CorGier:



Must EVERY relationship lead to marriage?
That you're someone's bf/gf doesn't mean he/she owes you anything. It's called a relationship, not an Agreement.

Oyinkhansolamie:
how many relationship do u have before becuz am sure u r married n not yet too

falconey:
"If it's intimacy, I may like to inform you that a lap dance costs just 1k in most strip clubs"

anyone in Lagos you know of? please do tell

BrandNewIV:


Just assume i don't have a mum or dad.
Now tell us what you learnt from yours.
In the meantime , we are talking about relationships here not marriage.

Splinz:


I learnt and still learning a lot of things from dad/mum relationships. I tell you, it's simply an amazing union which serves as a guide to me as their child. I believed you were taught as early as in the primary school, the roles of a father & mother in the family.

Coming down to bf/gf level, I think it is EVEN. I mean, if you think that it's only a guy that provides money, protection etc, then you may as well think again.

The truth is, there're some bf/gf relationships where the girl is the all and all.

CorGier:



Must EVERY relationship lead to marriage?
That you're someone's bf/gf doesn't mean he/she owes you anything. It's called a relationship, not an Agreement.

lazeal:
I believe the OP is older than you in age but you are much more matured with advance wisdom than he. Your parents have done really well and I can see you are from a home where love is the fountain of existence and cohabitation. God bless your mum and dad for a wonderful job well done!

VeeVeeMyLuv:

you have spoken well...

the attribute you just displayed is the kind every lady should look out for when finding a man, this is extremely important for their well being and the integrity of the community!


and may i add, regrettably, this attribute is in minute supply among the male folks on Nairaland.

lazeal:
Sure it is. They are becoming too much on here. Some have no life nor value and my South African friend has been complaining of their attitude. One even went as far as asking her for money. One before that one requested for video call, which she granted and like sex isn't big deal over there, she freely talked about it on call but idiot started viewing her in same lens as most of them view Nigerian girls who are outspoken on sex talk, which means slutty. He requested for another video which she declined. Dud threatened he will expose the first video because he recorded it.

Can u imagine the kind animals being bred in Nigeria and they have become like cancer.

BrandNewIV:


Good answer

As regards your counter opinion puffy, I won't argue with you anymore since I've noticed that about most African American women being too head strong and less submissive.

just maybe

BrandNewIV:


Just assume i don't have a mum or dad.
Now tell us what you learnt from yours.
In the meantime , we are talking about relationships here not marriage.

lazeal:
I believe the OP is older than you in age but you are much more matured with advance wisdom than he. Your parents have done really well and I can see you are from a home where love is the fountain of existence and cohabitation. God bless your mum and dad for a wonderful job well done!

BrandNewIV:


This thread was created to discuss a certain topic and not serve as a basis of comparison between two individuals.
Believe what you may, your beloved discussant has showed that he lacks respect for his own parents by bringing in other peoples parents into a discussion.
More so, he knows little or nothing about me or my parents so he has no justification to bring them in on this topic.
Besides , my question was directed to the ladies in the first place and they are in a better position to provide answers, not him or anybody's parents.

lazeal:


People can easily see through you thread and the flaws it has.

You are one of those who believe woman have nothing to offer aside sex, you just want to reaffirm your assumptions--hence the thread.

It's your day bro

BrandNewIV:


What a stewpid assumption.