Some times there will be Bachelor's eve before a wedding. And most times there will not be any.Is it necessary?

It's another stupid, wasteful ploy by the Bride/Groom's friends to waste the hard earned money saved up by the poor felow towards his already probably over-blown wedding ceremony. Nigerians! Bach eve ko, Wedding Night ni.

It is not necessary to have one, And for those who choose to have one, it is not seen as a waste of money to them, because they can afford it and they want to have a great time with their friend who is getting married, what's wrong with that?
Not everyone has it, it is not necessary , it is just one of those traditions, it is not do or die, it is not a ploy by any one**rolls eyes**, those involved do it because they want to.

And you think Nigerians are worse? Come to America where the 'norm' is that the bachelor should celebrate his last day as a 'free man" in a strip club. How pathetic!!!

Gridlock:

It's another stupid, wasteful ploy by the Bride/Groom's friends to waste the hard earned money saved up by the poor felow towards his already probably over-blown wedding ceremony. Nigerians! Bach eve ko, Wedding Night ni.

I'm seriuosly trying to put my claws in here.
waste the hard earned money saved up by the poor felow towards his already probably over-blown wedding
How sexist or should i say ignorant of anyone to make a statement like the above.
I, as an example (in thousands of other ladies like me) planning our wedding ceremony(with my fiance ofcuz), and if it isnt 50/50, i'll be spending more and so would my family. so please put a sock in that archaic idea of poor fellas!

How can B.E be a waste of dough. I can't hesistate to disagree. Wait, have u been to one before, How was the atmosphere? Men, it is usually something to dream of. Bachelor's Eve is an occassion that tends to remind you of the responsibilites ahead and the life you are about crossing over. While the fun lasts, there are usually moments to recall, the guys and the babes u were very free with and how you intend to relate with them going forward. To me, is worth it. If you have the enablement, please celebrate! If I may ask, would you consider marriage anniversary as a waste of resources too. The answer is no. Afterall, there is no compulsion. You have the money and you want to spend it. Ahead, ahead.

How can bachelor's eve party be a waste of money for the bride and bridegroom? Don't understand. I have organised more than 5 BE parties and I know that it's the friends of the couple that contribute money to organise the function - not the couple! Infact, they don't spend a dime! Except you ain't got REAL FRIENDS.

i think bachelors eve is a waste sometimes, even though it can be interesting and fun.

@ Topic,

Don't think so. . . . . . . . .it doesn't help matters in the long run. . , . . . .

Bachelor's eve is very necessary.
I hope to do it TWICE before ma wedding.

Can you tell me what really goes on in Bachelor's eve that's exciting you?

stillwater:

Can you tell me what really goes on in Bachelor's eve that's exciting you?

It marks the end of bachelorhood. . . . . .
Friends of the groom organise the party and the groom should expect everything crazy to go down.
If his buddies really wanna push the envelope then u can expect female strippers to grace the occasion.

~Sauron~:

It marks the end of bachelorhood. . . . . .
Friends of the groom organise the party and the groom should expect everything crazy to go down.
If his buddies really want to push the envelope then u can expect female strippers to grace the occasion.

Female strippers? *shivers down my spine* uuurrgghhhhhhhhh, it's repulsive

stillwater:

Female strippers? *shivers down my spine* uuurrgghhhhhhhhh, it's repulsive

Of course. . . .I don't expect u to wow to female strippers.
Male strippers make me sick in me stomach too.

Female strippers? *shivers down my spine* uuurrgghhhhhhhhh, it's repulsive

That is why it is only for men!

~Sauron~:

Of course. . . .I don't expect u to wow to female strippers.
Male strippers make me sick in me stomach too.

Male strippers don't make me go wow either!!!
I feel it's perverts that do stuff like that. Bite me!!!

stillwater:

Male strippers don't make me go wow either!!!
I feel it's perverts that do stuff like that. Bite me!!!

Perverts??
It's entertainment. . . .
Boyz night out!!!

~Sauron~:

Perverts??
It's entertainment. . . .
Boyz night out!!!

Lol. Are you rapturable? Talk to me, jackal

stillwater:

Lol. Are you rapturable? Talk to me, jackal

I am super-rapturable.
Even if i ain't. . . . . .I can always grab ur 2 legs when u are ascending.
Are u sure u can carry ma weight along with you?

~Sauron~:

I am super-rapturable.
Even if i ain't. . . . . .I can always grab ur 2 legs when u are ascending.
Are u sure u can carry ma weight along with you?

Sorry I'm too light to help you unless you are as light as a feather, abi you want to pull me down to hell with you?

stillwater:

Sorry I'm too light to help you unless you are as light as a feather, abi you want to pull me down to hell with you?

Thatz why we need to start taking Pap!!!!
Please make it 8 litres for me.

~Sauron~:

Thatz why we need to start taking Pap!!!!
Please make it 8 litres for me.

You had better find your way to heaven yourself by living right. Sorry I can't help you here

stillwater:

You had better find your way to heaven yourself by living right. Sorry I can't help you here

U wld get heartbroken if u rapture n leave me here!!!
Remember your heart belongs to me.

Heartbroken? Hmmm ok "darling"

If d bachelor eve is used positively. A time for the married guys to give GOOD advice to d groom to be! And they have a good time eating & drinking.

I think it is a great idea.let him have his fun as long as no one gets hurt( emotioonally and physically). Who doesn't want to be celebrated?