babythug:


Thorpido has done justice to your questions really! I'm hoping this thread goes far to enlighten those who don't know.

I don't even think it should be called female circumcision but female genital mutilation.

If it does prevent promiscuity it's probably from the emotional trauma the victim has experienced (that's for those who had it done at an age where they were aware)during the process.

Many women who were circumcised do not enjoy sex per se later on in life. This is one of its many disadvantages.

As for the powder ish..... its total hogwash! Of true then we shouldn't be using dusting powder at all since it purportedly has many cause effects! There's some talk about it being linked to cervical cancer though! I also don't see the essence of adding something with menthol to a baby's privates anyway.

I will advice you keep a close watch on your aunt so she doesn't convince your mum to chop off baby's "you know what".

This Africa sef na wa! One minute we seem to be moving away from old traditions next minute you'll see someone doing this to their child

Jesus Christ!!!
What type of evil is this nau

ifyalways:
Dusting powder on a girls clits? Is that not witchcraft and wickedness in high and low places combined ?

I'll kill any man,woman or evil spirit that tries that with any of mine.

@Topic,I see no correlation with being promiscuous or the lack of it thereof with clits, does it mean all ashawo's ,high end escorts, etc were all uncut ?

ignorance disease is worse than cancer

cococandy:
Congratulations BTW. You can do this. Don't let anyone do what you're uncomfortable with to your baby.

Thank you
I won't let them.

rofemiguwa:



R u kidding me.
Is dis from u.u r so knowledgeable na.anyway am guessing dis is new territory for u
Congrats.didnt know it haf happen sef.
Biko dont try it ooooo.
Have u had of powder n cervical cancer.daris all dere is to dt dusting powder trash.

Please save that angel.she will tank u for it.

Meanwhile oya show yasef for mums thread na.

Dont dare leave ur angel with that aunty o.she fit do her tin witout ur consent.

Cheers

Mama.
It's a very new territory.
My knowledge has nothing on being an ftm.

Try ke?
I was against it first and after all I've read here, I will use the tiger claws on my stomach to attack anyone that wants to try rubbish.

I'm coming to the thread very soon. I have been following both threads quietly.

ifyalways:
Dusting powder on a girls clits? Is that not witchcraft and wickedness in high and low places combined ?

I'll kill any man,woman or evil spirit that tries that with any of mine.

@Topic,I see no correlation with being promiscuous or the lack of it thereof with clits, does it mean all ashawo's ,high end escorts, etc were all uncut ?

Good question.

sisisioge:


Groovy...she must be a knockout beauty. Biko keep her afro o, don't let people convince you to cut off her hair.

Ehen, that is another ish we need to touch sef.
How can I come and barb this hair, how, why?

Godmother:


Dusting powder in the vjay
There's nothing we won't hear in Nigeria

@ MizMyColi
Congrats on the birth of your precious lo.
Pls turn detective for that your aunt so she doesn't do the mutilation behind your back.
Cos if she does, its sorry that will end the matter and harm would have been done.
Please, ask her if she was circumcised, how the experience was, and if she's happy for it.

Behind my back?
Ohh Christ!!!

Them no born am!
Waaattt?!!?!!

Well, let me not talk further.

She is not that kind of person.

Thank you Sis. To God be the glory.

Coldfeet:
I tell whoever is available for omugwo what and how I want my baby to be treated and if you don't like it please take the next exit.

Mizmycoli DONT allow such no matter how convincing they may appear, even pressing of the hoo-ha with hot water is another form of genital mutilation, I keep a hawks eye on whoever is bathing my babe as in i NEVER leave the environment still s/he is dressed and handed to me. I've had several run ins with my mum and mil based on some archaic practices they want to apply on my child. My mum keeps saying I did this and that to you yet you didn't die how will the same thing now be harmful to your own child?

The argument is endless but i always stay firm and you should too cos your baby is relying on you to stand up and protect her at all times.

Congrats by the way and kisses to the lil one


Circumsized or not a promiscuous person will be promiscuous just do your part as parent and hope and pray the environment doesn't daleru your hard work.

Lol @daleru
Thank you Ma'am. Oluwa is involved and by his grace our LOs will turn out fine.
She says Hi Mama


Even hot water too?
I didn't know o.
I thought it's routine.
Thank you for this info.

dangotesmummy:
Op you want to brutalize your female child?

You nor go school?


Chaiii just look at some mother's.abuse her na

When you finish remember to give her tribal marks on her bom bom and belle as well as her brez

MizMyColi:
Experienced Papas Mamas and Doctors, please help me chook mouth inside this matter o.

So an aunt saw mum bathing my daughter and started asking why we didn't cut off that thing in her hoohaa.
I started wailing that it is not even something any mom in this age should consider.

Then she said there is an alternative.
That leaving it like that will make her too "active"
That alternative is dusting powder.
Dusting powder!!!

She says it will kill some cells that cause the need for too much pleasure.

Please don't read and waka pass o.
Let us deal with this matter.
People need to be aware.

I am concerned because I wouldn't want to my girl to grow up and start being promiscuous. I heard a story of one waka waka lady who claimed that it was because nothing was done to her hoohaa...

Is there even any truth in that?
If there is, are there ways one can prevent such?

Should the hoohaa of our female infants be left just as they are? Any risks.

Help please

You have a daughter?

thorpido:
Your own hoohaa wasn't touched as a child,was it?
I don't see any relationship between dusting powder and it's effect on c.lit.It definitely doesn't kill cells there.

Promiscuity to a great extent has to do with knowledge,exposure and lack of training. As a child grows(boy or girl),he/she is made aware of the changes in the body and the effects.Self restraint and sexual education/safe sex is also taught.

Congrats on the birth of your LO.

nnamdibig:
**************hoohaa************
.
.
Wetin we no go hear

As in,
Mizmycoli of all people being bashful about using the word vagina...

Mizmycoli asking/thinking about female circumcision


Indeed perspectives change when it has to do with something that concerns us personally

MizMyColi:


Yes.
But then I have seen the hoohaa of some ladies and it looks so tattered.
I don't know if it is lack of circumcision or due to too much sex.

Tattered is not the right word.

Some women have flabby/flappy labia. Other women's labia fit just fine. Yet others elongate following trauma/sex etc.


A clit0ris is packed full of nerve endings that are xtremely pleasurable when stimulated. It is the main organ via which women enjoy sex. Retaining the c1itoris will ensure your daughter grows up to love and appreciate sex far better than her circumcised counterparts. Anyone telling u anything else is either ignorant or trying to sweet-mouth you.


It doesnt mean you should circumcise her though.

5minsmadness:


Tattered is not the right word.

Some women have flabby/flappy labia. Other women's labia fit just fine. Yet others elongate following trauma/sex etc.


A clitoris is packed full of nerve endings that are xtremely pleasurable when stimulated. It is the main organ via which women enjoy sex. Retaining the clitoris will ensure your daughter grows up to love and appreciate sex far better than her circumcised counterparts. Anyone telling u anything else is either ignorant or trying to sweet-mouth you.


It doesnt mean you should circumcise her though.

Thank you.
I appreciate the education.

5minsmadness:

5minsmadness:


As in,
Mizmycoli of all people being bashful about using the word vagina...

Mizmycoli asking/thinking about female circumcision


Indeed perspectives change when it has to fo with something that concerns us personally

Thinking ke?
Mbanu.

I just wanted to re-get the facts again incase there's something I missed the last time out.

babythug:


Come and see something here oh!!!!!

I'm just weak.

Is she aware that talc powder has been linked to cervical cancer.

I'm sure they use very hot water to 'massage' the poor girl's vagina.

I just hope they do not carry out the circumcision behind the mum's back.

One of my 'friends' at uni was circumcised as a baby in nigeria and na she f**k and change boyfriend pass. She's the first and only person I know to admit owning a Dildooo !!!

Clitoris
Clitoris

Clit0ris.

Na wa o.
This editing thing sha.

5minsmadness:


You have a daughter?

I do now
God bless her

MizMyColi:



Plus I don't have much female friends, compared to males. Inshot, I don't have as much friends to make up a sample size hence my decision to bring to NL for vast opinion sampling.

Oooohhhh.
Hmmmmmmmmm
Ok me and you no get beef. Make i no talk.

Lol.
I'm surprised this question is coming from you o.
'but then, there can never be too much awareness.

There has been ongoing sensitization on the adverse effects of 'dusting powder'.
Maybe you should read that up for a start.

I will advise you watch closely whenever someone else is bathing your LO. Our mothers do some of these things with good mind_ sometimes ignorance, not knowing they could be harmful.

My MIL has talent of using hot water that can comfortably skin okuko. Her own is story for another day...

By the way thank God it's Friday. I am in the mood of dancing

MizMyColi:


Mama.
It's a very new territory.
My knowledge has nothing on being an ftm.

Try ke?
I was against it first and after all I've read here, I will use the tiger claws on my stomach to attack anyone that wants to try rubbish.

I'm coming to the thread very soon. I have been following both threads quietly.

Take it easy u will soon get a hang of it.
Abeg tiger claws oooo.no mercy.
We will be expecting u soon

ifyalways:
Dusting powder on a girls clits? Is that not witchcraft and wickedness in high and low places combined ?

I'll kill any man,woman or evil spirit that tries that with any of mine.

@Topic,I see no correlation with being promiscuous or the lack of it thereof with clits, does it mean all ashawo's ,high end escorts, etc were all uncut ?

People are promiscuous for various reasons.

MizMyColi:


Ehen, that is another ish we need to touch sef.
How can I come and barb this hair, how, why?

Pls dont barb it.
Why would you want to barb it?
Wash it with baby shampoo (dont use adukt shampoo pls cos of the heavy elements therein) and oil it with coconut oil, it will be easy to comb.


Congrats by the way

MizMyColi:


Lol @daleru
Thank you Ma'am. Oluwa is involved and by his grace our LOs will turn out fine.
She says Hi Mama


Even hot water too?
I didn't know o.
I thought it's routine.
Thank you for this info.

Hot water is not harmful as long as its not scalding hot. You can let them do that i.e press the vagina.

But i'm in support with someone who said u should watch your aunt, some women use excuse of pressing the vagina to try and crush the clit0ris between thier fingers.

MizMyColi:
Experienced Papas Mamas and Doctors, please help me chook mouth inside this matter o.

So an aunt saw mum bathing my daughter and started asking why we didn't cut off that thing in her hoohaa.
I started wailing that it is not even something any mom in this age should consider.

Then she said there is an alternative.
That leaving it like that will make her too "active"
That alternative is dusting powder.
Dusting powder!!!

She says it will kill some cells that cause the need for too much pleasure.

Please don't read and waka pass o.
Let us deal with this matter.
People need to be aware.

I am concerned because I wouldn't want to my girl to grow up and start being promiscuous. I heard a story of one waka waka lady who claimed that it was because nothing was done to her hoohaa...

Is there even any truth in that?
If there is, are there ways one can prevent such?

Should the hoohaa of our female infants be left just as they are? Any risks.

Help please

Blood of babalawo. All these aunts and relatives will not kill someone. I tell u, if u check that ur aunt own and check her children they are still intact. I don't know why our african society is still too backwards in such things. Thats how an aunt came to our house then a started trying to implement her views which she never succeeded doing in her own house. Fear those people.

thorpido:

MizMyColi:


I do now
God bless her

Amen.
Thank God for safe delivery

5minsmadness:


Pls dont barb it.
Why would you want to barb it?
Wash it with baby shampoo (dont use adukt shampoo pls cos of the heavy elements therein) and oil it with coconut oil, it will be easy to comb.


Congrats by the way

No, not now o
I was it with her bathing soap and then use coconut oil.

I'm talking of when she grows older

5minsmadness:


Hot water is not harmful as long as its not scalding hot. You can let them do that i.e press the vagina.

But i'm in support with someone who said u should watch your aunt, some women use excuse of pressing the vagina to try and crush the clit0ris between thier fingers.

Okay.
Mum bathes her and I'm always there.
She doesn't do such crude tactic, plus the hot water she uses is same as the one she uses in bathing her bod.

Are you a healthcare worker?

drnoel:


Blood of babalawo. All these aunts and relatives will not kill someone. I tell u, if u check that ur aunt own and check her children they are still intact. I don't know why our african society is still too backwards in such things. Thats how an aunt came to our house then a started trying to implement her views which she never succeeded doing in her own house. Fear those people.

God pass them.

rofemiguwa:


Take it easy u will soon get a hang of it.
Abeg tiger claws oooo.no mercy.
We will be expecting u soon