crackhaus:

Have you even sat down to think about why he's choosing her over you?

Trust me, when it comes down to making a selection of a partner for men who are lucky enough to have choices, we almost always go for the one that gives us the least stress, not the one we love most.
It's usually females who choose life-partners based on a feeble emotion called love.

Search yourself, at least for the next guy you meet.

I'm not perfect n mistakes are bound to happen. Those in marriage do not have perfect spouses, dey learn to be more tolerant n patient,dey learn to b honest, love, pray communicate n above all understand each other. So wuh u jst said is baseless pls.

shugasofttouch:
no we stayed separately all through.

If a man chooses another lady while dating you,it just means that man is not the best for you.
It may be hard since you've been with him for many years but count your losses and move on.It's better he shows himself as unstable now and you know rather than when you must have married him.

shugasofttouch:
I'm not perfect n mistakes are bound to happen. Those in marriage do not have perfect spouses, dey learn to be more tolerant n patient,dey learn to b honest, love, pray communicate n above all understand each other. So wuh u jst said is baseless pls.

My dear, u just ve to b calm. I know u re going tru alot of pains but dont allow ppls comment to add to it. U brought ur story online, so expect anything nt everyone will b on ur side. Try 2 ignore...and if u must reply dem just say OK, thanks bc some ppl re here to provoke u. U need to b nice, 2 keep d gd comments flowing...

Sweetheart you just have to be calm for yourself, I may not have walked I your shoes before but I'm sure I have walked in something similar. You don't need to beg him all you need do is find other things that make you happy and are time consuming.Only if he is not yours will he not come back for you. Biko 6 years is no joke.

Wahala dey o...
You just gotta forge ahead

I sympathize with you ... I'm sorry that your fiance has appeared asshole.

shugasofttouch:
I'm not perfect n mistakes are bound to happen. Those in marriage do not have perfect spouses, dey learn to be more tolerant n patient,dey learn to b honest, love, pray communicate n above all understand each other. So wuh u jst said is baseless pls.

Okay na.

Keep sulking then, instead of moving on.

ElDeeVee:


Alright...Good luck to you

good luck to you too