I f i can accept a gift from a total stranger,why not an ex!!!!

I will collect it, but shyly though. i dont want him thinking my BF is not capable. Infact he has to insist before i collect it.

Ujujoan:

You guys broke up .  .  .  .  but are still friends.

He calls you up, makes an appointment and comes bearing gifts.

He dosent want you guys to get back together oh . .   but he saw some nice things, thought of you and got them for you! 'No strings attached' he says!

Any implications in accepting 

It depends on what she's GIVING!!!

^^



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Why wont i?

If the gift is money, of course i will collect it with two hands self.

platinumnk:

^^

There i said it!!!!!!

i will not collect it,because the guy i am dating presently will not be happy. he may think i am not ok with him

~Sauron~:

It depends on what she's GIVING!!!

Before you start thinking dirty . . . . it was just a normal gift!

i probably won't, don't want gifts that i will have to start explaining on a later day . . . if it is my birthday or any special day however i probably would , it will be rude to refuse

whats wrong with dat?
have u not been collecting something worth more than that before

grab the copy

Ujujoan:

Before you start thinking dirty . . . . it was just a normal gift!

Blow-job is a normal gift. . . . . .

^^^ Oh! . . . I'd forgotten u were the NL 'c**t-digger'!

Ujujoan:

^^^ Oh! . . . I'd forgotten u were the NL 'c**t-digger'!

M.O.P.(Money Over P'ussies).

@poster, Yea i cn, if we are stil friends that is.

~Sauron~:

Blow-job is a normal gift. . . . . .

_{so I wasnt wrong in my assumptions}

;d ;d ;d

platinumnk:

_{so I wasnt wrong in my assumptions}

Which is??

~Sauron~:

Which is??

uju already said it

platinumnk:

uju already said it

Pay no attention to Uju.
She is confuzzled.

'Cunt-digger'? I mean who does that in this global recession?

It depends on what she's giving and the circumstances leading to the break up.
If she came out worse of it, then i'l never collect any gift from her. 
Juju fit dey am

Y not? open heart my friend

That you both have remained friends in spite of the break up might be an indication that there is much you share beyond romance. In that case, you accept them. My ex sent me a text recently that she was broke and needed some cash. I helped her, no strings attached.

~Sauron~:

'Cunt-digger'? I mean who does that in this global recession?

LMFSAO

@OP

Greek Gift!

Lol,Sauron

abeg no he dey craze?

Even if na motor, I won't accept.

Ujujoan I think as someone said before, it depends on how both of you know yourselves, which include how the relationship was when the going was good, what led to the break and how it was manage until the day of the gift presentation. no body can tell you whether it is good to receive the gift or not. because no one can really understand the interplay between the two in the relationship and after the break up. when you assess the situation with the indices above then you can take you decision based on how you feel, that whether you have peace doing it or not

Na fight? We're not kids. We're not enemies. Why not? It mostly depends on what caused the breakup, but something like a 40 inch hdtv or a ps3, or both would quickly change my mind anyways.

But Sauron makes plenty sense. A nice BJ would make a. . . nice present.  

nothing wrong

personally. i have never accepted any gifts from my ex before even while we were dating. when they give me gifts i always give them an excuse for them to hold it with the excuse i wil collect it later which i never do.

so if an ex gives my woman gift, personally, i wont tell her not to collect it but also i wont like it.

It depends on the gift, Ofcourse if it is kpomo i will take it by fire by force. lol