No matter how u play there's always this one person that u'll eventually fall in luv with, sum1 u would die for literally. The thing is i have been dating this girl for 3yrs and i luv her like crazy. A couple of months ago she travelled, there she meet this bunker who asked her out, 2 weeks to that he bought her a laptop, then an expensive phone, jewelries, clothes, the guy was practically spending like crazy. Prior to this she has been acting funny. I came to know about her affair when her sis saw how much love and attention i have for my gf and told me all about what has been going on. I felt so betrayed and fustrated i felt like doing something terrible. I got a chance to see the guy and he is not even better looking than i am and to make matter worse he is a complete illitrate. And am finding it hard to let go the sweet memories of my gf. If u've ever been in this kinda situation pls share ur experience. Advises are welcomed too.

you felt like harming duke cus he got more game than u?lol. he's not better looking? sorry bro, ur girl dont think so. he's illiterate? how'd u know? u put dude to a written and/or mathematical test? no? your gal dont think his money is illiterate tho.lol. your just pissed u got gamed. dont hate the player.which would u rather be now, an illiterate with loads of unending cash or a pseudo intellectual with no loot in his dripping pockets?

move on,she's no more yours. . .abi u want chop left over. . .she's not down with u. . .na money cause am

martyns303:

No matter how u play there's always this one person that u'll eventually fall in luv with, sum1 u would die for literally. The thing is i have been dating this girl for 3yrs and i luv her like crazy. A couple of months ago she travelled, there she meet this bunker who asked her out, 2 weeks to that he bought her a laptop, then an expensive phone, jewelries, clothes, the guy was practically spending like crazy. Prior to this she has been acting funny. I came to know about her affair when her sis saw how much love and attention i have for my gf and told me all about what has been going on. I felt so betrayed and fustrated i felt like doing something terrible. I got a chance to see the guy and he is not even better looking than i am and to make matter worse he is a complete illitrate. And am finding it hard to let go the sweet memories of my gf. If u've ever been in this kinda situation pls share your experience. Advises are welcomed too.

She's a bloody gold-digging wh*re! I advice that you get ur hustle on & forget the cum drinking slut! Just live like she never existed *this is hard though* . . .

brooklyn99:

you felt like harming duke cus he got more game than u?lol. he's not better looking? sorry bro, your girl dont think so. he's illiterate? how'd u know? u put dude to a written and/or mathematical test? no? your gal dont think his money is illiterate tho.lol. your just pissed u got gamed. dont hate the player.which would u rather be now, an illiterate with loads of unending cash or a pseudo intellectual with no loot in his dripping pockets?

lol hahahaha ROTFALMAO
whats up brooklyn you da man!!!!!!!!!!!!
word

@poster

What do you mean by having?

@ mama_gee more having is more having, u know like having more cash.

Sorry Bro! u just gotta go on,leave tha babe,karma will surely catch up with her.

sorry.just move on with ur life.i know it is hard,but u have to try

@ brooklyn99. How did i know the guy is an illitrate? Well have u ever seen a guy into bunkery? I guess no. Come visit port harcourt sometime. I mean yes this guy is having like a bunker should( these guys can buy 2009 model camry or a jaguar just a month into their starting the biz ). But hey am trying my best, what else does she want, go break a bank? Am a level 400 E/E student, i got potentials. What happens to commitment, we'v been dating for 3yrs!!!! Now am begining to get mad.

LOL! Sorry, I just had to crack up at the title. "Your Girlfriend Who U Love Sooo Much Dumps U For A Guy Who Is More HAVING."  Hehehehe, I bow in awe!!

sorry kech if u find the topic funny. But atleast u get the point right?

i guess i should start having shivers as well concerning mine

u mean after 3yrs a girl can still dump someone sorry ass cos of money


JESUS im scared ooh~

martyns303:

sorry kech if u find the topic funny. But atleast u get the point right?

Sorry love. I just couldn't help it.  Yes I got your point. Unfortunately, that's life. Some people are just money conscious and you are better off without them. It'll hurt now but you'll get over it eventually, trust me. And then you'll thank your lucky stars for your narrow escape. Do you really want to settle down with someone like this? Deep down in your heart you know you don't. It's just your emotions talking now. Let her go, give yourself some space. The pain will pass, and soon you will meet someone worth your while. Life's too short to keep pinning over someone who doesn't appreciate you. You deserve better. Move on. Not easy to do, but it will be worth it. Sometimes we are scared to let go of our exes, we feel that we may never find someone like them. You said you had sweet memories with your girlfriend. Honey, you'll meet someone else who you'll have sweeter and better memories with. There's always someone better. I promise you that. Cheer up.

190:

i guess i should start having shivers as well concerning mine

u mean after 3yrs a girl can still dump someone sorry ass cos of money


JESUS im scared ooh~

Uh, stay there. 3 years ko. If a girl is a gold digger and is in a relationship for 3 years, even 5 years sef, it's probably because she hasn't seen someone "better" yet. Once a bigger fish comes along, its sayonara suck'rrr!! The number of years is no guarantee. This goes for male gold diggers too.

kech:

Uh, stay there. 3 years ko. If a girl is a gold digger and is in a relationship for 3 years, even 5 years sef, it's probably because she hasn't seen someone "better" yet. Once a bigger fish comes along, its sayonara suck'rrr!! The number of years is no guarantee. This goes for male gold diggers too.

na wa ooh
but please male Golddiggers wudnt do such please

So u mean the # of years dosent guarantee someone getting married 2 u

im really scared ooh~

No it doesn't!!! Are you serious? But no fear, you should know the kind of girl you have by now. Unless you don't trust her  . Cos you sound like someone who isn't very sure about his girl.

Lol, i remember a girlfriend who got herself some dude and claimed to be much better off - telling me all sorts of trash like oh he's handsome, oh he's kool, oh he's young, and bla bla bla. . . Of course it didnt last 6 months and it was over!

I felt bad sha, cos of all she said to me, however, i later got to see this dude, he's older, fatter, shorter, and not even half as goodlooking as i am
At this stage, the feeling was ecstatic

@whitelexi

- In as much as one (including me) is tempted to gloat in that kind of relationship . . . its still not worth it.

- Yes she possibly made a mistake . . .but remember that we men also tend to do the same to women . . .

martyns303:

No matter how u play there's always this one person that u'll eventually fall in luv with, sum1 u would die for literally. The thing is i have been dating this girl for 3yrs and i luv her like crazy. A couple of months ago she travelled, there she meet this bunker who asked her out, 2 weeks to that he bought her a laptop, then an expensive phone, jewelries, clothes, the guy was practically spending like crazy. Prior to this she has been acting funny. I came to know about her affair when her sis saw how much love and attention i have for my gf and told me all about what has been going on. I felt so betrayed and fustrated i felt like doing something terrible. I got a chance to see the guy and he is not even better looking than i am and to make matter worse he is a complete illitrate. And am finding it hard to let go the sweet memories of my gf. If u've ever been in this kinda situation pls share your experience. Advises are welcomed too.

some babes r just arrrrggghhhhhh . do u think she is bothered abt ur potentials? u r on your own ooo. Wen i was in sch,i use to be a girl-chaser but now dat i am working and hv more than enof,the table has turned around.

No2Atheism:

@whitelexi

- In as much as one (including me) is tempted to gloat in that kind of relationship . . . its still not worth it.

- Yes she possibly made a mistake . . .but remember that we men also tend to do the same to women . . .

Dude, theres nothing about it that can be attributed to gloating. . . Bottomline is she lied to make some dude look good and make me look bad, at the time i felt bad cos i bought it, but when i discovered the truth, it felt good and restored that little confidence that was dangling about

dude move on

give us her name n address, we will help u break her leg,

My bros no kill your self, i no se ede pain pesin bt just let her go,because if she should come back there is no assurance that she will not do the same again. It well known that most of all guys are players but always put one person as a head whom you ar ready to die for.
omo wo aye lo, ko duro ooooooo

lol@ poster, thanx for the invite, but i'll pass on port harcourt, detroit is bad and scary enough. u got potentials?my nigga, potentials aint gonna buy ur gal no jewels and the girl was smart enough to realize that quickly.sorry u lost out

@poster
muchacho, there are many fish in the sea. move on knowing that you finally got to know what kind of serpent gal you were in love with.

your girlfriend doesnt love you and this material bullshit is more important to her than the love that you guys have had. accept it and move on with your life.

@brooklyn99. Ur gonna be more missed up than i am if ur to be in my shoes. But ur not in my shoes, allelujah

Take d available bus

ok guess what martyns, 6 yrs ago, i went thru the same ish, so u cant tell me nada!!! but seeing as i'm a cold hearted son of a binch, i didnt care. i swear!!! i was young, paid, and i look good as Bleep till this day.lol . i hit a stumbling block which i knew was temporary but she listened to family and friends(?) and went for a dude that was also illiterate, ugly, short, and skinny.this is a gal that is a lawyer today, and her hubby cannot construct a proper english sentence to save his life. dude had like 28yrs on her. today she has 5 kids at 28yrs old. he "ran" up in her and started getting her pregnant thinking that'll help him have her on lock, and keep me away. they failed. shit like that makes them feel good if u "fight back" or show signs that your hurt ova the incident.do what i did. be a player, boooy, and find the hottest,sluttiest, sexiest ho u can find around. but dont turn it into a "see what i got now, u lost me" show; dat'll defeat the purpose. pretend she doesnt exist, be like me, in time u'll forget about her. u dont negotiate with terrorists!!!! today, that ho is like "u pushed me away", oh, i opened your legs too to allow "uncle money having illiterate" turn u into a baby manufacturing company?lol. @poster, u keep fighting back u wont gain shit, and she wont realize her mistake. let it go (her, being the "it". dont beg, dont cry, dont harm dude. nothing wrong in sleeping with her close friends and relatives tho (assuming u got game, which i seriously doubt u do).remember, we do not negotiate with terrorists!!!!!

^^^^^^^  LOL!!. I no fit laugh abeg .

@ poster.whoa, whoa, whoa hold the eff up!!! wuts this u keep insulting duke that bagged your gal as an illiterate? i aint feeling that ish. look at u; mr education. u aint a symbol of intellect either. u keep spelling "ILLITERATE" as "ILLITRATE". u say ure a 4/4 something in university so i'm assuming u mean u'll be graduating soon, yet u cant spell for shi.t. u cant also compose a sentence; and what in limey Bleep is "more having"!?!
you got potentials, u on your own with that crap. u better do urself a favor and become a "bunker" too so u'll have mad cash cause i dont see employment/graduation in your immediate future, not with your kinda grammar.
do urself a huuuuugeeee favor, that sister of her's that snitched on your gal, u best get with her ASAP, and do it quick. make sure u get her pregnant fast too, cus i'll tell u this, if u dont, that more having bunker son of a biyyyaatch is coming for her too, he'll add her to his harem faster than u can blink. he's out to snatch anything thats gonna give u joy, that much is clear. make sure u follow my advice. wimp!!!!

@ brooklyn99. U cut me real deep man. Sh!t am so fcukd, i guess i'll have to say typographic error or something(cos i can sure spell ILLITERATE or MESSED, this are one of those spelling u get on 'are u smarter than a 5th grader'). Write a book and i'll sure buy it brooklyn99. i really appreciate ur criticism.