Christmas is here again and as usual new clothes have to be sewn. I needed to get to my tailor's shop to check how far she had gone in sewing my children's' clothes. I didn't want to drive so I decided to take a cab.

As I waited I watched a little argument between a young woman and an okada rider going on across the street from where I stood. Before I could get a hang of what was going on, this woman had picked up a rock and hurled it at the okada rider's head! As in, I couldn't believe what I had just witnessed. Thank God that he was wearing his helmet otherwise, I would have been singing a different song here.

The man had wanted to leave the woman and ride off when she was running her mouth but the attack made him park his bike and check for bruises and possibly confront the woman. People there tried to appease him, "leave am, na woman." "You know how they behave." "No vex oga, na woman."
Apparently he calmed down, entered his okada and rode off while the woman continued to run her mouth. She then engaged in a verbal war with anyone that cared to caution her and then later stormed off.

We women sometimes think that it is ok to go violent against a man because we can do it and get away with it. From what happened, people were begging the man to ignore her simply because the perpetrator is a woman. It is excusable for a woman to behave violently but it is absolutely inhumane cruel and cowardly for a man to do same?

Assuming that the whole scenario above was turned around, I'm sure that that man would have been called all sorts names and probably beaten too.
Not to pardon any form of violence but i can't help but defend the man who retaliated by hitting back. He is not hitting because he just wants to hit a woman but because another human being hit him and he needed to defend himself.

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Christmas is here again and as usual new clothes have to be sewn. I needed to get to my tailor's shop to check how far she had gone in sewing my children's' clothes. I didn't want to drive so I decided to take a cab.

As I waited I watched a little argument between a young woman and an okada rider going on across the street from where I stood. Before I could get a hang of what was going on, this woman had picked up a rock and hurled it at the okada rider's head! As in, I couldn't believe what I had just witnessed. Thank God that he was wearing his helmet otherwise, I would have been singing a different song here.

The man had wanted to leave the woman and ride off when she was running her mouth but the attack made him park his bike and check for bruises and possibly confront the woman. People there tried to appease him, "leave am, na woman." "You know how they behave." "No vex oga, na woman."
Apparently he calmed down, entered his okada and rode off while the woman continued to run her mouth. She then engaged in a verbal war with anyone that cared to caution her and then later stormed off.

We women sometimes think that it is ok to go violent against a man because we can do it and get away with it. From what happened, people were begging the man to ignore her simply because the perpetrator is a woman. It is excusable for a woman to behave violently but it is absolutely inhumane cruel and cowardly for a man to do same?

Assuming that the whole scenario above was turned around, I'm sure that that man would have been called all sorts names and probably beaten too.
Not to pardon any form of violence but i can't help but defend the man who retaliated by hitting back. He is not hitting because he just wants to hit a woman but because another human being hit him and he needed to defend himself.

visit www.amaxonowu..com
Also follow me on twitter @amaxonowu

That statement "na woman" is reflex the man was not badly hurt because "na woman" if it was a man that used that same rock, helment or not you will still be singing a different song. I guess thats why people are quick to overlook. not saying its ok though

Well, I do not support women going violent against men. Even tho I am quite protective of women, when a woman raises her hands to hit a man, she has crossed boundary. Treat others the way you would wantbto be treated.

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That statement "na woman" is reflex the man was not badly hurt because "na woman" if it was a man that used that same rock, helment or not you will still be singing a different song. I guess thats why people are quick to overlook. not saying its ok though

If you want to be "for" vividly state yoir ground if you gone be "Against" state that vividly... Stop being a two face talking from both sides of the mouth. If you gon be a square peg, stick to that and fit your freaking hole, y'all need to stop acting like an hydra Medusa biatch.
TOODLES

Seriously Op hit it.Most women just like to inflict violent on men coz they know we might just overlook their act,sure we might but that act is bad,ladies and women in the house pls let's change if we fall in this category.

Let the feminists say something

No, it's not fine if it's a woman.
People say na woman because they believe if the man hits her with masculine strength, she would be more shaken.

In a situation where a woman has the guts to hurl a stone at a man,
You don't hit people and expect to get away with it.

I would have said, a stone for a stone, but as she no wear helmet...I think she deserves one hot slap to restore her factory settings.

hmm,

dis kind of scenario played out in my school recently, a lady backed by some fools is always known to harass guys and get away with it.
until these faithfully day she slapped a (men). When some bonfo will intervene, they said she be gel now leave am.

Na so d guy go bring female thug with koboko, come see beating.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander