This Is How It Happened

I’ve always thought we had a good and open communication. For most parts it was true. But something felt off the last few weeks, like she couldn’t stand the intimacy of a relationship. I tried to slug it down. But sometimes it doesn’t feel normal.

So last Week end, I snooped through her phone. There were messages…Yes, messages where she stated that she feels a bit pressured by the relationship. Messages where she asked ex-affaires to come over. Messages where she asked guys if they would like to get her laid. It was mostly hypothetical stuff, still hurtful. And not even a word about me.

In the past, I’ve always told her that she can talk to me about issues like that and I would fully understand. She gave me assurance that she would do… but she did not and lied to me.

Right now I’m playing love, peace and harmony. I’m back at work in another town and I’ll see her again next weekend. I still love her deeply and I guess that stuff is just an outlet for her fears. But it’s wrong of her.

I don’t know how best to express the feelings I have now but it feels so hurt right now. I can’t eat, I can’t sleep. It saddens me that I may lose her. But I can’t forget this and act like it never happened, if I do this there will be a bigger bomb someday. So I’ll have to sort it out now. And I hate it. I hate to know that maybe I’ll lose her if we can’t sort this out.

I’m so in love but sometimes that’s not enough… So currently I’m at work, waiting for the next weekend and I can’t get a thing done. I’m going crazy. I feel alone and tired. I would love to cry. But I have to act strong at work.

I would love to know her reasons. It’s not that she’s unhappy with me. It’s all about space and boundaries. And I know, if we can’t sort it out it will not work. Different opinions on space will never fit…

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You still have to talk to her about it....maybe it's time to call it quit...buh you're not a guy

if u get spiritual blindness while reading her message nkoh?Nobody will knw d cause/route of ur sickness.All u post here amount to Arabian story

Never fall in love with a girl

Another Palmchat Story?! Ok

Eeyah.... Sorry bro

Couldn't understand a thing. Are you a lesbian?

All this love thing sef don tire person

Luckymay:
Couldn't understand a thing.
Are you a lesbian?

He's only seeking attention, you know they say we are in the age of women, so he disguises to be female so that he gets attention

Tajbol4splend:



He's only seeking attention, you know they say we are in the age of women, so he disguises to be female so that he gets attention

Oh! In that case, he/she has been recognized.

No 1 rule of dating. Never enter a girl's inbox . Its a deadly place to be. Ur life will never remain the same once u come out..

Who send yhu?

dingbang:
Never fall in love with a girl

I no knw say person wey we gt d same mentality abt girls nd love de exist oo

dingbang:
Never fall in love with a girl

So u screw men

Ulrich01:
No 1 rule of dating. Never enter a girl's inbox . Its a deadly place to be. Ur life will never remain the same once u come out..

true story

UIA04:


So u screw men

nope. Ladies.. sex is much different from falling in love

B4 u confront her(because u av 2), brace ursf 4d worst DAT may happen. As in, don't b scared,imagine u've already lost her and feel d pain u wld feel nw ,den u talk 2ha and knw wat d p is and know if its sumtin u both can work out 2geda. I feel ur pain dear.......

U shld Neva go thru ur partner's phone except ure ready 2take wateva u c.

Go for drinks and fvcking spree.....start learning to live without her. or else you will just kill yourself one day

Who dey find something go see plenty



Np: Bother You - TuBaba ft Terry Tha Rapman

take this OP for your post

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ednut1:
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Did you have any reason to start doing this? I think this is a violation of personal boundaries. Read my girlfriends text messages - this is not normal. And I would rather not do it, only if she began to behave suspiciously, and began to hide something from me

. Una still dey read?

dingbang:
Never fall in love with a girl

Never,but if a guy wants to do so,let it be 10 percent only.

dingbang:
Never fall in love with a girl

As if you aren't in love with one girl?
Practice what you preach.

To all giving crazy advises, I blame those asking you all publicly. All of you no kuku dey active for life. So Una go come here come.bash women give lame advise.
Op, your gf get emotional issue. She may end up leaving u. Her crime is not being able to tell you asap.

Sweetplum:

As if you aren't in love with one girl?
Practice what you preach.

To all giving crazy advises, I blame those asking you all publicly. All of you no kuku dey active for life. So Una go come here come.bash women give lame advise.
Op, your gf get emotional issue. She may end up leaving u. Her crime is not being able to tell you asap.

to wipe you cord dey hungry me

Cutehector:
to wipe you cord dey hungry me

Help o. Mo Japa.

Sweetplum:

Help o. Mo Japa.

hush..

Luckymay:
Couldn't understand a thing.
Are you a lesbian?

Good question. Let's get that cleared first.

..and what's your point exactly??

Enyocole:
This Is How It Happened

I’ve always thought we had a good and open communication. For most parts it was true. But something felt off the last few weeks, like she couldn’t stand the intimacy of a relationship. I tried to slug it down. But sometimes it doesn’t feel normal.

So last Week end, I snooped through her phone. There were messages…Yes, messages where she stated that she feels a bit pressured by the relationship. Messages where she asked ex-affaires to come over. Messages where she asked guys if they would like to get her laid. It was mostly hypothetical stuff, still hurtful. And not even a word about me.

In the past, I’ve always told her that she can talk to me about issues like that and I would fully understand. She gave me assurance that she would do… but she did not and lied to me.

Right now I’m playing love, peace and harmony. I’m back at work in another town and I’ll see her again next weekend. I still love her deeply and I guess that stuff is just an outlet for her fears. But it’s wrong of her.

I don’t know how best to express the feelings I have now but it feels so hurt right now. I can’t eat, I can’t sleep. It saddens me that I may lose her. But I can’t forget this and act like it never happened, if I do this there will be a bigger bomb someday. So I’ll have to sort it out now. And I hate it. I hate to know that maybe I’ll lose her if we can’t sort this out.

I’m so in love but sometimes that’s not enough… So currently I’m at work, waiting for the next weekend and I can’t get a thing done. I’m going crazy. I feel alone and tired. I would love to cry. But I have to act strong at work.

I would love to know her reasons. It’s not that she’s unhappy with me. It’s all about space and boundaries. And I know, if we can’t sort it out it will not work. Different opinions on space will never fit…

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