Pidgin2:
Everything will be solved if you all learn to mind your business

dollyjoy:
I think you should man up and tell him how you feel,if you can't then please allow sleeping dog lie.


About the phone he bought I don't think that should be a cause to worry about. You are a man, take care of your responsibilities abegi.

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

kheengdiamond:

that's if it's not our fathers money

IamLEGEND1:
let me see if i can condense everything I saw up there into 5 sentences.
>Your brother is a pussyy who got pussy-whipped by a girl with an even larger pussyy.at this point,she can poison him and he'll die with a smile.
>Your sister has got bigger balls than both of you put together.
>Your brother is an abusive fool whose mumu button is being used to kill mosquitoes by one random ashawò
>You are one broke mofo.common phone screen.HaBa!
> You're a pussy......or have I mentioned that already?

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's hous :oe, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

Pidgin2:
Everything will be solved if you all learn to mind your business

Olasco93:
There are Seven sides to this story;
1. Your Brother's side
2. The Girl side
3. Your side
4. Your sister's side
5. Ewedu side
6. Your phone Screen side
7. The side of Onga maggi.hahahahaahahahahaha.epic..you broke it down.talk to ur brother even though it will hurt him.Men are stupid.Girls are crazy.

IamLEGEND1:
Touchpad.
shey na wetin you wan see be that.
he can't afford a touchpad.

stan241:
What your brother does with his money/ who he spends it on is primarily his business

Bluezy13:
Schedule a family meeting...for the three of you and iron things out.
Be mature as regards the matters you table and the matters you swallow.
If possible invite an Elder in the family...but that should come after you must have tried the first meeting.

That girl is a golddigger, love should go to hell! They ain't married yet. Family comes first before girlfriend

Billyonaire:
I do not see anything wrong with the girl's behavior and I mean it.

Firstly, you said she woke up by 11AM while you guys always wake up by 7AM. But you did not care to know if she wakes up by 7AM at her home or if she wakes up by 11AM. Do you want her to alter her sleep cycle because she is your brother's girlfriend ? Common man, she is not your househelp but probably your future sister-inlaw.

On the issue of Ewedu, I am confident that what will be cooked may have been discussed with your brother and he may have been convinced by the girl to try the Ewedu soup, in fact, a man has the right to change his mind if he is confronted with superior facts and arguments. Change is constant.

On the issue of phone. Sorry oh, I think the lady is very considerate to accept a 90k phone, some girls would have asked for iPhone7. I think this girl is a good girl.

Meanwhile, your sister has no basis to confront a guest that visited your home and for that guest to be your brother's girlfriend is really not great. I believe most of what has happened would have happened because you guys went through a difficult childhood and had to build your own house together before you live comfortably, which is something your parents are supposed to provide as other parents do, but all fingers are not equal.

In your sister and your mind goes this assertion in pidgin: "See oh, after we don suffer finish from childhood to this stage when things are getting better, this criminal girl wan come enjoy. E no go happen". But you guys really need to find out if this girl has a better family financial pedigree, if not, na one chance your brother enter oh.

My advise to you is; Do nothing stupid.
My advise to your brother is: Do not marry while you are inside same roof with your siblings, earn enough to have your space.
My advise for your sister is; Calm down, you are a lady and some guy will wisk you away and buy you a nice phone and host you, then you will prepare for him some Ewedu.

You guys need to know that the lady might turn out to be charm that activates your successes. Love does wonderful things to people, and love also destroys many people. It all depends on how you channel the love.

Make una arrange small meetings when the girl don waka. Tell your brother say, this crip no fit enter his wife and children oh, before the guy start injecting in the girl the seeds of a child to come.

My piece, though.

Bitchvibe:
Relationships like this should be allowed to playout. Wait for it...he's going to end up beating his girlfriend. Your brother might end up marrying her but in the end, It would be bitter then he would come apologizing to a sister he slapped and brother he.....oh well don't know what he did to you.

You said you 3 built the house together so you must all have equal say. And If two of you don't want her inside, I think you see what your brother doesn't see.

It's not your brothers responsibility to give you money or buy you things. "The only person that can give you everything is yourself".

Benita27:
Lol.

Your bro is inlove, it's not charm so just let them be.

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.
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... he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

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epobot:




Are you a man or a woman? secondly, how old are u? Also pple do crazy things for love esp guys,so dont be too shocked. Happy holidays..pray for ur brother and try 2 be friends with his woman

daben1:
You better tell your brother the truth before it'll be too late.
If you like, allow your brother enter ''fire''...

Freak101:
OMG this is on front-page??I didn't expect this

Please I'm a girl ohh,and I'm just 17 to y'all that think I'm a boy,edakun,I'm a girl and I'm just 17,how can I leave the house?where will I goto when my siblings are my only family??our Mom is late and we built the house together on her land that she left for us,we used to live in a landlord's house to those so we moved after her death and built a house even though she was already building it before her death, she built it to the window level so we built the rest and please lalasticlala can you remove this from front-page?tthese people replying are scary and I didn't expect this to be on front-page,I just needed a small audience but I got some warm answers though,thanks so much everyone please I appreciate your comments,God bless you all,God bless seun for opening this platform, it has blessed my night and I feel conforted..thanks lalasticlala I love your name,thanks to the remaining super mods,y'all are doing a great job here,God bless you all.

Season greetings