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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Sainttops(m): 10:54pm On Dec 17, 2016
Its very possible that she is a "devoted christian" and didn't want to commit herself to such fetish crap (very plausible)

Abeg egbon brother where is your brain abeg?
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by cococandy(f): 10:59pm On Dec 17, 2016
She did the right thing

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by joshuamoses101(m): 11:01pm On Dec 17, 2016
TrapQueen77:
shocked



May I ask... Is palm wine an alcoholic drink? shocked undecided
no o,its like bobo juice

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by FisifunKododada: 11:02pm On Dec 17, 2016
cool Maybe the guy is impotent or gay. Body no be wood - I no blame the gal. cool

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by smark61: 11:06pm On Dec 17, 2016
ObiOmaMu:
A Nigerian wedding was yesterday cancelled because the bride refused to swear she'll never sleep with another man apart from her husband.
According to Toni who shared the story:

A friend went for a wedding today only to call us and say it was canceled..
Like a "wedding" canceled...
guess why my people

.they gave the lady palm wine and told her to swear that she'll sleep with no other man but her husband.. babe no gree talk
And wedding was called off...
like a WEDDING..
and this did not happen in a movie.


Would you say this bride did the right thing?

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/12/nigerian-wedding-bride-refused-swear-sleep-no-other-man.html






Lies! Lies!! Lies everywhere undecided

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by chukswag(m): 11:08pm On Dec 17, 2016
weird..maybe d husband doesn't last and she had plans to get max satisfaction else where
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by kinibigdeal(m): 11:08pm On Dec 17, 2016
TrapQueen77
TrapQueen77:
shocked


May I ask... Is palm wine an alcoholic drink? shocked undecided
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by BrutusOj(m): 11:10pm On Dec 17, 2016
booqee:
A Christian should never swear or take an oath.. It is possible that she refused it on that note..
Not necessarily because she doesn't trust herself not to cheat..

If I was the one too.. I will refuse it.. What nonsense?!

What if D guy dies or something?

Old, archaic and foolish people!
When you don't know something, ask questions to be informed. it is not like the lady was asked to take an oath. just like the Christian wedding in the church normally have the part where both couple pledge fidelity to each other, some ethnic groups in Nigeria like Idoma(ogbadibos) in Benue, the esan in Edo... always ask the bride to take a kola nut and pledge her fidelity to her husband alone.Once the lady eat the kola, she is bound to her husband alone, if she go off her way and play any away match and the hubby isn't aware, she will face the consequences of the god of her hubby's people. And if the hubby is aware and doesn't act fast, OYO is his case, he is to face the wrath of the god of his people. Don't ask me why it is only the wife that is to remain faithful, cos we are talking about African tradition here which allows a man to have more than one wife, hence he own no one apology for going for another kpekus

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by oyesam2004(m): 11:10pm On Dec 17, 2016
hmmm she did what is right for her nt to regret her action in future... cus no one's knw what tomorrow hold.... ...
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by oyesam2004(m): 11:12pm On Dec 17, 2016
hmmm she did what is right for her nt to regret her action in future... cus no one's knw what tomorrow hold.... ... even man can't say yes to it....
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Shedrak1(m): 11:12pm On Dec 17, 2016
[color=#990[/color]Adonbilivit!

maybe shes not comfortable with the size of the guy's weapon of mass destruction
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by mylove4God(f): 11:14pm On Dec 17, 2016
She did the right thing by refusing to swear. The groom was he also told to swear not to sleep with any other woman apart from her?
What if the groom dies or becomes something else tomorrow which might lead to their separation, what will the lady do?
Swearing is similar to taking an oat which remains active unless broken by the both partners.
But shaaaa that man no try at all

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by masqot(m): 11:15pm On Dec 17, 2016
Why dem no give the guy Palmie make them see whether him go swear? Nonsense!

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Jazzlite: 11:16pm On Dec 17, 2016
bbmpin:
There are so many things that you need to take into consideration before judging her action!

How true is the story?(Nigerian bloggers create and inflate stories to drag traffic)

Is she "in"love with him?
Did she really want to marry him? (maybe she needed an excuse to walk away)

Then you also have to look at things "religiously"

Its very possible that she is a "devoted christian" and didn't want to commit herself to such fetish crap (very plausible)

Women are usually faithful in marriage naturally, doesn't make any sense at all for her to create doubts about her commitment to her fiance.
Na doveda be the bride
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by tit(f): 11:19pm On Dec 17, 2016
it is international tribal marriage.
she no understand the language.
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Adeboyefa(f): 11:21pm On Dec 17, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:
If they had put 'till death do us part' it would have made it considerable.

or better still "till death or divorce do us part ". The man may choose to divorce her tomorrow. Is she to remain celibate even after he has divorced her and married another woman?

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Babysheart(f): 11:22pm On Dec 17, 2016
If the guy is or becomes impotent nko?
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by golddust6000(m): 11:25pm On Dec 17, 2016
bbmpin:
There are so many things that you need to take into consideration before judging her action!

How true is the story?(Nigerian bloggers create and inflate stories to drag traffic)

Is she "in"love with him?
Did she really want to marry him? (maybe she needed an excuse to walk away)

Then you also have to look at things "religiously"

Its very possible that she is a "devoted christian" and didn't want to commit herself to such fetish crap (very plausible)

Women are usually faithful in marriage naturally, doesn't make any sense at all for her to create doubts about her commitment to her fiance.
Cant you read and Comprehend before writting such crap. In case you are blind in which i believe. The op said that " she refused to utter a word after the said oath" mr know all.
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by ramalot(m): 11:29pm On Dec 17, 2016
chiefolododo:
We live in a complicated world

We live in a simple world. It's assholes who complicate it.
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by eddybravo: 11:35pm On Dec 17, 2016
shocked pls gay gp home and qtion her b4 blames thanx
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Fiscabally(m): 11:37pm On Dec 17, 2016
Pple fear what they don't understand, hate what they can't Conquer!
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by eldoradoxx: 11:38pm On Dec 17, 2016
BrutusOj:
When you don't know something, ask questions to be informed. it is not like the lady was asked to take an oath. just like the Christian wedding in the church normally have the part where both couple pledge fidelity to each other, some ethnic groups in Nigeria like Idoma(ogbadibos) in Benue, the esan in Edo... always ask the bride to take a kola nut and pledge her fidelity to her husband alone.Once the lady eat the kola, she is bound to her husband alone, if she go off her way and play any away match and the hubby isn't aware, she will face the consequences of the god of her hubby's people. And if the hubby is aware and doesn't act fast, OYO is his case, he is to face the wrath of the god of his people. Don't ask me why it is only the wife that is to remain faithful, cos we are talking about African tradition here which allows a man to have more than one wife, hence he own no one apology for going for another kpekus
Thank you my brother for educating a lot of ignorant folks here.
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by eldoradoxx: 11:41pm On Dec 17, 2016
Babysheart:
If the guy is or becomes impotent nko?
She can divorce him before spreading her legs for other men, we are Africans with traditions!
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Zenlife: 11:46pm On Dec 17, 2016
bbmpin:
There are so many things that you need to take into consideration before judging her action!

How true is the story?(Nigerian bloggers create and inflate stories to drag traffic)

Is she "in"love with him?
Did she really want to marry him? (maybe she needed an excuse to walk away)

Then you also have to look at things "religiously"

Its very possible that she is a "devoted christian" and didn't want to commit herself to such fetish crap (very plausible)

Women are usually faithful in marriage naturally, doesn't make any sense at all for her to create doubts about her commitment to her fiance.

Story!
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Nobody: 11:59pm On Dec 17, 2016
that's called fetishness even i won't swear however if it was with a bible isn't it the same thing though ? headache dey catch me ?
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by wagba007(m): 12:08am On Dec 18, 2016
Fake lies
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Life4Varnity: 12:12am On Dec 18, 2016
TrapQueen77:
shocked



May I ask... Is palm wine an alcoholic drink? shocked undecided

wht is this one saying
do you read the thread @ all
alcoholic kooor sugarholic ni

u fit use anything swear or make oat... even water self or sand.. there is power in the tongue bro
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Richy4(m): 12:18am On Dec 18, 2016
It is a traditional wedding right?.... so where is the swearing coming from.....I thought it was only white wedding that couple exchange the vow of to have and to hold..in Nigeria....and in traditional wedding the bride take the wine and give to the groom and they bless them.....so which culture was that....This story did not add up....
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by sweetilicious(f): 12:19am On Dec 18, 2016
ritababe:


why cheat? if you are not ready for marriage why not spare the man some change.
I don't think a sane woman would sleep with another man aside her husband. Its not in the nature of women to cheat like this. Maybe she is religious.

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by sweetilicious(f): 12:21am On Dec 18, 2016
Came:
The husband for first swear as the head of the family that he will sleep with no other woman before the woman go swear. Leadership by example.
You could be right. Maybe this was what prompted her actions.
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by adewumiopeyemi(m): 12:27am On Dec 18, 2016
According to Toni who shared the story:
i dont believe dis story chikena
embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed

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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Handsomecole(m): 12:29am On Dec 18, 2016
Why always the "woman" why didn't the man swear too?? Besides there is more to what we that are not involved can't see in their relationship.

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