bukiboy:


i think Fourwinds know the man personally to be sure say the man give give the woman HIV or STD

bukiboy:


Me sef still dey learn


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Abi o

MarieSucre:



So the man with the bad character is not foolish se. When do stop blaming women for marrying horrible men with horrible character and start actually blaming the men with the horrible character.

MarieSucre:


Is this peace gotten before or after she contracts an incurable std?

And you said women are morally different from men.

Are you saying that men are lasciviously, demented immoral beings?

Is that what your signature as a christian says.
Woooow if you're a christian then I'd gladly be in islam or an atheist.

youalreadyknow:
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Are these the kind of advice moms are giving to their daughters now? The for better for worse in marital vows y'all think the worse is senseless NL comments? You stick with your husband no matter what. You choose him, agreed in front of a priest and your parents, elders of your family to stick with him till death do you part.

bukiboy:


JESU! see how people dey think for here ooooooo

Fourwinds:
u see u are getting it wrong....supposing u are warned dat a pit is ahead of u along d road...will u deliberating ignore d warning and walk into it.? if u do then dat is exactly d case of ur sister....she saw d signs yet she walked it into it... so who is d big fool.?

cococandy:
Retardedd

MarieSucre:


A pit is a non-sentient thing, its has no cognitve reasoning. You cannot tell a pit to have morality, you cannot tell a pit to move or change its shape to allow a woman to pass.

Are you telling me that a man with all his thinking faculties and the biblically "head of family" bestowed on him is now compared to an empty vacuum created in the floor?

A man can change his ways. A pit cannot. A man can be held responsible for his actions. A pit cannot. A man is sentient and cognitive enough to know right from wrong. A pit cannot.

So what's your point? When do we start blaming men from being shitty themselves?

Instead of saying "why do women like to marry such men" let us say "why do such men with such horrible characters even bother to get married at all? Why not remain single instead of ruining a woman with your miserable character".

Fourwinds:
E be like say u sabi speak grammar and idioms...

a simple truth u are running away from....be waiting let him change na...

I as a man I won't accept such a woman of dat character....

when I taught in a secondary school during my NYSC days, I always warn students about their behaviour...

if u think u are doing ur teachers., u are only deceiving urselves because dat habit may be taken to old age...

MarieSucre:


Nobody is arguing that a man will change or not.
My last sentence says it all.
The next time something like this happens, blame the perpetrato3. Simple.

Kyllahmc:
lol and then expect miracle to happen...

Fourwinds:
dat shows d reason y u posted d thread....




so how did u educate d populabce now...... blame d perpetrators when u can actually avoid or walk away from d perpetrators

MarieSucre:


I am not the one who posted the thread. I am just a comment contributor like you.


A lot of things will not happen of people don't just do them. Just imagine that you tell people don't go to stand at so and so bustop at 8pm, there are thieves there. But just imagine there were no thieves there or the guys who were thieving there were caught and severely dealt with detering others.

People could now stand at the bustop even up to 10 and even stroll by. Wouldn't life be better.

This men who cheat and abuse women will continue to exist. He will not just vanish into thin air because this woman wants to leave him. He does not want to be alone even with his bad character. He will continue going to toast women. Remember he is the one that has the bad character not the girls he is going to toast.
So why not just save all these women all the stress and stay celibate or join a monastery. Remember. It is his fault.

Fourwinds:
Is like u are expecting a perfect world....heed to warning and save urself a whole lot of trouble

MarieSucre:


Its like you're trying to make excuses for men who cheat.

The world has bad people. Stop defending evil things!

MarieSucre:



So the man with the bad character is not foolish se. When do stop blaming women for marrying horrible men with horrible character and start actually blaming the men with the horrible character.

MarieSucre:


I am not the one who posted the thread. I am just a comment contributor like you.


A lot of things will not happen of people don't just do them. Just imagine that you tell people don't go to stand at so and so bustop at 8pm, there are thieves there. But just imagine there were no thieves there or the guys who were thieving there were caught and severely dealt with detering others.

People could now stand at the bustop even up to 10 and even stroll by. Wouldn't life be better.

This men who cheat and abuse women will continue to exist. He will not just vanish into thin air because this woman wants to leave him. He does not want to be alone even with his bad character. He will continue going to toast women. Remember he is the one that has the bad character not the girls he is going to toast.
So why not just save all these women all the stress and stay celibate or join a monastery. Remember. It is his fault.

Toks2008:


I'm neither in support of philandering nor defending it but its time we told each other some home made truth....Most married men cheat but a philandering husband that respects his wife will do it far far away from her and would use protection to avoid bringing home disease for the lady...

I'm not going to argue this matter...believe what you want but that is a fact.

Toks2008:


All these nairaland teenagers or smallies who still live in wonder land .

Call me any name you want...you are both still young in matters of matrimony...

I'm a realist and not a chauvinist as you think...I have received PMs and calls from ladies who at your age think and talk as you do but have been forced to accept reality.

Only a foolish lady will believe her husband will never cheat on her cos if it does happen,such lady may end up in a psychaltry.

When I write like this,toddlers usually come for my head but mature ladies easily comprehend.

All the sermon in the world have not stopped immorality so don't expect me to turn a moralist on nairaland.

We still have faithful guys out there but 80% guys will cheat on their wives so pray your man is one of the 20%.

Nuff said

Toks2008:


That moment when a woman starts to understand how genetically,morally,sexually and physically different she is from a man is the moment she starts to experience peace and happiness in her relationship with a man ...I will stop here.

MarieSucre:


You supported adultery here.

Toks2008:


If you see this as well as other quotes of me that you gave as supporting adultery then you need to go back to kindergarten school.

Have a good night rest

PNEUMA0001:


THIS WILL MAKE MORE SENSE IF COMING FROM A WOMAN. I WISH YOU WERE?

TrumpDonald2:


I beg to disagree. A cheat is a cheat whether he's rich or not. Being a house wife is not the reason why the man is cheating. The man will also cheat even if the woman was working and making money. So ur point doesn't hold water.

Kennie21:
I'm so grateful to u for dis comment..