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In Life, Overtaking Is Allowed. by holuwajobar(m): 8:52am On Feb 18, 2017 |
*OVERTAKING IS ALLOWED*
During my secondary school days in literary
and debating club,my teacher called out 4
students,and he gave them 4 balloons to
blow air into them, until d balloons will
burst. They keep blowing air into them,the
first person was able to burst his,the second
person too. But the third and fourth person
got tired that they couldn't burst theirs . He
asked us,what we learnt then,but we
couldn't deduced anything out of it then.
After,he told us that,the first person bursting
his balloon ahead or before others,didn't
stop others from bursting theirs. Even
though they start blowing the balloons at
the same time,they didn't all burst the
balloons the same time. That is exactly how
life is. You can start a journey with
someone,that the person gets there before
you,doesn't mean you won't get there
unless you stopped moving or trying. When
these students were blowing air into the
balloons,two out of them got tired and
couldn't continue with the blowing again.
That is how some us do behave. When we
see that those of us that we are in the same
age group,or the people will start doing sth
together are ahead of us,or have achieved
before us,we become weary at that point
failing to realize that life is like an express
way where overtaking is allowed. That
someone gets there before u,doesn't mean
u won't get there too. Why you need to see
life as an express way where overtaking is
allowed is because,there have been some
people who have been behind in one time
in their live but since they realised that life is
like riding a bicycle,that for them to keep
their balance,they need to keep moving,are
now people who are currently occupying d
top position(s). They didn't let the success of
others to cowed them into failure. The
current African champions,Cameroon,last
won their continental title almost a decade
ago; but now,they are African champions
because they keep moving. If ur vehicle(life)
is moving on a low level on d express
way,definitely,there is sth wrong with ur
vehicle(life). And until u fix ur vehicle,u can't
move at a fast pace. What are those things
that can hinder ur vehicle(life) from moving
at a fast pace on the express? They can be
ur past failures,fears,worries or your I can't
spirit. Until you fix all these faults in ur
vehicle(life),u will keep moving at the low
pace or even stop moving finally.
Remember,you can't cross the sea(move at a
faster pace) if you don't lose d sight of d
shore(fix those things that are wrong with
ur life). Another thing that can keep ur
vehicle moving at a lower pace there by
restricting u to overtake in life is d kind of
loads u have in ur vehicle. A vehicle that has
no load(fears,worries,I can't spirit) will move
at a faster pace than the one with the loads.
For u to move ahead and overtake to take ur
position,u need to remove every load
(fears,worries,disappointment) from ur
vehicle(life). And if u keep moving at this low
pace,u may find it difficult to get to ur
destination(achieve success). When
someone is moving faster than u,instead of
u to allow his fast pace to stop u from
moving,just fix ur vehicle and keep going. It
is true that u can't go back to make a brand
new beginning,but u can start from where u
are,and make a bright ending.
Don't be discouraged if someone is doing
better or has gone ahead of u because u need
to know that it is not the speed but ur
direction that will lead u to ur destination. Y
must u allow the speed of others hinder you
from getting to ur destination when u have
d direction(focus,motivation,zeal and so on).
Remember,life is a race. In a race,it is not
those that are ahead of u(that are making it
or have made it before u) that u will be
looking at,but you look at the prize before u
(what u are planning to achieve) Why most
people lose in a race is because they focus on
their competitors(others). I want u to know
that winners focus on wining,while losers
focus on winners. Who told u that u can't
make it again? Let me tell u,the ladder of
success is never crowded at d top. But do u
know that u may not see d space at d top if
u focus on those at the top of the ladder
(those ahead of u) instead of concentrating
at d ladder(where you are going and
planning to achieve) What can stop u from
getting to d top of d ladder(career) is when
u start looking at the crowd other than the
ladder itself. If ur attention is on those at d
top of d ladder,then u will never have d
direction to d top because it is what u give
attention that will give u direction. Who told
u u can't make it again because what u are
planning to do or doing already has more
successful people. I want u to know that the
sky is big enough for all the birds to fly.
There own success can't hinder urs.
Remember,'Olamide is still alive,and Lil Kesh
is blowing'. Free urself today from that
notion that u can't make it again because ur
mates or ur junior are making it or have
made it while u are yet to. Shake of that
fear;summon the courage and get started.
You can still make it and be ahead of them
because life is an express way where
*overtaking is allowed*
*Jay-Divine*
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