money I refused to give her.

well now that you know what she is about get her some money and bang the sh@t outta her then dump her azz

Stop wasting your money ol boy. Isn't it obvious what she wanted from you all along? Its better to give ashewo ur money than a girl that pretends to like you.

Na wa oh for all these beggy beggy, money for hand back for ground girls.

Don't people have parents and family anymore? Jeebus!

Mister poster man, if you know what's good for your pocket, you'll get a-steppin'

She stopped talking to you, thank your lucky stars.
If you woulda sent the money, she'd be asking for another 5k by now.

You got rid of her rubbish, sigh in relief and enjoy life

Guy, forget her. . .

what is 3k?after all you are working in one of the leading ICT companies.

@ poster

Even though she wan call you na that English you wan speak for am?

am beginning to think there's a standard for relationship.girl request money boy get sex cuz mehn you guys here are not encouraging i'm yet to hear a nairalander praise his or her partner, well poster one advice, jettison her

I feel you poster, you don’t need her, move on. She just wants to play u mugun. If you want to play d game with her, is up to u, you can invite her and start doing the thing, then give her d money. But really, I will advice you forget about her.

this kind of girls is what i call

ARMED ROBBER MOTOR~

Call her n find out for conscience sake then I suggest u leave her alone cos she isn't into u except wat financial aid u can render.

stop wasting your time and resources on a no good girl like her, and direct those 2 on upgrading your english. goodluck!