PaperLace:
My ancestors

On a serious note, why would my husband be arguing with my father. He doesn't have respect or what?
My father that suffer for me, train me in school...my dad that watched my infant bed.
I have only one father na, I can always get another husband.

In short, my husband would have to apologise to my father whether he is right or wrong... All these husbands of this generation should learn that they can never take the place of one's father.
Shout at my father in front of my husband? Unto what na? I dey craze? Can he shout at his mother in my presence or in my defence?
I will calm my father down jare...

Fathers are precious

ChappyChase:
If she dears sit down, then let her be rest assured that she will continue to sit in her father's house cause am so done with the marriage

PaperLace:
My ancestors

On a serious note, why would my husband be arguing with my father. He doesn't have respect or what?
My father that suffer for me, train me in school...my dad that watched my infant bed.
I have only one father na, I can always get another husband.

In short, my husband would have to apologise to my father whether he is right or wrong... All these husbands of this generation should learn that they can never take the place of one's father.
Shout at my father in front of my husband? Unto what na? I dey craze? Can he shout at his mother in my presence or in my defence?
I will calm my father down jare...

Fathers are precious

kaluxy007:
pls tell us more about ur hubby

Xcelinteriors:
My loving and precious dad. Husband that will go out and sleep with other women, screw husband and he dare not argue with my dad sef shey he dey mad ni?

ChappyChase:
If she dears sit down, then let her be rest assured that she will continue to sit in her father's house cause am so done with the marriage

PaperLace:
My ancestors

On a serious note, why would my husband be arguing with my father. He doesn't have respect or what?
My father that suffer for me, train me in school...my dad that watched my infant bed.
I have only one father na, I can always get another husband.

In short, my husband would have to apologise to my father whether he is right or wrong... All these husbands of this generation should learn that they can never take the place of one's father.
Shout at my father in front of my husband? Unto what na? I dey craze? Can he shout at his mother in my presence or in my defence?
I will calm my father down jare...

Fathers are precious

Tyviv:
Will walk away

Tyviv:
Will walk away

PaperLace:

Na dowry you pay , you no buy me.
My father and family first, followed by my children...

alexialin:
I will look at them and I will say why are both of behaving like kids.. Then I will shake my head and walk away from the house and from the car. I will just take a taxi home.

Malakh:
I guess you don't know the meaning of dowry then

ChappyChase:
If she dears sit down, then let her be rest assured that she will continue to sit in her father's house cause am so done with the marriage

Trueyarn:
I can tell that you are still single...

queenjuli:
I will obey my husband. that thing that will make my husband raise his voice on my father must be serious. beside getting into the car will just be me running away from the heat. I am not sure I'll even enter the room if I hear both of them arguing

Tyviv:
Will walk away

Malakh:
I guess you don't know the meaning of dowry then

YOUNGrapha:
are u not a salopale...maybe u knw the character of ur pale..........now wisper it to me is ur father a drunkard?




you believe ur husband wouldn't shout at ur father for nothing while u can't balance the situation that ur father wouldn't shout at ur husband for nothing...unless u already knw that u father is mentally unstable

engrobidigbo:
Women get confused when faced with such dilemma because they don't know the power they possess.

The following facts give her a strength when faced with such situation;
1) She's a wife to the man, thus got the keys to his heart
2) She's a daughter to the older man; and we know how men and their daughters get so bonded, sometimes they have stronger bonds with their daughters than their wife; hence, she's also got the key to his heart.

A woman is married into a family to further unite the home and not break it. If she takes any of th options you gave @op, she'll further tear up her relationship with the other person she didn't cling to.

If i were the woman, I'll yell at both my husband and dad and warn them to stop acting like kids. They'll be shell shocked at your reaction. Next, get them both to sit and talk some sense into them. If they refuse to listen and try to turn the table against you like your dad saying "did you just shout at me?"", then use the cry blackmail tool in your software (all women have this ). Cry that they don't love you that's why they want to destroy you by fighting and quarrelling.

queenjuli:
funny the way you see it. whatever happens to respecting your elders?

YOUNGrapha:
and u think it proper comparing age when it comes to sound reasoning

LaylaAli:
I will shout at hubby for even thinking he could shout at my papa

*Then call him big daddy when we get home*

queenjuli:
I hope you'll go with sound reasoning when you walk in on your wife in a heated argument with your mother