purple3091:
the merry go round as you call it,started when you quoted the other quote of mine(the first you quoted) and gave contradicting opinions of what is african and not,my point on point 3 in the intial quote you quoted was that when some one says they follow african tradition,they should do so fully,without cherry picking yet still say " i am an african tradition follower" while ...1) having an english,arabic,or whatever un-african name...2)following un-african religion..3)using un-african objects...3)dressed in clothes not africa...4)etc.for me i never say am a traditional african following because i know its logically untrue,am modern. also before i answer any of your questions in this post,answer the 2 ones i asked first

kevoh:

Define un-african?

purple3091:
ok,am quoting you back to correct your errors! It is contradiction to choose which parts of african tradition to follow/which suit you and say you are traditionally african while still using un-african objects,names(like you gave example) and languages etc...as simple as that...my first quotes that you quoted when you say you disagree completely,do you mean those things are african?because that would be a lie!and then here you are choosing certain parts you think are good(cellphones,modern clothes,etc) for you to follow,and discard the ones you think are bad(englich/arabic names,abrahamic religions etc) <<<all these examples are clearly un african yet you think some are 'good' and others 'bad' ,i'll give you an example to prove my point,if someone uses your sense of reasoning but vice versa(as in says that cellphoes,modern clothes etc are unafrican/'bad'(as in he wants a 'normadic' type of lifestyle) but that arabic,english names,abrahamic religions are 'good'/african as in adding like you added for his reason that they traditions and cultures evolve with time etc) yet says he is traditional following african,would you agree/disagree with him?...cos if your method of reasoning is used it means he is still tradition following..just saying..

Sandydayziz:

Halooo

kevoh:

I have already tackled your question in my previous post. You need to define what is Un-african? I keep hearing seeing un-african this and un-african that. I don't know how using my cellphone and driving my car is Un-African. These are products that improve the life of an average human! So please Define Un-African.

Tajbol4splend:


You still in that labor room, ain't seen ur flash in a while

TrapQueen77:




May I ask... Is palm wine an alcoholic drink?

meetmonde:
fear of the unknown, what if the hubby dies

purple3091:
ok,am quoting you back to correct your errors! It is contradiction to choose which parts of african tradition to follow/which suit you and say you are traditionally african while still using un-african objects,names(like you gave example) and languages etc...as simple as that...my first quotes that you quoted when you say you disagree completely,do you mean those things are african? because that would be a lie!and then here you are choosing certain parts you think are good(cellphones,modern clothes,etc) for you to follow,and discard the ones you think are bad(englich/arabic names,abrahamic religions etc) <<<all these examples are clearly un african yet you think some are 'good' and others 'bad' ,i'll give you an example to prove my point,if someone uses your sense of reasoning but vice versa(as in says that cellphoes,modern clothes etc are unafrican/'bad'(as in he wants a 'normadic' type of lifestyle) but that arabic,english names,abrahamic religions are 'good'/african as in adding like you added for his reason that they traditions and cultures evolve with time etc) yet says he is traditional following african,would you agree/disagree with him ?...cos if your method of reasoning is used it means he is still tradition following..just saying..

Sandydayziz:
Nah nah! Been everywhere, Xmas tins u knw

Tajbol4splend:


So how's it gonna go, mean the Xmas things, looks u wanit to be a big deal

Sandydayziz:

So true, I actually do... Buh wat to do? It's gonna be d way it's gonna b

ritababe:


why cheat? if you are not ready for marriage why not spare the man some change.

TrapQueen77:




May I ask... Is palm wine an alcoholic drink?

BiggyB242:

Is not insecurity, so many things are happening in this world today no one trust 100%, shine you eye before you say " I thy know". Is to put her on check, guess she had plans of cheating. Girls now marry A because he is financially secured and still string B along cos he is fun to be with.

doll912:


Will the man also swear not to cheat? Abi, she will put herself inside oath then if the man starts philandering or dies, one mumu oath will not let her move on ...abeg...she did the right thing.

sweetilicious:
I don't think a sane woman would sleep with another man aside her husband. Its not in the nature of women to cheat like this. Maybe she is religious.

Tajbol4splend:



In one of the days of these festive days, I'm wondering if we could toast glasses of drinks

Laveda:
Insecured men everywhere. why ask her to swearr when she has a conscience that will judge her when she eventually cheats?

That was just unnecessary.

Sandydayziz:

Makes sense

Tajbol4splend:


Great, I'll keep reminding you so that nothing gets in the way of something.

Sandydayziz:

Lol... I'll keep that in mind

RadicallyBlunt:
If they had put 'till death do us part' it would have made it considerable.

She could be religious and her religion may not allow such

ritababe:


why cheat? if you are not ready for marriage why not spare the man some change.

AuroraB:
Why? Why can't the man take the lead? Afterall, he's the 'head' of the family *rollseyes*

TrapQueen77:




May I ask... Is palm wine an alcoholic drink?

Hipsofagoddess:


It's "had I known"