₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 1,791,716 members, 3,505,090 topics. Date: Saturday, 29 April 2017 at 08:39 AM

Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act (25227 Views)

OMG: See What This Two Lovers Are Caught Doing In Public Gym House. Watch Video / A deeper look into the act of masturbation. / Caught In The Act...pls What Would You Do In This Situation? (1) (2) (3) (4)

(0) (1) (2) (Reply) (Go Down)

Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by bamisepeters: 11:38am On Feb 04
If you have a caring, understanding and a loving man i don't think you need to do anything to hurt his feelings.

Many women wonder why men find it difficult to forgive them when they are caught in extra marital relationship.

Despite the fact that it is assumed to be normal for men to be free donor and cheat, they(men) find it difficult to forgive their woman if reverse is the case let alone forgetting because they will always be demoralized anytime they remember what they caught the woman doing.

No matter how bad you may be sexually, your man still cherish it and cannot afford to see or hear you share that "bad" moment with another man let alone when you(woman) are perfect in bed.

In the case of rape when he even knows it is out of your control he still finds it difficult to get it out of his head.

... The way you moan or groan when you show love to each other, your moves in reaction to the good time, the way you kiss each other passionately and the romance...

I repeat, that special moments are indeed special to any man that truly loves you.

If you think... The good food you cook, the time you share together to talk or to play and even to argue or fight... are less important to him, the day you are caught in the act will define your unreserved significance in his entire life.

It takes an herculean task for a man to forgive his woman after catching her in the act.

A man who is not fully committed to the relationship will find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife let alone will the man that knows the worth of a good woman accept, forgive or forget a woman caught in the act.

Please don't play on your man's intelligence, he might be slow to anger but he is deadlier than snake if you are caught in the act.

It is very possible you are forgiven, however, it is advisable to be loyal.


Source: http://bamisepeters.blogspot.com.ng/2017/02/reasons-why-he-will-not-forgive-you.html

20 Likes 3 Shares

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by AntiWailer: 11:39am On Feb 04
When you get caught and he claim he has forgiven you, be careful, he might be out to waste your years intentionally or unintentionally.

Guys hardly get over that incident.

He will just not allow you go immediately so the other guy will not be feeling like a winner.

My advice is "Once you get caught with hard evidence, MOVE ON immediately !"

If he caught you multiple times and he kept saying "No Problem" run for your life.

He is either a low life, you are a side chick or he is planning to use you for ritual.

Whatever it is, it is safer for you to run.

152 Likes 5 Shares

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Humblesam(m): 11:52am On Feb 04
I don't pray it happens to any man that truly love his babe, for if it happens, then that's d end of their relationship even if he pretended to have forgiven her, their love lives can never be the same forever.

22 Likes 1 Share

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Benita27(f): 11:59am On Feb 04
Serial cheats never want to be cheated on, i'm not surprised!.

42 Likes 5 Shares

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by TINALETC3(f): 1:21pm On Feb 04
I hear u

2 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by sunnyboi: 1:21pm On Feb 04
grin angry
Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by unclezuma: 1:24pm On Feb 04
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Inyanga(m): 1:24pm On Feb 04
Hmm... This actually made front page...

1 Like

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by dhamstar(m): 1:24pm On Feb 04
oh
Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by HanXolo(m): 1:24pm On Feb 04
Benita27:
Serial cheats never want to be cheated on, i'm not surprised!.
Nobody wants to be cheated on

8 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by LadyE12: 1:25pm On Feb 04
Marital infidelity is a no go area for a happy marriage

9 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by NLchikeeto(f): 1:26pm On Feb 04
.
Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by kerryjossy(f): 1:26pm On Feb 04
What? Ok noted. So now what next?? What about the woman? We should easily forgive?? Because men are seen as being 'polygamous in nature'?? Ok.

14 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by LegalBaby(f): 1:26pm On Feb 04
What of when he's caught in the act?

13 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Luizville(m): 1:27pm On Feb 04
Cheating is just bad_Period(man or woman). Today is my birthday guyz show me some lurv.

78 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Mosebolatan26(f): 1:27pm On Feb 04
Rubbish.. If u don't want to b cheated on then don't cheat... D one u did when single is enough

14 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Ijaya123: 1:27pm On Feb 04
Benita27:
Serial cheats never want to be cheated on, i'm not surprised!.

Where did you get your assumption from?

2 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Divay22(f): 1:27pm On Feb 04
No comment on this
Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Movingcoil(m): 1:28pm On Feb 04
Having that mental image of him outdoing me , the sound of your moaning, the look in your face, how you close your eyes and open... AND WHY THE F YOU JUMBED IN BED WITH HIM......
Damn! Devil is a lier
BE SINGLE AND ENJOY PEACE OF MIND PERIOD.

13 Likes 1 Share

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Ijaya123: 1:28pm On Feb 04
kerryjossy:
What? Ok noted. So now what next?? What about the woman? We should easily forgive?? Because men are seen as being 'polygamous in nature'?? Ok.

Men and women are created differently. You just have to live with that.
Absolutely nothing you can do about it.

14 Likes 1 Share

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by pansophist(m): 1:29pm On Feb 04
An integral part of men's masculinity is the awareness that he's his lady sexual preference. Men on average are sexually insecure. It's this sexual insecurity motivates men use all kind of sexual enhancement before intercourse, masturbate before sex or some even attend sexual classes (lol)

It's easier for men to get over the fact that their partner's love somebody else compared to being cheated on.

And for ladies, it's the opposite. It's easier for them to forgive a cheating spouse compare to him loving another woman. We are wired differently.

26 Likes 3 Shares

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by sekem: 1:30pm On Feb 04
This men-cannot-forgive-their-women-cheating of an issue is just about the only area in life where I don't understand why what is good for the goose is not also good for the gander.

There must be a deeper reason why most men in general cannot stand seeing their women being tampered by another gee even though dem ma na tamperers extraordinaire!!!

7 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Life4Varnity: 1:30pm On Feb 04
AntiWailer:
When he forgives.

Be careful, he might be out to waste your years intentionally or unintentionally.

Guys hardly get over that incident.

He will just not allow you go immediately so the other guy will not be feeling like a winner.

My advice is "Once you get caught without any doubt again, MOVE ON !"

A lady did this to me after so many years.

And she still claim that she still loves me

I said OK no wahala, I am currently out of the country but when I come back to naija. I go fucck d hell out of her life

Those girls out there nt just loyal or truthful anymore
Most are how's

I am coming for her

8 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by kiosk1: 1:31pm On Feb 04
Benita27:
Serial cheats never want to be cheated on, i'm not surprised!.

Gbam!

1 Like

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by talkeverytime: 1:31pm On Feb 04
hmm... Don't cheat, either you're caught or not.


Also Read here "5 Signs to know if your girlfriend is a Cheerful Giver (sl*t) http://talkeverytime.blogspot.is/2017/01/5-signs-to-know-if-your-girlfriend-is_19.html

1 Like

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Princessfresh16: 1:32pm On Feb 04
Then the men should stop cheating on their wives if so. It is partial and not acceptable.
Although I never support women to do such evil because is a sin before God and man.
Therefore, both men and women should stop it and be focused on their relationship.
toward one another in fear of God their maker. grin

14 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by emmabest2000(m): 1:32pm On Feb 04
pansophist:
An integral part of men masculinity is the awareness that he is the one that his lady prefer sexually. Men on average are sexually insecure. It's easier for men to get over the fact that their partner love somebody else compare to sexually cheating on them.

And for ladies, it's the opposite. It's more easier for them to forgive a cheating spouse compare to him loving another woman. We are wired differently.


Fabulouski:
The last time she cheated on me I just held the door open for her to leave for good!
Can't stand the thought of her whining on another man's d**k.

2 Likes 3 Shares

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by AntiWailer: 1:32pm On Feb 04
Life4Varnity:


A lady did this to me after so many years.

And she still claim that she still loves me

I said OK no wahala, I am currently out of the country but when I come back to naija. I go fucck d hell out of her life

Those girls out there nt just loyal or truthful anymore
Most are how's

I am coming for her

My brother, just free her. Let her go please.

5 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Life4Varnity: 1:33pm On Feb 04
AntiWailer:


My brother, just free her. Let her go please.

OK thanks.

Have taking many Mind off

God bless you

4 Likes

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Benita27(f): 1:34pm On Feb 04
Ijaya123:


Where did you get your assumption from?
Assumption you say.
What if i say have had a first hand experience of how a cheat's psyche works.

1 Like

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Seenyo: 1:34pm On Feb 04
Gbam!...i may forgive ANYTHING BUT definately not INFIDELITY.

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: Reasons Why He Will Not Forgive You When You Are Caught In The Act by Fabulouski(m): 1:35pm On Feb 04
The last time she cheated on me I just held the door open for her to leave for good!
Can't stand the thought of her whining on another man's d**k.

1 Like

(0) (1) (2) (Reply)

Woman Slams Guitar On Proposing Boyfriend's Face (photos) / Do Guys Ever Regret Hurting The nice Girl? / Why Every Girl Should Marry A Nigerian Man

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (0) (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2017 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 93
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.