OlajumokeBread:


Religion is the biggest scam in the history of mankind

In that your bible, tell me when Solomon did the wedding on his 500 wives or should we talk about his concubines ??

Your pastor is fuccking a fine babe right now and enjoying his life while you wey be his mumu follower dey starve yourself of sex

OlajumokeBread:


Religion is the biggest scam in the history of mankind

In that your bible, tell me when Solomon did the wedding on his 500 wives or should we talk about his concubines ??

Your pastor is fuccking a fine babe right now and enjoying his life while you wey be his mumu follower dey starve yourself of sex

OlajumokeBread:


Religion is the biggest scam in the history of mankind

In that your bible, tell me when Solomon did the wedding on his 500 wives or should we talk about his concubines ??

Your pastor is fuccking a fine babe right now and enjoying his life while you wey be his mumu follower dey starve yourself of sex

BluntMadmoiselle:


I'd say, a relationship between a true Christian brother and sister. A relationship placed on God's foundation

OlajumokeBread:


Who created him ??

He fell from the sky ?? When we were told that the earth was in no shape and form, he came from the air ??

I just want to kill myself, your brain is dead

OlajumokeBread:


Who created him ??

He fell from the sky ?? When we were told that the earth was in no shape and form, he came from the air ??

I just want to kill myself, your brain is dead

Sunnycliff:
No hug, no kiss, no holding of hands and butts, no nail paring and hair stroking.

Say words that are edifying and not amorous.

OlajumokeBread:


Religion is the biggest scam in the history of mankind

In that your bible, tell me when Solomon did the wedding on his 500 wives or should we talk about his concubines ??

Your pastor is fuccking a fine babe right now and enjoying his life while you wey be his mumu follower dey starve yourself of sex

OlajumokeBread:


Religion is the biggest scam in the history of mankind

In that your bible, tell me when Solomon did the wedding on his 500 wives or should we talk about his concubines ??

Your pastor is fuccking a fine babe right now and enjoying his life while you wey be his mumu follower dey starve yourself of sex

BluntMadmoiselle:
I've asked a lot of Christians this question but never got any satisfactory answer. A lot of people said "hugging". For me, hugging could lead to neck kiss which might eventually conceive cheek kiss till it gets to it's domain(lips). Thereby leading me to the next level bla bla bla bla

My question------What should be the level of intimacy in a Christian relationship

SmartyPants:
Truthfully, there should be no intimacy at all. Why? Because the way we are built, everything is intentionally designed to lead up to something else. When you hold hands you may feel it is harmless but that triggers the release of oxytocin (love hormone) which makes you want more, then you might hug tightly and if certain regions connect, you feel a warmth (sexual desires kick in at this phase combined with the presence of oxytocin....you are fighting a battle against nature.

It's best to take a functional view of relationships, without letting emotions enter too soon.

Analee:
gbam!u js nailed it

BluntMadmoiselle:
I've asked a lot of Christians this question but never got any satisfactory answer. A lot of people said "hugging". For me, hugging could lead to neck kiss which might eventually conceive cheek kiss till it gets to it's domain(lips). Thereby leading me to the next level bla bla bla bla

My question------What should be the level of intimacy in a Christian relationship

kaeforum:
There is nothing like Christian relationship, the rules in a good relationship are the same .

In any relationship you must spent time to become acquainted with your intended, that mean all forms of contact including body contact

You can't know a person through the eyes of your pastor or church member.

Christian dating is based on unrealistic and unpractical rules and expectation.

You are told to pray and fast, avoid all forms of contact with the person you want to marry.

You are brainwashed to expect that there will be no quarrels and challenges in the marriage, when such problems occur you are discouraged from reporting or talking about it all in a bid to keep a good image.

Issues of sex , are not discussed. Hmm

So many Christians are living in hellish marriages , constrained to talk or resolve them because such actions could embarrass their church, GOs, departments and family.

One thing they need to know is that there is no perfect marriage, you have to work on your marriage in sincerity and honesty.

lilyqueen:
There should be no intimacy

Ibitade1993:
I believe in abstinence till marriage but I can't get married to a man who is not romantic o... Being romantic does not necessarily mean being involved in sexual activities.

Afam4eva:
In Christianity it's called "Courting" and not a relationship. And courting happens when you guys have already agreed to marry each other with the blessing of the pastor and that's after you guys must have prayed and seen each other in the dream which is a clear sign that you're each other's will of God.

As far as limits goes, I think the way Deeper Life sees relationships should be the standard of every true Christian relationship.

1. You guys should never be seen together except in a public place where you can be monitored by people.

2. Don't touch each other. if a brother or sister tries to touch you, shout blood of Jesus and run

3. Don't look at each other lustfully. if your eyes will cause you to sin, pls by all means pluck it out.

4. After every encounter which each other, you guys should pray and purify yourself.

5. Never say "I love you" to each other. it's better to remove that tongue than to sin.

it's funny that most people who claim to be Christians don't abide by these things. The present day Christian can fvck for Africa. If brother and sisters in the lord fvck for you here, you go bow.

Naughtytboy:
My girlfriend speaks in tongues after a hot romantic session,,

Ibitade1993:

You can go to outings together, I mean for lunch, fellowship, and so on and you can take each other out during your birthdays.

Beatzmaker:


I didn't know Jesus and Satan created different types of relationship. You are either doing bad or good stuffs in your relationship. All these names to differentiate bad from good go just dey make me shake head. Christians can be so confusing even to themselves

Ibitade1993:

I am a born-again Christian but I am a very romantic person. Being romantic does not entail that I sleep around. I have seen many Christians who are born-again but their marriages have scattered due to lack of romance.

Ibitade1993:

That is my own point of view. You can as well hold unto your own opinion but as for me, I don't pray to end up with a boring man because I want a man who will make me smile always.

Ayexy:
A christian relationship. Here are my thoughts. Having read through all the above posts, i have come to see that most answers do not actually understand the question. The question is not "Is Christian Relationship good" but it is "What is it about". A Christian Relationship with the right foundation is all about been engaged to someone who you want top spend the rest of your life with. Not someone you just want to be close with for a while. When you are engaged, you can see each other in public places. The reason is because we shouldn't give room to the devil at all. You might think you won't do anything immoral but when that sister is a constant visitor to your home, those thoughts kick in and lets not forget that the heart is DESPERATELY wicked. Also, it is always advisable not to have a long courtship in a christian relationship. To me i think it should be about 6 months top. Anything more will start to lead to the parties involved been tired of the rules. Also that period, courtship involves understanding each other. Important notice, you can say all you want, but in a Christian Relationship, there is Nothing like Boyfriend/Girlfriend. It is for people who are ready for Marriage. Lastly and importantly, it should be holy. If you notice that the devil is coming in with immoralities, you can pick race (1 Thess 5:22).

dejidrizzle01:
I feel its all about maturity. There's no part of the scripture that categorically tells us not to kiss or touch or what not but we all know the end game is to avoid pre-marital sex which is a sin. If you can kiss and hug and won't fall into temptation of sex, go ahead. Just make sure you watch out for some things..
1. If your conscience isn't at peace after kissing and all, desist from it.
2. If you go crazy after kissing and you want more i.e sex... Intimacy is not meant for you.. Abstain.
3. If you have tendencies to start lusting after the sister because of your intimate time..don't do it
4. Lastly, let God's spirit guide you in every act

BluntMadmoiselle:
I've asked a lot of Christians this question but never got any satisfactory answer. A lot of people said "hugging". For me, hugging could lead to neck kiss which might eventually conceive cheek kiss till it gets to it's domain(lips). Thereby leading me to the next level bla bla bla bla

My question------What should be the level of intimacy in a Christian relationship