This is unbelievable I know; and I am ashamed to even tell anyone. My name is Chukwuma (not real name) but I am popularly referred to as Pstr Chuks(not real name). I have been married for about 6years but you can say I have always been unhappily married. My wife has robbed me of my manhood and sometimes I am so ashamed that I do not know what to do!
You see, I am a small man by nature and my wife on the other hand is quite on the big side. This was not a problem for us as it’s almost normal culturally and I do have a few friends whose wives are bigger in size than them too. I am convinced that I married Jezebel or what she would have been if she was an African. I am suffering in this marriage and wonder why people always believe it’s a man that does not want a marriage to work.
I am even afraid that people will discover my secret and make fun of me but I have to speak out now (though anonymously) before I go crazy. My secret – MY WIFE BEATS ME UP!!! Though she was quite aggressive during our courtship days and would get into physical fights with her friends, I assumed all that will end once she becomes a married woman…. I was wrong…. No sooner had we gotten married, that she gave me a hot slap after a very minor argument! I was shocked. I didn’t realise that she felt so passionately about the argument. She refused to apologise and I let it go. I guess that was one of my many mistakes.
She quickly progressed to actually beating me up and seating on me thereafter; which occurred shortly after the third month in our marriage when we had our first major argument. I tell myself that I have been raised not to beat a woman and as a Christian now, more so a Pastor; it’s not something that I want to do but even if I wanted to, the truth is my wife is too powerful ooh. I don’t think I can beat her even if I fight back! This beating up has continued systematically through the years and I am not sure I can take it anymore.
Please share so that people can know that some men are going through terrible issues too; some that they are even too ashamed to tell! I wish I had sought help many years ago because it would have saved me many years of living in hell.
Though I feel a little better telling you this, I need you to tell me what to do before she kills me one day and nobody will believe what i have been going through. Sometimes, i feel like organising people to beat her up but I am afraid if she finds out I am behind it, she will beat me some more…..please help me……



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Mo ti mu dongo yaro...n monkey tail....



Story 4 d gods oo.

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yomi007k:


Mo ti mu dongo yaro...n monkey tail....



Story 4 d gods oo.

Wahala dey oo

LOL.

until u shock her with a resounding beating, she won't stop beating u . continue to tell yourself u are a pastor and a weak man until u find your two ears in her pot of egusi soup one day. nwokem, cut off that weakness of a thing and go learn karate and do d needful.

This isn't funny but I can't help but laugh.

I'm sorry for your condition, get her arrested.

When they ask them to marry their size, these men won't listen: one smallish man marring an XL sized lady.

adadike281:
until u shock her with a resounding beating, she won't stop beating u . continue to tell yourself u are a pastor and a weak man until u find your two ears in her pot of egusi soup one day. nwokem, cut off that weakness of a thing and go learn Karate and do d needul.

You want them to turn the house into a war zone?.

I don laugh taya.. Puhahahaha... Eeeeeeeeh.. Kikikikikik...
Bahahahahahahaha.. My belly ooooooo. haaaaaaaaaa


Buhaahahahahaaaaha

Pcli:

She quickly progressed to actually beating me up and seating on me thereafter; which occurred shortly after the third month in our marriage when we had our first major argument. I tell myself that I have been raised not to beat a woman and as a Christian now, more so a Pastor; it’s not something that I want to do but even if I wanted to, the truth is my wife is too powerful ooh. I don’t think I can beat her even if I fight back!

Now this is just hilarious

adadike281:
until u shock her with a resounding beating, she won't stop beating u . continue to tell yourself u are a pastor and a weak man until u find your two ears in her pot of egusi soup one day. nwokem, cut off that weakness of a thing and go learn karate and do d needful.

Right! I once heard a story of a guy that had to learn karate cos of his wife too. She's actually a regular sized woman whom he enrolled to learn karate before they got married. She needed it then to defend herself because of a guy on her case that became violence towards her. Anyways, she used to beat him up after they got married until he went to learn too. Trust me, you don't wanna be their neighbor dude, but they both eventually sort the issue

Maybe you should pack out of the House for her.

sisisioge:


Right! I once heard a story of a guy that had to learn karate cos of his wife too. She's actually a regular sized woman whom he enrolled to learn karate before they got married. She needed it then to defend herself because of a guy on her case that became violence towards her. Anyways, she used to beat him up after they got married until he went to learn too. Trust me, you don't wanna be their neighbor dude, but they both eventually sort the issue

Lmaooooo.

Op,
Lmaooooo. I don't know why some men like to carry the one wey pass them. Especially the very thin or short men. I advice him to seek divorce. This beating is too much. One time is enough. One day she may just decide to kill him by rolling on him and suffocating him while asleep.

Benita27:
When they ask them to marry their size, these men won't listen: one smallish man marring an XL sized lady. You want them to turn the house into a war zone?.

my sister, better to turn d house to Iran and Iraq than for tomorrow's headline to read "XL sized house wife punched smallish husband to death"

sisisioge:


Right! I once heard a story of a guy that had to learn karate cos of his wife too. She's actually a regular sized woman whom he enrolled to learn karate before they got married. She needed it then to defend herself because of a guy on her case that became violence towards her. Anyways, she used to beat him up after they got married until he went to learn too. Trust me, you don't wanna be their neighbor dude, but they both eventually sort the issue

Hmmm na where u take dey hear all this your story...God deliver us from fake stories

truthsayer007:


Hmmm na where u take dey hear all this your story...God deliver us from fake stories

Yeah, keep your lil mind sealed.

My advise, from a "Christians" point of view
Take it to the Lord in prayers, like commit all your prayer time into asking for an effective change since your reputation scares you from retaliating.

My OWN point of view:
Mr man, find a way of beating sense into her head, don't send people oh. Learn to become a fighter and deal with her one of the days she decides to sit on you.

Do that then come thank me later.

I just realized something it's comedy value when a man is raped or assaulted by a woman but the other way round is national issue.

Sorry OP this is your cross to bear no policeman will take you serious in Nigeria, and Religion will tell you to pray for her and sadly as a Pastor you can't divorce unless on the grounds of infidelity or death. So this is your cross to bear have fun.

Why marry someone that is bigger that you? I'm sure you saw petite women but you went for a big load. Enjoy!

I know smallish men love women that outweigh them in size and height. Fact. But why is what I dont know. Una no dey shame for outside? Esp you the small man. After they will complain of domestic violence. Before nko? The women neva give you better beating yet. Lmao

. Case in point:

Odikwa very serious!!!

I don laff tire

adadike281:
until u shock her with a resounding beating, she won't stop beating u . continue to tell yourself u are a pastor and a weak man until u find your two ears in her pot of egusi soup one day. nwokem, cut off that weakness of a thing and go learn karate and do d needful.

See a woman telling man to beat a woman like her you are very heartless aha over wicked u be

Victim of circumstances.

U copied ur friends and fail to also copy their secrets.

Now,u have married a woman bandit...see ur life.