Hi everyone, I am a 26years old female, a working class and I need your advice
Hi everyone, I am a 26years old female, a working class and I need your advice. I started a relationship with a guy few months ago. We were friends before we started going out and during that period I was dating someone else. I fell in love with him, and I had to break up with my former boyfriend. About 2months into the relationship, his behavior towards me started changing. We almost never see each other and anytime I ask him if I should come over, he gives me excuses about work and other stuff. Most time I beg him for weeks before we could see it was like booking appointments to see him. But he has never called me to say he wants see me. I was also the one doing all the calling, always checking up on him. Anytime we fight over or relationship, I am always the one coming back to beg even when he is at fault. We had a very little disagreement recently, he has been ignoring my calls, I sent him whatsapp message he reads but does not respond. I got angry, so I texted him, via whatsapp because he was not picking my calls that I was no longer interested and that I was tired; he also read that and has not responded. He tells me he loves me but he is busy with work. I am also busy with work but I find time to care. I really love him and I don't want to lose him but I feel he does not love me enough, he does not respect me and he his taking me for granted. Should I apologize to him for what I said, or should I move on..... Please I need help.


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Abeeeg, someone needs to hammer her head so she'll wake up & see the truth that her so called "bf" doesn't give AF abt her..

With all those obvious signs you are still asking if to appogise to him. What good will your appology be?

He doesn't love you, kill whatever feelings you have for him and move on. Life is too short to be slaughtered on the alter of stupidity.

We were friends before we started going out and during that period I was dating someone else.

Friends-to-lovers rarely ever work out. Una for run tins as e been dey hot. Sorry but he still sees you as a friend.

Don't be desperate please.

you need to talk to him and ask him the reason for the changes

rubbish

You already know what's going on, you only want confirmation. Okay here goes. It's Over between you two. There!

Ladies dont learn..

Sounds like it's a lost cause. Stop trying to fight a losing battle and spend time with the people that actually care about you.

drop him like i dropped my Nigeria passport

Have you guys fcked? If yes, then he has gotten what he wants from the relationship and is done with you. It is crystal clear that HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU! At your age and level, you should concentrate on your career till somebody more serious (you know what I mean) comes along. These days, it is common to say "I love you" without meaning it, so don't follow him by that.

My dear ,this guy does not love you one bit.please dump him very fast,you deserve the best so don't settle for less.

if i didn't learn anything from my previous relationships,i learnt from.my third dat no mata hw busy a pesin is,he shld always make out time for someone he loves...my dear he has gotten wat he wanted,in otherwords he has tasted d punny

Op, you've got nothing to apologise about, he simply doesn't want you anymore. I know it's hard but simply give yourself sense and give him space. He is just being cowardly, he can't tell you he is no more interested. So he simply wants to frustrate you till you'll get tired and have no choice but to forget him. Forget him bfr he frustrates you.

Good, you broke up with someone who loves you to go for someone you love without checking if he will reciprocate that love

*** News Flash ***
It's over!!

Madam move on

You're 26 already, You're getting old don't allow him mess with you till you're 30 then you'd now start becoming desperate to get married. You still have a little time to make choices

serves u right
u broke up with a good guy for an @$$hole

fake story from a blogger

My kind of guy

Keeping em bitchess on their toe

I bet if that guy was too serious probably the girl would have got bored and dump the guy

Guys learn from this... You don't take them serious.. They will love you more

Biko what is working class?

QueenSuccubus:



Abeeeg, someone needs to hammer her head so she'll wake up & see the truth that her so called "bf" doesn't give AF abt her..

Lol

QueenSuccubus:



Abeeeg, someone needs to hammer her head so she'll wake up & see the truth that her so called "bf" doesn't give AF abt her..

Karma! I'm sure the former boyfriend she dumped was the one who loved her real but lust...

Odunharry:
Ladies dont learn..

they are called fish brains for nothing.

eyesoflagos:
Hi everyone, I am a 26years old female, a working class and I need your advice
Hi everyone, I am a 26years old female, a working class and I need your advice. I started a relationship with a guy few months ago. We were friends before we started going out and during that period I was dating someone else. I fell in love with him, and I had to break up with my former boyfriend. About 2months into the relationship, his behavior towards me started changing. We almost never see each other and anytime I ask him if I should come over, he gives me excuses about work and other stuff. Most time I beg him for weeks before we could see it was like booking appointments to see him. But he has never called me to say he wants see me. I was also the one doing all the calling, always checking up on him. Anytime we fight over or relationship, I am always the one coming back to beg even when he is at fault. We had a very little disagreement recently, he has been ignoring my calls, I sent him whatsapp message he reads but does not respond. I got angry, so I texted him, via whatsapp because he was not picking my calls that I was no longer interested and that I was tired; he also read that and has not responded. He tells me he loves me but he is busy with work. I am also busy with work but I find time to care. I really love him and I don't want to lose him but I feel he does not love me enough, he does not respect me and he his taking me for granted. Should I apologize to him for what I said, or should I move on..... Please I need help.


source : http://www.eyesoflagos.com/2017/01/hi-everyone-i-am-26years-old-female.html

That's so interesting. Women seem to care for guys who don't give a damn about them.

enniewest:
My dear ,this guy does not love you one bit.please dump him very fast,you deserve the best so don't settle for less.

she is dumped already.

Welcome to nairaland... .. Where people ask obvious questions

Xzbit91:
Good, you broke up with someone who loves you to go for someone you love without checking if he will reciprocate that love

*** News Flash ***
It's over!!

the grass is always greener at the other side and now she is paying for it dearly, that's why I can never pity any heart broken lady cos most of them are reaping what they sowed

Errmmm...you will see them everywhere around preaching the Drop-him message, people who struggles to keep a healthy relationship dolling out advice as if they know all, Relationship is not mathematics my dear, patience is key, you understand the scenery that you are in better, study and make your decision

rawpadgin:
serves u right

u broke up with a good guy for an @$$hole

don't mind her.

fergieboy:
My kind of guy

Keeping em bitchess on their toe

I bet if that guy was too serious probably the girl would have got bored and dump the guy

Guys learn from this... You don't take them serious.. They will love you more

you are correct