Adeinfo:


How, would love to learn

There is no serious minded girl in that regard.
Sometimes, she may say yes or no because she is scared of the unknown, she may be confused and just wants to be sure she is ready, she may not trust you initially and just wants to be sure she is dealing with the necessary guy, she may just feign it in order to know your reaction.
It all depends on how you go about her no or yes!
And if you should want to honestly hold onto her no or yes irrespective of her later decision or just to show you are very principled or to use it against her strictly, then you may end up without any cookie and you will certainly feel the pain when you lose her.
So, learn to play your cards well

Bahddo:
i believe it's the first one. Girls usually like the attention more than the guy giving it.

Stop giving her attention and she'd start wondering if there's a girl you find more attractive, or if the attention she used to get was all in her head.

Exactly.

Dfrenzy:
Hmmm... nice one, so what do you think is the best way to approach this? Thanks

Don't indulge her... Just let her continue putting in all the effort.

Quintessential1:


Don't indulge her... Just let her continue putting in all the effort.

Thanks a lot.