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Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 7:07pm On Jan 10
This is my first post of the year and i say a big happy new year to all my post readers.

I can't stop laughing when some people say their relationship is disagreement-free forgetting that even as close as the tongue is to the teeth they fight.

It is good when you disagree and agree within so short period of time, this is called maturity, but no matter how good you might want to describe your relationship that you will not remember your moment of disagreements.

A relationship without disagreement is like a city without laws governing the affairs of the people therein, it will collapse very soon by the people.

Disagreement makes you know how to deal with your partner. It makes you know your partner more than any other person as you will try not to give room for the cause of that disagreement next time because no matter the level of the affection there will still be limitations.

If you don't know, disagreement make a relationship stronger, this only applies to those who overcome the disagreement as not all disagreement ends in agreement.

It is not possible to have a disagreement-free relationship, the best is to get over the disagreement within short period of time.

Disagreement is not for two strong-headed partners, those who will not accept their fault, those who cannot submit their ego to each other, in fact, such relationship cannot last.

The best thing is for one to just allow peace to reign even when the other who might even be at fault is not ready for settlement.

No relationship is/will be completely free of disagreement, this is why the parties involved must be good at relationship management which i wouldn't say is common sense but unique sense for any mature being.

Learn to control it as fast as possible as not to allow it to escalate to irreparable level.

This is the secret of those relationships/marriages you envy out there, yours can also be envied only if you can submit your ego to the one you truly love, it will not cost you anything you know?


Source: http://bamisepeters.blogspot.com.ng/2017/01/disagreement-is-inevitable-for-healthy.html

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 7:40am On Jan 11
Raise up your hand if you have never had disagreement in your relationship or marriage.

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Divay22(f): 10:35pm On Jan 14
So you mean if there is no disagreement in a relationship then something is wrong or fishy....

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Abrupt: 10:35pm On Jan 14
o_O

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Donshemzy1234: 10:35pm On Jan 14
For those of you who dragged FTC with me having knowing that have never achieve such before God is watching meanwhile check my signature it will elevate you that I guarantee.......

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by happney65: 10:36pm On Jan 14
Isoriat..

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jan 14
Wait small! Who get motorola charger?
Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by BJAYADEMOLA(m): 10:36pm On Jan 14
Nice write up..... There is always some madness in love. But there is also some reason in madness.

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jan 14
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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Freshwhyte(m): 10:37pm On Jan 14
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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jan 14
bamisepeters:
Raise up your hand if you have never had disagreement in your relationship or marriage.

I'm currently in the middle of one.

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by ireneony(f): 10:39pm On Jan 14
Who relationship help undecided
Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Ekpekus(m): 10:39pm On Jan 14
Since we are human raised in different backgrounds and culture with diverse mindset then disagreement is bound to occur. Even siblings do disagree.
It is healthy if handled maturely as it makes you know the other person better . But if childishly handled then "wahala dey"

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Atiku2019: 10:39pm On Jan 14
I Love My Wife smiley

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jan 14
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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jan 14
#Yawn undecided
Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Zenlife: 10:41pm On Jan 14
BJAYADEMOLA:
Nice write up

Seconded.

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Lasskeey: 10:41pm On Jan 14
grin

Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Larablink(f): 10:43pm On Jan 14
So constant disagreement Is health for a relationship.
Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jan 14
Abrupt:
I'll have to disagree to agree with you. Depending on what you mean by 'Disagreement.' Relationships can be disagreement free, there are tons of relationship like that out there
there is no future in such relationship...

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by J3RK: 10:45pm On Jan 14
Are you talking abt the Disagreement that leads to breaking of people's heads??

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by izzy4shizzy(m): 10:45pm On Jan 14
Seconded
Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by siegfried99(m): 10:45pm On Jan 14
Nice
Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Martinola(m): 10:45pm On Jan 14
Relationship?...not my domain, e no konsain me
Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Thermodynamics(m): 10:45pm On Jan 14
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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by CriticMaestro: 10:48pm On Jan 14
disagreement can be healthy as well as hazardous..simply try to avoid it

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by Lasskeey: 10:48pm On Jan 14
cheesy.... I no go give u the TiN today....

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by emi14: 10:52pm On Jan 14
This is theories, the practical is difficult depending the prime cause of the disagreement. Forget it when infidelity is involved. My tradition forbids infidelity. Church or no church. Christianity or no Christianity. Reserve your advice to these regard.

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by bezimo(m): 10:54pm On Jan 14
The greater the level of compatibility between the folks involved, the lesser the disagreement

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Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by lonelydora(m): 10:54pm On Jan 14
Ok
Re: Disagreement Is Inevitable For A Healthy Relationship - Bamisepeters' Blog by qeezyfeezy(m): 10:55pm On Jan 14
much xpected in a relationship tho buh am happi ah dnt indulge in a ........

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