Hi Nairalanders, Good morning and I hope you all had a great night rest? I just wanted to seek a quick opinion here if any of you married guys were in my own shoes, which I feel no-one or probably few might be in the same shoes as I am in now. During the short time we courted before we married, she was always opened to me, and that made me sort of more attracted and glued to her, because thats my type of person. She told me about her ex, most especially their sexual past, infact while with me then, the ex used to call, and then she'll pass the phone to me to answer, but I wouldnt. She opened up as to how big his manhooooood is, and how it took her months when they started dating to adjust to his size. I am just a normal sized person, with lots of skills and stamina to make any woman whose appetite for big manhood satisfied regardless, and this is exactly what my wife portrayed while dating her, she made me feel she was satisfied.

On one faithful day, we were doing it, then suddenly my pe.niis had entered her an.us, oh my, it was so wide that I felt maybe my pe.nis had mistakenly throbbed her butttt cheek, cos she has a massiveness butttt. I didnt say anything, then she later on sent me a text right after I left the house that I did I notice we just had anallll sexxxx, I was like, it cant be that if that was ur an.usssss, then its damn toooo wide. By the time I got back, I started to question her that in my life, though I have had few anallll intercourse, but I have never come across an.us as wide as that, asked if she has been doing it b4, she said NO, claiming it was the kind of body she has. I was stuck to believing her, even though I was not convinced. Few months later, we got married, then she started opening up the more. Funny thing months after marriage, we started having more of anallll intercourse, the an.us is now back to what I can call normal, tight and enclosed, and then I asked how come ur an.us is now tight considering the fact you told me thats how your body is, she said well, she doesnt understand why its all tight up now. That I just put aside and didnt want to worry about, knowing fully well, she was probably doing it while she was dating me or whatever.

Almost a year entering into our marriage, she started talking about how she loves to have his man have a kind of di.ccckk that can handle her fat asss, bla bla bla, though we were just having a flirty chat while she was abroad to give birth, going deep into the convo with her, I decided I'll buy penile extension, the type that a man wears, like an artificial diccck, to give that deep and widening feel that she has always been used to. I am this kind of man that wants to bring fulfillment and happiness in terms of sexual contentment not thinking if I am less of a man or allowing complex to hold me down, Infact I was happy we agreed to start making use of it. Lo and behold, she was back, and we started using this stuff, 11 inches of penile extension, up to 8 inches up her butt, for the first time, my wife was all smiles and very happy after the first try. Then I knew this was what she has been missing all these while. It now came to a level where after usage of the penile, she can drop it anywhere around our bathroom where our kids do go into, and I have been complaining that this is a private tool that needs to be kept and secured for no one to see, the kids can mistakenly take it when visitors are around which can be seen. This has been happening over and over again, the last time when I decided to throw the tool away was when she had dumped it in the visitors bathroom after usage for 2 days, I just figured it out the third day, I was furious and I threw it away, because nobody should see it.

My fellow nairalanders, judging from my write up, many will think, I probably have a small manhood, in all sincerity, I dont, infact my wife is the only woman in my entire life that I had to go and extra mile for, because of the experience she had with her ex who she claims has an extremely huge manhooood, so it made my case very different. Also, my experience and skills and stamina does work, but sometimes, she just needs that deep feeling so her orgasm can be 3 times more powerful than the orgasm she gets from my own normal penetration. My fear now is, regardless of the fact that I see as a faithful woman, is there a probability that she'll cheat? Because the constant carelessness of the tool was better off for me to have thrown it away, also if we had sex 10 times in a month, we only make use of the toy twice.

I need response from experienced married men please.

This one gidi gan o...
I hope the people with experience can help you sha...
Good luck bro...

Omo mehn
Different marital issues everywhere

You mean your wife takes 8 in her an.us?


And 11 deep down her punny?




Well
Who are my to judge
We all have different fantasies

Just trust
You give her what she wants
No reason to cheat
When a woman loves
She definitely loves with all


Sisisioge

lalasticlala, abeg come o, dis one pass me o. our parents in d house, oya over to u. I go dey follow

Dyt:
Omo mehn
Different marital issues everywhere

You mean your wife takes 8 in her an.us?


And 11 deep down her punny?

Yes dear, 11 inches penile extension, but like 8 or 9 inches goes into her an.us

darsool500:


Yes dear, 11 inches penile extension, but like 8 or 9 inches goes into her an.us

You enjoy the feeling it gives her right?
I sure you know this is how it will continue

If your only problem is how she dumps it anywhere and everywhere
Keep a tab on it

Good thing you manned up to fulfil all her fantasies

You are a true man

Dyt:
Omo mehn
Different marital issues everywhere

You mean your wife takes 8 in her an.us?


And 11 deep down her punny?




Well
Who are my to judge
We all have different fantasies

Just trust
You give her what she wants
No reason to cheat
When a woman loves
She definitely loves with all


Sisisioge

Ohlordhavemercy! Dyt, Biko how do you think I might be qualified to give advice on this issue? Chai

Dear OP, I must say your description of your marriage is so jet aged, I bow! Biko, ease up on giving TMIs on your issues. I kinda find it disenchanting to imagine the circumference of your wife's Instruments...Hian! It is well! On whether or not she's cheating...biko ask her. It is sooo well!

Dyt:


You enjoy the feeling it gives her right?
I sure you know this is how it will continue

If your only problem is how she dumps it anywhere and everywhere
Keep a tab on it

Good thing you manned up to fulfil all her fantasies

You are a true man

Yes I do, because if its my own thingy, she does not moan nor bring out goose bumps all over her body with that eyes closed like shes soaring in deep feel of ecstasy. But with the toy, she does exactly like that, and it makes me feel good.

I cant keep tabs on that my dear, I go to work, come back late, its never gonna be a good thing if anybody sees that, most especially to me, they'll feel am less of a man, not good at all.

sisisioge:


Ohlordhavemercy! Dyt, Biko how do you think I might be qualified to give advice on this issue? Chai

Dear OP, I must say your description of your marriage is so jet aged, I bow! Biko, ease up on giving TMIs on your issues. I kinda find it disenchanting to imagine the circumstance of your wife's Instruments...Hian! It is well! On whether or not she's cheating...biko ask her. It is sooo well!

Then you ought to have kept your mouth shut or your fingers taperuled. If TMIS arent given, how can people best respond? Do I know u? Do you know me? Abeg park well.

darsool500:


Then you ought to have kept your mouth shut or your fingers taperuled. If TMIS arent given, how can people best respond? Do I know u? Do you know me? Abeg park well.

No vex bros...Na pikin dey do me.

I'm just signing register and calling lalasticlala! !!!!! This is too big of an issue for us to manage please take it!


Dyt girl you tried

sisisioge:



No vex bros...Na pikin dey do me.

I really hope op doesn't shout at me!

I've never been so lost for words

LaylaAli:
I'm just signing register and calling lalasticlala! !!!!! This is too big of an issue for us to manage please take it!


Dyt girl you tried



I really hope op doesn't shout at me!

I've never been so lost for words

Baby girl...In all, na OP I pity. Poor boi

ahahaha

Oga, you don jam wetin pass you.


I bet when next you're coming to this world, you'll learn to abstain and seek after abstinence


On a serious note though; I still think you both deserve each other. You guys ever acted for por.n directors?

sisisioge:


Baby girl...In all, na OP I pity. Poor boi

He sounds like an incredible human being. Such a man but that sister let the team down. She has lied to op about her sexual orientation in the past and the fact that she could just leave 11" Co.Ckies lying around the house with her children is concerning. To answer op's question, I think she is capable of cheating and lying about it, then coming clean if he pushes her. That seems to be her MO.

Acidosis:
ahahaha

Oga, you don jam wetin pass you.


I bet when next you're coming to this world, you'll learn to abstain and seek after abstinence


On a serious note though; I still think you both deserve each other. You guys ever acted for por.n directors?

How would his abstinence help the situation? It's her abstinence that was needed. Op should've bowed out when he fell in to her bumhole

LaylaAli:


How would his abstinence help the situation? It's her abstinence that was needed. Op should've bowed out when her fell in to her bumhole

Of course, he has to seek after abstinence; i.e. a woman with same principle.

But that is no longer necessary...this is a cross he has to carry now

All I can say is more grease to your elbow.
Remember to buy a pestle and keep.You might need it in the future.

LaylaAli:


He sounds like an incredible human being. Such a man but that sister let the team down. She has lied to op about her sexual orientation in the past and the fact that she could just leave 11" Co.Ckies lying around the house with her children is concerning. To answer op's question, I think she is capable of cheating and lying about it, then coming clean if he pushes her. That seems to be her MO.

Hmmmmmm...Good thought. Try to read OP's other thread on his concern about trusting the babe. No be small thing. The things a dog sees that makes it bark, a bull will just knock the sheet outa it ni. It is well.

Acidosis:

Of course, he has to seek after abstinence; i.e. a woman with same principle.

But that is no longer necessary...this is a cross he has to carry now

acid baby , howdy.

Very few men can bring their wives to orgasms, and very few women have true orgasms in their lifetime.
You and your wife have been blessed to have that with each other, cos I want to believe she meets your sexual
fantasies as you do hers.
Don't belittle what you have with your wife.

You still haven't said anything to raise your suspicions about her fidelity.

Most Nigerians are judgemental, hence the reason you see couples not being truthful about their sexual pasts. Some will judge her because she enjoys anal, hence she'll rather take that secret to the grave, and possibly go back to the ex who gives anals. You her husband gives her the thing she likes, so why would she wanna go outside?

Enjoy yourselves with no apologies to anyone.

The only issue I find is that of her not been discreet with the strap ons around the house. Why don't you take charge of that, and be the one keeping it safe? Once used, clean it ,and throw it up the cupboard till its next use/ wrap it and put at the back of your underwear drawer?

eyinjuege:
Very few men can bring their wives to orgasms, and very few women have true orgasms in their lifetime.
You and your wife have been blessed to have that with each other, cos I want to believe she meets your sexual
fantasies as you do hers.
Don't belittle what you have with your wife.

You still haven't said anything to raise your suspicions about her fidelity.

Most Nigerians are judgemental, hence the reason you see couples not being truthful about their sexual pasts. Some will judge her because she enjoys anal, hence she'll rather take that secret to the grave, and possibly go back to the ex who gives anals. You her husband gives her the thing she likes, so why would she wanna go outside?

Enjoy yourselves with no apologies to anyone.

The only issue I find is that of her not been discreet with the strap ons around the house. Why don't you take charge of that, and be the one keeping it safe? Once used, clean it ,and throw it up the cupboard till its next use/ wrap it and put at the back of your underwear drawer?

She uses it on herself without him and then leaves it around the house.

sisisioge:

acid baby , howdy.

I dey o omo-ge
This thread pass me gan, abi you can relate ni?

eyinjuege:
Very few men can bring their wives to orgasms, and very few women have true orgasms in their lifetime.
You and your wife have been blessed to have that with each other, cos I want to believe she meets your sexual
fantasies as you do hers.
Don't belittle what you have with your wife.

You still haven't said anything to raise your suspicions about her fidelity.

Most Nigerians are judgemental, hence the reason you see couples not being truthful about their sexual pasts. Some will judge her because she enjoys anal, hence she'll rather take that secret to the grave, and possibly go back to the ex who gives anals.[i][/i] You her husband gives her the thing she likes, so why would she wanna go outside?

Enjoy yourselves with no apologies to anyone.

The only issue I find is that of her not been discreet with the strap ons around the house. Why don't you take charge of that, and be the one keeping it safe? Once used, clean it ,and throw it up the cupboard till its next use/ wrap it and put at the back of your underwear drawer?

I commend your post. She revealed almost everything about her past to me, reason why I cherished her the more. Though the anal part, she didnt divulge, probably because it might be too heavy to say which I understand. But you see your emboldened part is real, I'll tell you a little story.

Before I met my wife, I had a lady I was dating back then. We used to have anal, infact I was the first person to do it. 2 years after, I traveled for 6 months, by the time I came back, I kept calling for her to come around, she kept making different excuses, i.e, I am almost there, I am not feeling fine, time has gone and all that. Then I became suspicious, went down to her store, and then found out she was married and heavily pregnant. Result of the findings, she wanted to give birth, and probably come back to me coded to enjoy anal, probably because it aint what the new husband is doing or known to be doing. So I pretty much understand your line there.

Acidosis:

I dey o omo-ge

This thread pass me gan, abi you can relate ni?

For where! Na grimace I dey grimace o.

sisisioge:

For where! Na grimace I dey grimace o.

na so e suppose be

You and this your wife...
If she isn't driving down to Ikorodu, she is doing anal.
Maybe she is going to Ikorodu to receive the anal.

*in tuface's voice*

no be small thing o
no be small thing o
I say no be small thing o

pocohantas:
You and this your wife...
If she isn't driving down to Ikorodu, she is doing anal.
Maybe she is going to Ikorodu to receive the anal.

Will you shut your lips! People like you are the ones that make others open different username to post just so they wont judge from other post. This has absolutely nothing to do with my first post. Gbeborun.

darsool500:


Will you shut your lips! People like you are the ones that make others open different username to post just so they wont judge from other post. This has absolutely nothing to do with my first post. Gbeborun.

It does o.
It does...check it well.

pocohantas:

It does o.
It does...check it well.

I dont see how it does, if it is to you, then explain.

darsool500:


I dont see how it does, if it is to you, then explain.

lemme tell u a story. a man went to see his dr nd while having a chat, he gisted the doctor about their ex neighour who was very close to his family especially his wife while they lived in a particular area nd birthed their kids. years after, dey relocated and the wife kept lamenting that she missed their good neighbor. he wanted more kids but couldn't have any. dat particular visit to.d dr had revealed that he was unable to impregnate a woman nd he was Gisting the Dr that the birth of his kids was a miracle since he was impotent. aftet the gist, der was a minute of silence as he himself figured out who the real father of the kids are.

my dear, hmm.....check well well. use ur tongue to count ur teeth. im not insinuating anything o.