When he forgives I bet u u are gonna be useless I mean useless in d house. U just going to be an ordinary baby sitter. Taken care of his children while he keep enjoying his life with other girls. He'll cheat on u a thousand more.

kerryjossy:
What? Ok noted. So now what next?? What about the woman? We should easily forgive?? Because men are seen as being 'polygamous in nature'?? Ok.

I am not in support of cheating... But note that men and women are designed differently by nature. It's nobody's fault.

Benita27:
Assumption you say.
What if i say have had a first hand experience of how a cheat's psyche works.

Your first comment says cheats. Then you must have been rolling with cheats to come to that

he is to blame..... most times, he aint man enough!

Ijaya123:


Your first comment says cheats. Then you must have been rolling with cheats to come to that

What is the thread about?.

kerryjossy:
What? Ok noted. So now what next?? What about the woman? We should easily forgive?? Because men are seen as being 'polygamous in nature'?? Ok.

Gender equality will kill some women and families. Take men as men. Don't try what you cannot defend in d long-run, all because you want to be equal with men. What men can do and be proud of (taking wives) women are not allowed to try such. Though, I do not support cheating in relationship or marriage, but I am not a saint and I do try to resist evil thoughts sometime.

Whether caught in the act or not, it's his right to forgive or not but let it also be that he has been faithful else the thunder wey go fire am will make the Guinness book of world records as the deadliest ever recorded.

Life4Varnity:


OK thanks.

Have taking many Mind off

God bless you

I appreciate this, thanks so much.

Benita27:
Serial cheats never want to be cheated on, i'm not surprised!.

I concur to ur point

Luizville:
Cheating is just bad_Period(man or woman). Today is my birthday guyz show me some lurv.

Hbd to u.....wullnp

Funny how they claim to be the stronger non-emotional and logical sex but can't forgive a cheating wife.
Yet they expect the irrational, weaker and emotional woman to forgive them. Naso

Benita27:
Serial cheats never want to be cheated on, i'm not surprised!.

this post pain you well sha, your man so you the painment to well sha.

warriorPedigree:

this post pain you well sha, your man so you the painment to well sha.

You clearly don't know what pains me.

Benita27:
You clearly don't know what pains me.

sweetheart don't deny it, accept it then deal with it, that's how you heal.

kerryjossy:
What? Ok noted. So now what next?? What about the woman? We should easily forgive?? Because men are seen as being 'polygamous in nature'?? Ok.

Why do ladies av to put up argument like its a competition
Dats juss a tip to save ur Marriage

warriorPedigree:

sweetheart don't deny it, accept it then deal with it, that's how you heal.

Lol. your kinds are amazing.

Benita27:
Lol. your kinds are amazing.

I know baby, I know

warriorPedigree:

I know baby, I know

You're still far from knowing my mental state, my life doesn't revolve around any guy, present or ex. So no point holding grudges against anyone.

If you will be pained when your partner cheats then DO NOT cheat. Dazzol.

Mosebolatan26:
Rubbish.. If u don't want to b cheated on then don't cheat... D one u did when single is enough

So your cheating is contingent on a man's cheating? Or two wrongs make a right? Listen to yourself... If you're a slut, you would cheat, whether your man cheats or not. That's the point here.

You can't cut your nose to spite your face.

Meanwhile, why are all the deluded girls here saying rubbish and talking about "as long as men don't cheat too" bla bla. It seems this gender equality nonsense has got some of you highly detached from reality. If your husband cheats, oya go ahead and do the same now...to prove that you're equal. And don't bother to hide it. Then let's see what happens. Mumus.

pocohantas:
Funny how they claim to be the stronger non-emotional and logical sex but can't forgive a cheating wife.
Yet they expect the irrational, weaker and emotional woman to forgive them. Naso

its all abt territory nd possesion, even i can't explain it. Its jst lyk dat, jst take note of little boys, dey dnt lyk 2 share, its frm a young age.

pocohantas:
Funny how they claim to be the stronger non-emotional and logical sex but can't forgive a cheating wife.
Yet they expect the irrational, weaker and emotional woman to forgive them. Naso

I blame women who accept cheating partners. So unfair on themselves.

Mosebolatan26:
Rubbish.. If u don't want to b cheated on then don't cheat... D one u did when single is enough

Anty Mosebolatan, hope u is single sha?

Benita27:
You're still far from knowing my mental state, my life doesn't revolve around any guy, present or ex. So no point holding grudges against anyone.

I don't consider you naive. If you say you had never been inlove then I'd accept all you saying, regardless... your life as a person cannot and should not revolve around nobody, its a wrong order. But our lives is influenced directly or indirectly by those around us, thus said, you are angry still at som1, and you should let go.

warriorPedigree:

I don't consider you naive. If you say you had never been inlove then I'd accept all you saying, regardless... your life as a person cannot and should not revolve around nobody, its a wrong order. But our lives is influenced directly or indirectly by those around us, thus said, you are angry still at som1, and you should let go.

I still repeat that you have no idea of my mental state, may have found someone cheating on me but holding on to that, i would be serving injustice to my own self.

It's a free world, you cheat...i use the exist door! No point holding on to the past, a well deserving person will always come in to fill the gap.

Guys dont forgive, even I he claims to have forgiven, run for ur useful life.


A babe cheated on me in the past. I loved her so much. And was very faithful to her. I was a student then studying architecture, she was my pride.

That Saturday I caught her red handed, she confessed how she has been doing it with the guy. I was shattered into pieces. I could not eat for days. Hatred filled my soul, I saw her as a wicked girl.

When I got out of the trauma, she and her friends kept begging, I told her I had forgiven her.
We continued. But deep inside me, I knew the relationship was over the day she confessed how she has been fvkcing the guy.

I decided to have a contingency plans. I started establishing relationship with one of my best friends in school. Thank God I was finishing in school.
The new lady and I were getting close everyday, while the former babe still felt we were dating.

After liking 8months I told her babe, am tired, cant continue this. I have a girl friend nw. She thought I I joking until I introduced her to d new girl. I was already an architect. She still cant believe it till today.

Benita27:
I still repeat that you have no idea of my mental state, may have found someone cheating on me but holding on to that, i would be serving injustice to my own self.

It's a free world, you cheat...i use the exist door! No point holding on to the past, a well deserving person will always come in to fill the gap.

Aii ma'am, Aii.

warriorPedigree:

Aii ma'am, Aii.

Good.

TINALETC3:
I hear u

Too bad I don't know what love or valentine is!

hurricaneChris:
Guys dont forgive, even I he claims to have forgiven, run for ur useful life.


A babe cheated on me in the past. I loved her so much. And was very faithful to her. I was a student then studying architecture, she was my pride.

That Saturday I caught her red handed, she confessed how she has been doing it with the guy. I was shattered into pieces. I could not eat for days. Hatred filled my soul, I saw her as a wicked girl.

When I got out of the trauma, she and her friends kept begging, I told her I had forgiven her.
We continued. But deep inside me, I knew the relationship was over the day she confessed how she has been fvkcing the guy.

I decided to have a contingency plans. I started establishing relationship with one of my best friends in school. Thank God I was finishing in school.
The new lady and I were getting close everyday, while the former babe still felt we were dating.

After liking 8months I told her babe, am tired, cant continue this. I have a girl friend nw. She thought I I joking until I introduced her to d new girl. I was already an architect. She still cant believe it till today.

Correct guy....hoes ain't loyal!

i don't have a girlfriend

I can't even date or marry any girl if I know who has had sex with her in the past not to talk of continuing when she cheats. If my spouse cheats, that's the end. How can I have sex again with her when the thought that another guy has spilled his seed in that vagina will forever be on my mind. It is better if I don't know any of her exx.