Greatzeus:

Girl stupid threads are created daily,debatable ones also,this is not one of them,this is real talk girl.
If I were a lady I would be glad reading this,just to learn and move forward. This is not male vs female crap we see on Nairaland, this is real talk,just learn and move on,it doesn't mean you are guilty of what he stated,if you acknowledge them to be right,or are you .
There is always a man to love you for real,yes there is,have you found him yet Or you are still searching
Note I believe in love,I mean sacrifice ,commitment, and also reciprocal, not the delusional, fictitious, telemundo type many girls fantacize about

Beamborla:

Moral decadence and imperfection especially in the context I used it are two different things.

You didn't answer my question. You maintained there is nothing like loving someone for real, in your opinion, it's about identifying the reasons for loving the person and hope it's maintained. The possibility that life can happen and some of the reasons for loving the person disappears can not be overulled. Another is that it's possible to come across another person with the 'reasons' and even more. How do you deal with such situation if the love is not for real.

Toks2008:


That is why I wrote about maintaining the condition.

You meet a sex dynamo and he makes your head spin in the bedroom and you say you just love him for real...he is broke,jobless and very arrogant but you say you just love him but in essence it is his koboko that you love then something happens and the koboko stops working and the other crazy stuffs become an issue and you are left with two options...TOLERATE OR LEAVE

Many marriages turn from real desire to tolerance in a short while and when you ask the couple,they call it love.

Can a man still love a lady who does not respect him, cook for him or allow him sx? I guess if there is anything like loving for real then no circumstance ought to tilt the emotional balance.

My advice for you..when a guy says I love you please ask him what he sees in you that makes him "love" u and once he tells you, try to maintain that condition or you stand the risk of being dumped...FACT!

Beamborla:


You only keep scratching the surface and going off... Perhaps, you don't understand me.

Have a nice evening

skarlett:

The location is not precise, so yeah I'm somewhere around

misspicy:
Rules rules and rules everywhere.
Your first point is very flawed,if it takes been very careful to make the right decision I will do that,who wants to end up with a dangerous man or worst still a murderer or rapist?

There is no crime in marrying late.
So y'all need to chill on using that phrase as a threat.

I have nothing more to type,this rules have been over flogged especially by Toks,are there no new topics to talk about?
You keep recycling the same sh!t since 2015,I remember giving myself headache cos of your threads,now all I see in them is a joke.

I will pass on this

TheSonOfMark:


Oddly , your post is directed at her and her ilk. She's one time too many admitted , albeit shamelessly, that she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs without categorically stating what tangible thing she'd bring to the relationship. Remember that saying about geriatric folks being uneasy at the mention of dry bones? Well , this is one of such scenarios. Below is one of her numerous leeching posts :


https://www.nairaland.com/3447076/question-female-money-freaks/1#50774102


Hypocrites like her play the gender equality card only when it furthers their selfish agenda.

u stalking her now

If she doesn't put anything financial into the relationship,thats fine 2 an extent.
Its a matter of what she and her partner are comfortable with and agree on.

A woman doesnt necessarily have 2 contribute financially,eg the housewive

x240:


Ain't it around Shasha, Akowonjo?

LegalBaby:
all your threads are always against ladies

TheSonOfMark:


Oddly , your post is directed at her and her ilk. She's one time too many admitted , albeit shamelessly, that she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs without categorically stating what tangible thing she'd bring to the relationship. Remember that saying about geriatric folks being uneasy at the mention of dry bones? Well , this is one of such scenarios. Below is one of her numerous leeching posts :


https://www.nairaland.com/3447076/question-female-money-freaks/1#50774102


Hypocrites like her play the gender equality card only when it furthers their selfish agenda.

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Greatzeus:

Girl stupid threads are created daily,debatable ones also,this is not one of them,this is real talk girl.
If I were a lady I would be glad reading this,just to learn and move forward. This is not male vs female crap we see on Nairaland, this is real talk,just learn and move on,it doesn't mean you are guilty of what he stated,if you acknowledge them to be right,or are you .
There is always a man to love you for real,yes there is,have you found him yet Or you are still searching
Note I believe in love,I mean sacrifice ,commitment, and also reciprocal, not the delusional, fictitious, telemundo type many girls fantacize about

Toks2008:


9.If my husband truly loves me,he will never cheat on me:

I know this issue is over-flogged and many ladies will never agree to this fact..."YOUR HUSBAND CAN HAVE EYES FOR ONLY YOU AND IN FACT COMMIT SUICIDE IF YOU LEAVE HIM YET CAN STILL CHEAT ON YOU"...sounds stupid I guess but that is just the truth..

Just warn your husband that if he must do let him go far far away from you and must use protection...I always say...only a foolish lady will hinge her marital happiness on her husband's sexual faithfulness to her.

I'm not supporting philandering but this is just how the cookie crumbles.

jmoore:

Any man that loves his wife will never cheat on her!!

Love is a duty, to be faithful to your wife is a duty. If you fail to be faithful to her, then you have failed loving her.

Maybe you have another definition of love.

Being unfaithful is an invitation of danger into the family. If he can't protect the family by being faithful, where then is the love?

Condom will not protect the wife when the mistress is planning to kill the wife so she can take over.

lajoshua:
lalasticlala this should be on front page.
Awesome article toks2008. Do you know one of the proofs of the impact of man is the opposition he faces. Let them talk bro just keep doing what you do.
People have eyes they can see. cheers sir

Toks2008:


I honestly share your theory but it remains theory ...in the real world..it's the exact opposite so face reality.

If 8 out of 10 guys cheat on their wives then why the sermon?

jmoore:

It shows the evidence that they don't know the meaning of love and don't practice it. Marriage and love ain't the same thing. One can still be married and not in love.

IamLEGEND1:
N.P-Lil'wayne- bítches love me ft Future & Drake.

I'm on that good kush and alcohol
I got some down bitches I can call
I don't know what I would do without y'all
Imma ball 'til the day I fall (ball, ball, ball, ball)...

jmoore:

Any man that loves his wife will never cheat on her!!

Love is a duty, to be faithful to your wife is a duty. If you fail to be faithful to her, then you have failed loving her.

Maybe you have another definition of love.

Being unfaithful is an invitation of danger into the family. If he can't protect the family by being faithful, where then is the love?

Condom will not protect the wife when the mistress is planning to kill the wife so she can take over.

LegalBaby:
all your threads are always against ladies

greatgod2012:




I stated my opinion based on what I've seen among nowadays ladies, without quoting you or any other lady, why couldn't you state your own opinion same way without triggering unnecessary confrontation or reacting as if the post is directed at you

MizzD:
This guy's wife and daughters are in trouble.. Day in day out na so so rules and regulation.

Let women choose and deal with their choices .