sunshine46:

Don't u think she needs deliverance or sumtn cuz I'm afraid for her...I had a speck of doubt at first too,buh then,our friendship goes way back

She doesn't connect emotionally and mentally and sexually with her fiancee is what I think.

I once dated a girl in my school days who thought herself to be frigid and unresponsive to men.

Believe me it didn't take more than two weeks before she wanted me to pop her cherry and have her in all ways possible.

I taught her how to satisfy a man, orally and otherwise without doing the "do"... I couldn't bring myself to pop the cherry cos I didn't want all the emotional baggage that comes with that.

She won't forget me in her lifetime though cos I taught her plenty bad stuff, that's sexually I mean.

Hope you get my point AB girl?

TheRealestGuy:
She doesn't connect emotionally and mentally and sexually with her fiancee is what I think.

I once dated a girl in my school days who thought herself to be frigid and unresponsive to men.

Believe me it didn't take more than two weeks before she wanted me to pop her cherry and have her in all ways possible.

I taught her how to satisfy a man, orally and otherwise without doing the "do"... I couldn't bring myself to pop the cherry cos I didn't want all the emotional baggage that comes with that.

She won't forget me in her lifetime though cos I taught her plenty bad stuff, that's sexually I mean.

Hope you get my point AB girl?

Lol,u must have also taught her how to say a lot of things at once...but of course,I get ur point TR guy

sunshine46:

Lol,u must have also taught her how to say a lot of things at once...but of course,I get ur point TR guy

Hey, happy new week

You didn't even bother to say hi since Friday.

Not nice...

TheRealestGuy:
Hey, happy new week
You didn't even bother to say hi since Friday.
Not nice...

My bad really,I apologise...I've had my hands full lately

sunshine46:

No,she's not...I know her too well

My groundnny is a virgin. I'm sure you would believe this too?

GF wise up

hylyne:


My groundnny is a virgin. I'm sure you would believe this too?
GF wise up

I get where u're coming from buh then,she's ma friend...tnx all d same

sunshine46:

I get where u're coming from buh then,she's ma friend...tnx all d same

Ur always welcome.

makydebbie:
me?

No... Me... Of course you

sunshine46:
My bad really,I apologise...I've had my hands full lately

Must be quite a handjob you've got going on

CreamyMoltenLar:
Must be quite a handjob you've got going on

Must be quite a mistake u just made cuz seriously,I don't get u

ifex370:
Please expantiate



You mean you can do all the gra gra.. But you won't allow guy man to start motor...



Aunty lemme tell you.. Your just wicked.. That's the ans..


Any girl that does that to me.. That's the last you'll ever hear from me.. No time for bullshit

Hmmmmm

sweetjude:
i followed u and u refused to follow back

I object to the word refused....following is a tit for tat action now?

Prayers .. OVEN baked is not enuf, she needs Iya Basira firewood to cast the demon out.

Jagugu88li, get me the holy cane
ILE L'EYI gidi gan

Ebota ! ! I said com out!

sunshine46:

Must be quite a mistake u just made cuz seriously,I don't get u

Hehehe. Quite highhanded of you, assuming that because you couldn't understand my statement means there must be an error in it. You're just not witty enough to appreciate it darling

She will get over it.
Probably,the first time she had it steered some insecurities and fear.

CreamyMoltenLar:
Hehehe. Quite highhanded of you, assuming that because you couldn't understand my statement means there must be an error in it. You're just not witty enough to appreciate it darling

Fine then...enjoy d few remaining hours left in d day and have a luvly night rest wen u're ready

sunshine46:
Good pm Romancelanders; so, this is a bothered friend's story but I'm gonna make it a first-person narrative one and as short as possible...
I'm a young lady of 24 and I have a fiance already but I've got a problem (I started seeing it as one not until recently). Anytime my fiance and I are together,I could go to any length and height when it's time for pre-intimacy and romance but definitely not sex. Not that I haven't had sex bfr,had it with my first bf but we broke up not long after this. Ever since,I get utterly satisfied with just romance with every other guy that came my way (and now, my fiance),I jst get irritated at d point of going further. Recently,he's been asking me unnerving questions like 'if this is gonna continue in marriage' and then,I started giving it a thought. I really deeply love him and I know he loves me just as much but truth is,I don't envisage us making love at all. I love kids and would one day want to be surrounded with mine but how's this gonna happen when I can't even bring myself to do what will make it happen
I'm at a crossroad;so confused...

Tell us the truth

chigoizie7:

Tell us the truth

chigoizie7:

Tell us the truth

sunshine46:

Yes, u heard that

ifex370:


No... Me... Of course you

okay

rainerboy1010:



bae

hey

Your friend has something that is engraved in her subconscious; It could be religious i.e premarital sex ish, it could also be lesbianism as someone also pointed out or a bad experience from her last sexual encounter.

I had same issues, being very satisfied with just romance and feeling hurt when the issue of the real do comes up. However, she has to understand that she is hurting her man and she should be ready to do the do especially after marriage. But first she needs to work on her subconscious and if it is religious inclined, she will let go after marriage.

sunshine46:

SPDAZZY:
Your friend has something that is engraved in her subconscious; It could be religious i.e premarital sex ish, it could also be lesbianism as someone also pointed out or a bad experience from her last sexual encounter.

I had same issues, being very satisfied with just romance and feeling hurt when the issue of the real do comes up. However, she has to understand that she is hurting her man and she should be ready to do the do especially after marriage. But first she needs to work on her subconscious and if it is religious inclined, she will let go after marriage.

Aiit dear,tnx for contributing

am not sure the lady is ready for marriage