When you decide to get married, all the attempts to win over his family members begin. Be it love or arranged marriage, the woman who will be the new member in the family starts working hard to win the hearts of her in laws. However, when a new member comes into the family, it takes time to get accepted by all.
Different people will teach you different methods to make his family love you. Here, you can find some simple tips to become a vital member of his family

When you decide to get married, all the attempts to win over his family members begin. Be it love or arranged marriage, the woman who will be the new member in the family starts working hard to win the hearts of her in laws. However, when a new member comes into the family, it takes time to get accepted by all.

Different people will teach you different methods to make his family love you. Here, you can find some simple tips to become a vital member of his family.

5 tips to make his family love you:


Meet them: One of the most important steps to get accepted in his family is to meet his parents. Take out time from your schedule and turn up in their house. Do not go unprepared. Fix the time and date. Be punctual and dress up properly. Sleazy or revealing clothes are no no!
Learn to listen: You have to become a good listener. In order to have a better communication, just listen to what they say. If they are reserved, keep it in mind. Just remember there is a generation gap so do not argue with them. If you get pissed off

control. Breathe in and out. In the beginning days, you have to adjust if you really wish his family members to love you. This helps them warm up and get used to the new member.

Value them: They are your new parents. You have to accept the new member in your life too. Value them and make sure they know you are happy. If you try to be fake, his parents will never like you. Moreover, your man will understand that you are not interested to accept his family as your own. Show that you are selfless not selfish! Just remember, you have to be with them for the rest of the life, so value them and treasure them.

Do you remember their likes and dislikes?: Okay! You remember your father’s birthday and prepare what he loves the most. What about your (would be) father-in-law? From the very first meeting, start analysing them. Keep a track of what they love and hate. To make it simple, write down in a notebook. You won’t forget then and it looks responsible also. Just writing and memorizing will not help. Implement them. Try to impress his parents by preparing a dish they like or wearing some outfit they love. This helps you win his family’s love and also make them respect you for your dedication and responsibility.

Be a helping hand: As you are going to be the new member in the family, you have to help in the household chores. Help your would be mom-in-law in the household chores. From shopping with new mom till gardening with new dad, you have to be highly active.

These are few ways to win the heart of his family and make his parents love you.


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LALASTICLALA MYND44

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All of the above and more + more and even more cannot change Mama G's mind. Your pepper don red if she's the one that will decide your case.

The easiest way to win their love is to come from his state.

It is better if you are from same local government.

And best if you're from his village.

And over all best if they chose you for him.

I don't know about others but there's no "True love" for me in Imo State.


If she truly loves me then she will not come from Imo State.

ButterFrost212:
As far as I'm concerned, once my husband likes me, what else?

And who would you turn to when your husband stops pretending and become real?

Rev. Father?

Nnem......... Sometimes it is better to be in peace with your husband's people and be having issues with your husband than to be hated by his people and be loved by him.

If his people hate you then he will hate you too. It is just a matter of time and a little mistake from you...

No be small something, sometimes I dey even pity women sef .
You need a bf, you read books and articles on where to find a bf and how to find a bf.
Now you have a bf, you still read books on "how to win a man's heart", " how to keep ur bf", " How not to be the side chick".
Ok he is finally yours, you go ahead to read articles on "how to make your man propose to you". Dah!
So he has proposed, you still have to read articles on "how to make his family love you", "how to be a good wife"

Hmmmm, as if that's not enough, you still read books on "how to give your man mind blowing sex".
Like seriously, respect for the ladies ........

sheeeee after giving your boyfriends all the styles, does he not still cheat?

6th to comment i will get there though

my mum is very particular with the helping hand character.....






its a pity most ladies nowadays are scared to help out in the kitchen

Nice work....

If u lyk do all of dis end even more...som will neva b pleased

just waiting for a counter thread

True talk

Who the family epp..?

Once you and your partner are okay and decide to get married, any member of the family that decides to be a stumbling block, just jump am pass.

Don't just worry yourself. I agree it's a plus if you are cool with his mother and all, but if not, let everybody stay in their lane

Talk2Bella:
just waiting for a counter thread

WHERE you been aunty

Hmmm...

@ Finally1 & Nairalanddss,
You write well and i have seen some of your articles here, but NL takes credit for everything (just google the link to the articles and see). It seems you have not submitted your site to search engines yet, but your previous post that hit Frontpage appears on google via the URL.

And try to rephrase each story well and give proper references to the source where necessary as it shows some parts where you copy from so that your efforts are not wasted.
Lemme stop here.
Keep it up.

Cook them good meals,, alert the bank account of all the family members,,

Nice post OP.

If you really want his family to love like Nigerians love MMM, then watch this video quick quick




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o4hc10ZuMF4

As far as I'm concerned, once my husband likes me, what else?

Hmmm

Gardening ko you mean farming abi

finally1:

WHERE you been aunty

just got back from camp

women!

evil set of creatures.

Just tired of 'how to do this, how to do that'. Please just be yourself, who will love you will love and who will hate you will hate.

No reason am

This ain't nollywood.

_Fuck his family, all that matters is he loves u

Una stil dey discuss woman mata?

ButterFrost212:
As far as I'm concerned, once my husband likes me, what else?

okay o

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeemmmmmm.mmmmm Ok. Noted

Ladies una da hear