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tempex88:
I read the way this Lady was celebrated on Lindaikeji and i totally do not think it is worth the Hype.
As much as am happy with her on her new found love, what we should preach and encourage is resolution not walking away.
Walking away should be last option. When one does walk away, it is not something worth celebrating when he/she chooses to settle with another partner.

Maybe a celebration of her life after the previous partner finally kills her rather than of new found love would've been more 'worth it'. Trash

Nice story..d saddesta part is dat her mum died 2 days to her daughters wedding after being of immense help to her revival..lert dis story not b of Nora alone bt of Nora's mother and an advise or caution to Nora's foolish ex....almost sounded lik a nigerian film were rita edochie(mama tears) dies at the end..

well d end justify d means

1bkaye:
Maybe a celebration of her life after the previous partner finally kills her rather than of new found love would've been more 'worth it'. Trash

and how are you sure the new man will not kill her? shit

PaperLace:

Brand new because some sadist here on NL have made us believe such women can only marry, widowers...divorcees...etc. They told us they can never marry a never-been-married-young man.

oh I understand now. So he's brand new coz he's Neva bn married. And d girl is not brand new cox she's a divorcee. Talk of stigma

ephi123:


hahaha @ Belgium! Me sef I be Holland + Germany combined

This is a New one. Can i meet this HollGerman

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tempex88:
I read the way this Lady was celebrated on Lindaikeji and i totally do not think it is worth the Hype.
As much as am happy with her on her new found love, what we should preach and encourage is resolution not walking away.
Walking away should be last option. When one does walk away, it is not something worth celebrating when he/she chooses to settle with another partner.

Your kinda wisdom is a must-have for this generation.

tempex88:


and how are you sure the new man will not kill her? shit

Lmao that's how you've rationalised this whole situation? Our Lord God provide this one with sense. Amen

No. Her ex is not the devil. You are. Hear his own side of the story.

InvertedHammer:

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Nora is an angel.

Her ex is a devil.

And her friend said so.

I smell BS
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So Beautiful. May God bless her days on earth with smiles,joy and peace. I am deeply touched.

Looks and sound like some kinda nollywood movie to me.congrat all the same though,that guy sha na enemy of progress so since he dey toast married woman,be like say na my future be that too since all this single girls for nairaland no send my matter.

Tkayhandsome:
No. Her ex is not the devil. You are. Hear his own side of the story.

You lack comprehension.

Go back to school.


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You understand essay. Get lost before I find you.

InvertedHammer:

You lack comprehension


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Fedayeen02:
This is a New one. Can i meet this HollGerman

Haha!! Identify yourself first. Are you also HollGerman, or BritSpaniard or pure Belgium

feezeedee:
igbo men sabi sharp sharp deal.....the dowry go don cheap well well....justsaying

Ur mind dey there. Once na second marriage dem no dey do list again for east here. You go hear " our inlaw anything wey you get just bring"

Tkayhandsome:
You understand essay. Get lost before I find you.

Lol.

Small boys!

Lol. SMH

Make i hear the ex side of the story before i judge

tempex88:
I read the way this Lady was celebrated on Lindaikeji and i totally do not think it is worth the Hype.
As much as am happy with her on her new found love, what we should preach and encourage is resolution not walking away.
Walking away should be last option. When one does walk away, it is not something worth celebrating when he/she chooses to settle with another partner.

I agree with you. Never been a fan of blended families. I feel for the kids, very awkward and difficult situation. It works for some families though with immense hardships to blend the family.

I also think these decisions are selfish and self serving and do not entirely consider the wellness of the kids involved.

Also studies show that divorcees are 70% more likely to divorce if they choose to marry again.

tempex88:
I read the way this Lady was celebrated on Lindaikeji and i totally do not think it is worth the Hype.
As much as am happy with her on her new found love, what we should preach and encourage is resolution not walking away.
Walking away should be last option. When one does walk away, it is not something worth celebrating when he/she chooses to settle with another partner.

You are not serious. Didn't read here that she TRIED everything to make it work and the bastard just wouldn't do his part. May your sister stay to resolve theirs until you come and carry their corps,nonsense

Oilwell:


Ur mind dey there. Once na second marriage dem no dey do list again for east here. You go hear " our inlaw anything wey you get just bring"

Ok. We just heard her side....tell us the guys own or did she marry a mad man?






Fine geh and mad men be like.............

I888:
You are not serious. Didn't read here that she TRIED everything to make it work and the bastard just wouldn't do his part. May your sister stay to resolve theirs until you come and carry their corps,nonsense

As told by her friend abi?

It is easy to whip up sentiments online

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talk2alabama:
God is not asleep, he sees all that is happening, he has heard her cries and he has wiped her tears....



Sometimes, letting go is just d best option. And to all men out there, value a good woman.......

U HAVE SAID IT ALL.

I888:
You are not serious. Didn't read here that she TRIED everything to make it work and the bastard just wouldn't do his part. May your sister stay to resolve theirs until you come and carry their corps,nonsense

I agree with him that she should have tried to make it work. Even opt for seperation for a long time. Particularly since their bone of discontent was abuse. But I don't agree with marrying for the second time for the sake of the children.

Just like one is always told to make it work for the sake of the children, on should avoid marrying for the second time for the sake of the children.

Blended families are very very difficult. Also who said she will have a perfect marriage again? If its not perfect to her standard, will she divorce again?

Well done ma

Where are those holier than thou followers of Nigeria gods of men who will come to command her to return to the abusive cheat of a devil husband?
Where are the gods of chose, gods of mud swimming restituting, bible misinterpreting men of gods fanatics who will condemn her already and judge her to be indulging in adultery?
I sincerely rejoice with Nora for not allowing the yoke monger men of gods to nail her joy on the altar of hopelessly false doctrines.

I like to see a woman with some spirit.
Most Nigerian girls will stick around esp if the man is rich.
They will say better to cry in a BMW

The major reasons the guy married her are:

1. Nora is super beautiful even after 2 kids, how many ladies have that grace

2. They live abroad and Nora is financially buoyant

3. The guy have heard so many stories of how Nigerian guys came back to Nigeria to marry a girl and take her to America/Canada/UK/Italy/etc only for the quiet, submissive and humble girl to turn to fly-fly city chic now challenging the man at home in all issues, and has adopted the oyimbo life, throwing away our Nigerian/African marriage culture that makes the man the head of the family.

4. The guy knows Nora will be so humble and loyal to him; men don't joke with respect and humility from women no matter what!

To other ladies reading Nora's story and getting excited unnecessarily, pls don't think what happened to Nora can happen to u unless u are:

1. More prettier than Nora; I am not talking about average beauty or 'beauty is in the eyes of the beholder' type of beauty o lol

2. You are rich as a lady and live abroad

3. You are humble.

If you lack the above 3 qualities, don't ever try to be like Nora before u end up like Opera Winfrey lol

Finally, Nora can't tell me she was an angel and never committed any crime against her first husband, because that will be total lies!‎

jidxin:
her friend only went tru dz writeup just to make d former husband jealous.....but anyway dats a sin ...u cannot divorce ur husband except hez dead. .marriage to anoda man is nothing but an adultry anyway none of ma biz.

And here I am praying every day for my ex wife to get remarried so she can focus on a "brand new" man in her life and leave me in peace

tempex88:
I read the way this Lady was celebrated on Lindaikeji and i totally do not think it is worth the Hype.
As much as am happy with her on her new found love, what we should preach and encourage is resolution not walking away.
Walking away should be last option. When one does walk away, it is not something worth celebrating when he/she chooses to settle with another partner.

So you would have preferred she left the marriage in a coffin? So she shouldn't move on with her life because she was unfortunate to get married to a wife-beater? It is because of people like you that women choose to stay in abusive relationships. What is there to resolve when the man has decided to live like a wild animal. Can you reason with that kind of person?