greenpasture:


We are basically walking in the jet streams of Western society. What we are getting is a " fatherless " society". Now, it isn't that these children don't have actual father's. [b] What has happened is that these father's have defined Fatherhood as simply putting money on the table. [/b]They can't model manhood and these children look for surrogate Father's in the gangs. That's the money is manhood culture for you.

It's a little bit more complicated than this but you get my drift.

kevinberry:
it seems males and females are raised differently within most households

the girls are always after money and lack basic home training most times,most of them get impregnate before 18,whereas the boys are trained to learn one trade or the other to support their families and to save for future use...

Some parents don't bother about training their female kids anymore but allow them the freedom to do whatever they like while the males are trained and made to learn different trade,working day and night....

Don't complain about your wives if you are not ready to train your daughters because they will be someone else's spouse one day.

shizzy7:
Why are you throwing insults??
Simple coherent argument you can't engage in. Go and learn how to interact.

tosyne2much:
You're a man of wisdom

Pidgin2:


A Satellite community, I must add mostly Easterners live here. I'm not bashing any tribe, I am one myself but I can help but think something is wrong with their upbringing

Pidgin2:


I'm not bashing, it's what I see I am saying, mostly Easterners live here and the boys are not well behaved I am not bashing, I'm only saying it as it is. The girls are very sweet and polite but the boys mba

Pidgin2:


A Satellite community, I must add mostly Easterners live here. I'm not bashing any tribe, I am one myself but I can help but think something is wrong with their upbringing

Pidgin2:


A Satellite community, I must add mostly Easterners live here. I'm not bashing any tribe, I am one myself but I can help but think something is wrong with their upbringing

Pidgin2:


It's terrible, almost all the boys here are in gangs, I keep wondering why their parents give them such freedom whereas their sisters are almost imprisoned.

Timbuktuo:
When women marry, they don't think "Hmm, can he handle a broom?" They're more interested in his ability to oversee the home with wisdom and provide for and secure the family. This is not the same thing men want in a woman. Men want a woman who can care for the home. This is the reality of life. These girls are being properly trained to be wives and mothers. Women don't leave their husband because he can't sweep, men don't leave their wives because she's not providing for the home.

Men are not women and women are not men. Period.

As to the issue of young men being unruly, it's partly because the village has been told to hands off raising children. When both parents are out to hustle, these kids have nothing to keep then grounded as older generations did in the form of neighbours and relatives.

Now, every little kid is a prince and princess and thy can do as they please and you, a neighbour, dare not set them straight for fear of drawing the ire of their parents. Of course, this is the natural culmination. You cannot have your cake and eat it. Actions have consequences.

RoadsAndGreen:
OK but stop lying. all liars go to hell.

how could you? you are evil.

Pidgin2:


She's being abused, please speak out if you can

Pidgin2:


I'm not bashing, it's what I see I am saying, mostly Easterners live here and the boys are not well behaved I am not bashing, I'm only saying it as it is. The girls are very sweet and polite but the boys mba

Pidgin2:


I'm not evil, I only said the truth to let people know about it. May I ask why you are taking this personal, did I mention your name?

misspicy:
Apart from the disrespect part, hasn't it always been like this?

Most boys were allowed total unrestricted freedom from even house chores for the single reason that they are male kids.
Most were given the choice meat,largest food portion,cleaned after by their sisters etc.
Why do you think we have some really dirty husbands now? Overgrown babies who can't even wash their own boxers?
Even in my house,my niece wash her brothers cloths on the instruction of her mummy,beaten if she shouts back at them or fight them,not because she is younger but because she is female,and will go to husband house
a lot more,lemme hold it here.

Maybe the elite parents of this generation will help correct this trend for our future daughters

Davash222:

Easterners Asin Chinese Or North Korean

Davash222:

So you don't see all those Afonja Omo Ale and Agberos

Fidelismaria:



Is dat jealousy I detect @ op

Dat is how it has always bin nd continue to be

Aint notin u can do bout it


U just mad cos u aint a guy

Davash222:

Something is wrong with you.. When we say Lagos is no man's land, you guys debunked, now you have the effrontery to say 'mostly Easterners live here'. Because you want to label them bad and you still have to say you are not bashing any tribe.

greenpasture:


We are basically walking in the jet streams of Western society. What we are getting is a " fatherless " society". Now, it isn't that these children don't have actual father's. What has happened is that these father's have defined Fatherhood as simply putting money on the table. They can't model manhood and these children look for surrogate Father's in the gangs. That's the money is manhood culture for you.

It's a little bit more complicated than this but you get my drift.

Pidgin2:


I'm not evil, I only said the truth to let people know about it. May I ask why you are taking this personal personally, did I mention your name?

tosyne2much:
You have said it all sir.. God bless you